I am a good lover but an even better friend. I believe people should be judged by how they treat others when no one else is looking. I almost always try to do the right thing, even if my idea of the right path is sometimes a bit unique.
My big metamorphosis since joining OKC a few months back is that, rather than seeking an affair, I've approached my wife about an open marriage. While we've not yet gotten through all the emotions and decisions that come from that, I certainly feel much better about myself for doing so. Thank you, women of OKC!
I frequently talk in parentheticals (you too?!) and love a good tangent.