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29 F Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 9
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Working on university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hey there everyone! :) ..We might as well narrow the results right up front, shall we? I'm a very friendly lady, but I'm blunt!
*briskly rubs her palms together* ...SO!

I'm only seeking locals in my area right now.
Meaning: if I can't drive, bus, bike, walk, or pogo-stick to get to our first coffee date within about an hours time of my home on Capitol Hill, then it's probably realistically not going to work out.
I need to be able to poke at you!

Also.. before all else, I must make mention of my tremendous love for people. I identify polyamorous. :) I'm very happy when I'm dating, and that's not limited to just one person!) :)
- I'm pan-sexual (
- I'm into local/sustainable consumerism and activism
- I'm a Kinky pants! (
- I'm a vegetarian and often a locavore <3
- I often attend Science-Fiction Conventions, farmers markets, flea markets, and the occasional town-hall discussion
- I'm very into erotic tickling
- I attend random sex-positive/LGBT gatherings
- I hang out with weird folks at goth clubs and 24-hour restaurants
- I'm super thrifty
- I listen to a ton of Industrial/80's/electronic music.
- I don't watch TV
- I listen to a lot of talk-radio! <3's
- I like sitting through the credits after movies, and discussing film theory with my date
- I take weekly yoga classes.
- I despise overly-dramatic people, and prefer those around me not dwell in it very often
- I'm pretty darn inquisitive most of the time
- I prefer being blunt. (How un-girly of me, hu?!) :p
- I appreciate a great conversation with light-hearted, open-minded, optimistic, and overall intelligent people
- I love debating new ideas
- I don't really do (or much understand) anger, and can't emphasize this enough. I thrive on good communication.
- I love flesh to creep and skin to crawl
- I'm a pretty chill and accepting person. (while maintaining my sarcasm!!)
- I'm open to my friends, partners, what-have-you; about most everything, and expect you will be open to me too. (Including the history of your crotch.)

BTW: If you're significantly below about the 60-70% mark: There's a very good chance we wouldn't get along very well at all in real life. Just an observation... (and a subtle hint you should READ MORE INTO OUR DISAGREEABLE QUESTIONS and not write to me if we disagree on super key issues like, say... whether or not there is a god) O_o

With that said.. I'm really a nice smiley lady most of the time :D

On the greener note: I love, LOVE, LOVE! organic, local, non-genetically modified, not plastic wrapped, fairly traded goodness. I prefer to shop farmers Markets, and buy most things locally, second-hand or recycled. I cook fresh.. ALOT. Eat more green stuff, people!! It's good for your [insert favorite body organ here].

- I identify non-partisan, but definitely lean lefty for the most part.
- I advocate for single-payer health-care, Death w/ Dignity, Marriage equality for all, the Male Genital Mutilation Bill, a "FairTax" system, a Guest-worker program, the Kyoto Protocol, fair trade, Protectionism, Pro-choice rights, Postmortem organ/body/tissue donation to eventually replace animal testing, and stem-cell research.

I will most likely NOT have a fondness for folks who often say:
"I don't like to get into politics" ;/ *grumble, grumble*

(We will instead discuss topics on todays BBC newscast, or the latest episode of Democracy NOW! .. or bicker on about health-care reform, psychology, philosophy, environmentalism, or the ethics of globalization while cuddling on the couch and exchanging back/neck massages)

I'm an atheist. I have some pretty progressive views about the right to life and our rights as a species to take and give it...but that's getting into a much deeper conversation I'd love to have with you later over Thai food.
I appreciate good food on that note. I like to eat out a time or two most every week. I dig porters and stouts. I drink a lot of green tea and chai. I adore Madison Market, and PCC Natural Market.

(You!! .....Yes You! .. stop being picky and eat something you can't pronounce, already!!! Be spontaneous. Live a little!) :p

I'm a member of the CSPC in Seattle (the Center For Sex Positive Culture)... meaning; I'm a dirty little minx open about my kinks to the community at large (minus my employer and your mom). I don't do the "discreet" thing in relationships.. or "one-night" stands. Ick. I like to get to know people, and have a fun, flirty friendship beforehand. :p I get off on your brains, folks.

Either way.. your secret is out too. Flaunt it. (It gives us many more reasons to high-five or clink our beer glasses)

Also, you will be okay with me being a DORK! Nuff' said.

What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now I'm a full-time student!!
I'm studying a heap of things... psych, philosophy, and biological anthropology this quarter! :D Bio-Anthro rocks.

I'm a frugal lady. I love taking my dates out to dinner with mad coupons in hand, and supplying myself with a weekly dose of thrift store. Heavens love you if you're looking for a thrift-buddy?! <3 I'm surrounded by them up here.

I live in a beautiful high-rise apartment on Capitol Hill overlooking downtown, and have 2 wonderful flight attendant friends as house-mates (which means I get the run of the place more often than not... muahahah!) I utilize public transit and otherwise love walking my beautiful city. I love my neighborhood so much! Mmm.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- long conversations/debates/pondering at 3am

-cooking lower on the food chain

- asking very blunt questions

- watching TNG re-runs

- cuddles and kisses and kitten snuggles <3
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I look a little funny... smell funny too...
(Nah, just kiddin' about the smell)

I have a certain fondness for body modification. I wear a few piercings that stand out, and I sport a lot of odd (often black) clothing and thrifty finds.

People usually notice I'm a good listener, and I generally exhibit an incredible amount of patience. I'm not easily bored. I find most human behavior, art, and conversation usually pretty interesting.

I'm not generally the first to answer in groups because I like to ponder and psychoanalyze people much too much. (I'm often more of the reserved type who mingles one-by-one)

Or, you can ask my dear friend p71victoria about it.. he spotted me out of a crowd randomly for our first meet! :p
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
"Contact" (or most anything Carl Sagan.. Mmm,)...
"The Circle of Simplicity"
"The Long Emergency"
"Silent Spring"
"Sex at Dawn"
"Forks over Knives"
Anything Anne Rice.. yummy)..
"Breaking the Sound Barrier"
and anything from Amy Goodman
"Slow is Beautiful"
The "Ethical Slut" and "Opening Up" (both on Alt Relationships.. awesome)
"The Ethics of What We Eat"
Anything from Jim Hightower
"The botany of desire"
"Second Nature"
"Urban Pantry"
"Animal Liberation"
"The Violence of Our Lives"
... (And I feel so less cool putting mostly Non-Fiction in, but it takes up the majority of my reading, so I guess It'll do) :p

The "Cosmos" Series (Yeah, so shoot me)
Anything John Cameron Mitchell <3's
Anything Monty Python
Cartoon Noir
Anything Gregg Araki
Short Bus
Bad Biology
Anything Tarsem Singh ...OMG, Amazing.
Girl With the Dragon Tattoo
Anything Jean-Pierre Jeunet
Interview With a Vampire
Requiem for a Dream
Better Than Chocolate
Waking Life
Anything Woody Allen
Anything Kevin Smith
High Art
Cloud Atlas
A Scanner Darkly (Most all Richard Linklater)
Porn (I feel the need to mention this, because I watch a LOT)

VNV Nation, Christian Death, And One, The Smashing Pumpkins, The Deftones, Tool, Edenfeld, A Perfect Circle, Depeche Mode, Covenant, Velvet Acid Christ, Joy Division, Bauhaus, New Order, CombiChrist, Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds, Soundgarden, The Prodigy, Collide, Ministry, Enya, Alice in Chains, Love and Rockets, Tones on Tail, Massive Attack, The Pixies, Fleetwood Mac, Nine Inch Nails, Tricky, God Module, Moby, Alien Sex Fiend, Rammstein, Erasure, Portishead, Dead Can Dance, R.E.M, The Smiths, Echo and the Bunnymen, Peter Murphy, Assemblage 23, Ayria, Ohgr, Wolfsheim, Sneaker Pimps, Royksopp, Velvet Acid Christ <3

Foodies: Thai, Vietnamese, Japanese, Korean, Chinese ... (what pattern?!?)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
friends, intimacy, music, travel, spontaneity, individuality
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-Food justice/ethics/politics/policy/animal activism/rights/advocacy; and the debate surrounding their use in the pharmaceutical and cosmetic industries.

-When are environmentalists going to figure out nuclear is our cleanest, safest, most super-green option available?

-What's the next poly-podcast about!?

-Disability advocacy for minority populations

-Do monotheists/theists really REALLY truly believe in God/gods, or are they all just too spineless to actually think for themselves?

-Why do I stare at walls and think so much? :p
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out... dancing/drinking at the local gothy club/beer-oriented bar with a friend or 2, kinkn' it up at a BDSM event, or staying in.. cuddling on the couch with friendlies and nibbles while watching obscure films.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a fantasy about being completely immobilized in bondage "doggy-style"while naked on the floor. My ass is sticking into the air, and my hands and feet secured tightly down to the floor.... while there's a large male dog in the room with me. *bites lip*

...On a more general note: I love the energy exchanged in kink, sex, sensuality, body mods, tickling, massage, cuddling, and the many forms of power exchange out there. Feeding off of one-another is like no other. :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have time to go have some fucking fun around Seattle!
(I go to a lot of movies/conventions/festivals/etc. by myself these days... I would love to have more company!)

You like to people-watch :)

You carry a reusable water bottle?

You LOVE spending time in bed talking and cuddling.

You believe in the power of FLOSS.

You love night-time mischief <3

You often talk SCIENCE! :D

You can appreciate Tempeh or Seitan.

You're lighthearted, and appreciate the "getting there.."

I'm eager to find partners in crime!! *Muahahahahaha...*

(and no, ....b/c one douche-hole decided to ask.. I don't LITERALLY mean find a partner in crime) Jesus Criminy people!!