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31 / M / Bisexual / Single

Paris, France

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
Asian, Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I enjoy food for thought, and I currently spend most of my time attempting at finding a colorful balance through the path of life.

I am sometimes quietly observing people around me, sometimes very extrovert but always brainy and playful.

Anyone interested in Digital Acracy as a political program for our future post consumerist societies?

I'm a sex-positive pansexual involved in polyamorous open relationships and probably inclined towards relationship anarchy. In other words: I'm not looking for anything in particular, but I'm not closed to anything: you could become new friend/lover/partner for a month or decades, or enroll our "village/cluster/communauty", who knows? Don't be shy: ask for what you want!

I am very dedicated to create and maintain equality, consensuality and promoting the autonomy of the people I am in a love relationship with. To complete this natural approach, I am currently exploring the kinky side of my personality.
What I’m doing with my life
Experiencing and theorizing life.

Science & Technology and currently working on future passive income through investments.

And I just started to become obsessed with Paris' Catacombs (which access is illegal). When I say obsessed, I mean that I want to explore them all and try to sleep there from time to time...
I’m really good at
Being easygoing, open, consistent, rational, patient.
Going to the beach, swimming in the sea, snorkeling, bodyboarding.
Skiing really fast while fantasising about making love naked in the snow.
Discussing philosophy, thinking before acting.
Proposing to play "truth or dare" with the hidden motive to turn the evening into an orgy.
Chilling out, spending hours doing almost nothing.

I enjoy witnessing beauty in the diversity of body and face shapes, hairstyles, skin color, smell and touch. I understand "ethnicity" and "gender" as a fascinating continuous spectrum of physical incarnation of human consciousness. The street feels to me like a museum where I am invited to contemplate conscious forms of natural and/or synthetic Art. I wish I had never been influenced by mainstream medias in order to enjoy the beauty of an even wider part of this spectrum than I can now. General style trends such as Blasian, Asian, Black are generally appealing to me without very strong preference for a particular shape, whereas White, Middle Eastern and Indian are generally not appealing to me with some very rare exceptions who I find totally awesome and mind blowing. Difficult to describe skin smells. Color is easier: the darker the better. One point I can't explain: I have noticed that an impressive proportion of the profiles stating "Other" among ethnicity display pictures which are attractive to me. It happened a couple of times where I had some form of (not necessarly drug induced ;) short time epiphany where all humans I was offered to see during this moment looked beautiful and attractive to me: I was totally freed from egotic physical discrimination, and it was so enjoyable! Beautiful emotional and spiritual moments!
The first things people usually notice about me
Long hairs, (arguably) cute face and some say I speak french very slowly for a native french!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Picked a few noticeable items among a vast list:

Books:
The Ethical Slut
Guide des Amours Pluriels
"Island" and "The Doors of Perception", by Aldous Huxley
The Hero with a Thousand Faces, Joseph Campbell
Shadows of the Mind, by Sir Roger Penrose
La monadologie, by Leibniz (here in French or English)

Movies:
Enter the void, by Gaspar Noé
Mr Nobody
Matrix
David Lynch
The Corporation
Zeitgeist
What the bleep do we know?

Music:
Dub Incorporation, Tryo, Ruda Salska
Massive Attack, DJ Shadow, Portishead
João Gilberto, Miles Davis, Erik Truffaz, Caravan Palace
Kid Cudi, Hocus Pocus, Unsung Heroes, IAM, NTM
Chemical Brothers, Prodigy, Fatboy Slim
Rage Against The Machine, Audioslave, System of A Down, KoRn
Brassens, Souchon, Coeur de Pirate, Gainsbourg

TV shows:
Black Mirror
Polyamory: Married and Dating
The six things I could never do without
Bread & water.
Cuddles.
Freedom & Intimacy.
Internet.
Ocean and sea.
Philosophy, Science & Metaphysics.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Depressing ones:

How comes we are so far from being a sustainable civilization?
Why does it seems western countries help maintaining chaos in most of the places where there are resources interests?
Why so much materialism, ego driven capitalist society, competition, hate, violence, greed, etc...? How does it relate with the spiritual concepts of the Decalogue, Sharia, 5 Noble Truths, Hell, Heaven, Satan, God, Lucifer...? Could a Digital Acracy as depicted in "Zeitgeist: Moving Forward" and Aldous Huxley's "Island" be a political tool in transitioning from consumerism to sobriety in our future post "plateau oil" societies?

Happy and thrilling ones:

General Relativity and Quantum Physics. The structure of the universe and reality. What is space-time?
What is consciousness, how does it interact with the material world in the brain? Can Gravity and Quantum theory help explain better consciousness and free will? How does it relate with the spiritual concepts of Samsara, Brahman, Maya, Atman, Monad, God, etc...?
On a typical Friday night I am
No such thing as a typical Friday night, but chances are I am travelling... not necessarily through space.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love to play with you these instruments: our bodies
Desire in our eyes,
Desire in our smiles.
Caresses and kisses,
Lips and tongues.
Breathing and moaning, we play the best of the melodies,
Tickling necks, whispering at ears.
Feet between feet, legs between legs,
On the beats of our hearts we perform the best of the dances.
As our bodies create this Harmony,
I start to feel your soul caressing mine.
Soon I am not kissing you and you are not kissing me:
From empathy emerges symbiosis,
Our feelings connect,
We become One in the Spirit.
Soon One is kissing oneself, touching One’s skin,
Caressing One’s tongues against each others.

De cet instant fugace mon esprit s’évade,
Dans un vertige saisissant je réalise:

One could be any, One could be every;
One could be him, One could be her;
One could be billions, One could be alone.
This eternal instant is paradise.
You could be me, I could be you;
Travelling across all lives, we could all be One.
A bliss, an insight, an epiphany
Vision of God
A bliss, an insight, a theophany
Sharing Love
A bliss, an insight, a theory
Feeling as One

Sensuelle Théophanie
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 18–34
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You would like to chat about an interesting topic or meet.
Definitely drop me a line if you found something attractive about me, even if you don't know what to say! Just write something silly ;)

Mandatory requirement:

...you are open to being open! I've tried monogamy so many times, and it's just not for me. Never been a cheater, but I feel like I am polyamorous by nature.
This requirement applies mainly for serious relationship. But we can still be friends or activity partners without sharing this conception of love; maybe even date casually as long as you are respectful of this lifestyle, and not trying to trap me in an exclusive monogamous relationship with you, or even expect me to consider you as "my" "primary" lifetime partner. You would be so disapointed: I don't hierachise relationships. I truely believe that monogamy is as great as polyamory when it matches the personalities and choices of everyone involved, but it's just not for me at all.
You should especially respect, be kind and patient with the limits and boundaries of the people I am already in a relationship with. I am for instance easily envious of the traditional gender role of women in seduction, strict with sexual hygiene, and I refuse to have children (I am not totally closed to adoption though), while an hopefully lifetime partner AsianEva (she is in OkCupid too and will surely enjoy getting to know you) is transitioning to polyamory, she is easily afraid of being left out or abandoned, while other partners wonder whether they could be commitment phobic, etc... Each of the deep love relationships I take part in is unique relationship anarchy, and some partners involved with me are as well in unique deep love relationships together.

...you are easygoing.

...in the case where you are contacting me for the sole purpose of rapidly sharing physical intimacy without any emotional or intellectual bonding, please be clear and straight forward about this. That's clearly not what I am looking for here, but I will try my best to keep an open an honest attitude and my answer to your request will be clear too. (Advice: swingers and escorting websites are more targeted for this specific quest).

Optional but great plus:

...you would like to mind fuck me, as in "drastically change my perception of reality".

...you are a bisexual man, about my size, more on the active side... and you have a desire to teach me your psycho-social super powers ;) I am quite sapiosexual, especially with men.