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29 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 19–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:01am
Asian, Pacific Islander, Hispanic / Latin
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Tagalog (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Just passing moment to moment, like our ancestor the monkey passes branch to branch as he makes his way on the high road through the forest at night.

I seem to have missed a branch or two, but I persevere.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Intraoperative Monitoring Specialist by day. Trying to keep it all together by night.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
1. Not taking life seriously.
2. Procrastinating - I really do myself a mischief sometimes (and by sometimes I mean always).
3. Being stand off-ish unintentionally - I seem to suffer from Bitchy Resting Face (google it). But I'm actually quite nice - as long as you're not creepy (and even then I like a good creeper every once in a while.)
4. Hating ego; my own and everyone else's.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have no idea. Something good I can only hope and/or imagine; maybe my ginormous nose?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books/Authors I like: Our Lady of the Flowers, Invisible Monsters, Joy Luck Club, Mysteries of Pittsburgh, Rules of Attraction, Perks of Being a Wallflower, White Oleander, Naked Lunch, The Demon Haunted World. Anything by Richard Dawkins/Carl Sagan/Alan Harrington. Might throw in some Oscar Wilde in there if I'm feeling ambitious, inspired, or can't sleep.

Films: Party Monster, Donnie Darko, American Beauty, Cruel Intentions, The Fountain, Indochine, Memoirs of a Geisha, The Amazing Truth About Queen Racquela, A Single Man, Love Actually, My Best Friend's Wedding, Paris Je T'Aime, Les Amours Imaginaires, J'ai Tué Ma Mere, Do Começo ao Fim.

Music: Midnight Magic, Hercules and Love Affair, Perfume Genius, Jessica Six, The Knife/Fever Ray, The Sounds, Gossip, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Noisettes, Cut Copy, Antony And The Johnsons, Dangerous Muse, Blondie, Robyn, QUEEN, Erasure, Madonna, Gaga, Adele, Dalida, Cat Power, STRFKR, Marina, Goldfrapp, Pet Shop Boys, Hunx and His Punx, Semi Precious Weapons, Scissor Sisters, my gurl Whitney (of course and may she rest in peace), LCD Soundsystem and other indie-queer-disco-punk-electronic-pop sounds.

Food: Bibimbap, caldereta, pho, adobo, kare-kare, tikka masala, yakitori, all seafood, fruits, and bacon.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Daily shower
and family/friends of course, and in no particular order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
1. My abusive relationship with New York City - I fell down the stairs, I ran into a door, he's just really stressed out. I love him, he'll come around, it'll get better between us.
2. Taking chances.
3. Trying to get what's in my head out, by any means necessary.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
1. Getting the stink eye from old women across the train - who at the sight of me begin freestyling the rosary at 118 beats per minute - on my way to tromp in Hell's Kitchen.

2. Shamelessly flirting with/terrorizing bartenders in the East Village.

3. Exploring around in Brooklyn like a street walker.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I always say that blue is my favorite color, but it's actually grey.
You should message me if
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Just do it - no ifs, ands, buts, butts, or buttes about it.

Looking for kindness, altruism, realness, quiet confidence, and great big white teeth.