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31 Hilo, HI Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 20
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, and very serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hawaii born and raised. Im a lifer on this big rock. Educated, skillful, and compassionate.

Off-grid living. If something needs to be done, I can do it, or teach myself. "jack of all trades, master of none" fits me well, except that I am damn good at anything I really want.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I own a piece of land that I tend to every day. I also surf, sail, build, help, and drink good beer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Remembering the really good advice I got, a few years too late.

Being polite to elderly people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't know. The first thing I notice about myself is that I'm often an inadvertant asshole.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read books like a blue whale eats krill. I really like to eat good food. I also enjoy good movies, shows, and music.

If your idea of a good match is someone that enjoys the same movies and TV shows, we aren't a good match.

Music artists I'm listening to a lot right now includes Bonobo, The Polish Ambassador, Sublime with Rome, Cage the Elephant, and Hot Sugar. The partituclar track I'm listen to as I type this is "Hot Sugar - the girl who stole my tamacuchi"

I feel like this question in particular is auxiliary to the purpose of the website.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
the sun
the sea
the land
the rain
my family and friends (plants and animals)
some delicious food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Improving my land.
My various neglected responsibilities.
How's the surf?

Honestly, I spend a lot of time trying not to think about anything. I'm mean, shit. What about the state of the biosphere? And the situation in west Africa? what about the copper shortage? Is solar PV more environmentally friendly than fission power?'s the surf?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home or a friends house, eating and drinking good. Not too much, because I got things to do Saturday morning.

An atypical Friday night is usually legendary.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have made serious mistakes in my life, and I fear that even a lifetime of work won't absolve said mistakes. (note: I've never killed anyone)

PS to those with "lol if it wasn't private why would I admit it" the damn question, you twit. Basic language understanding is a prerequisite.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You need advice on how to spend your lottery winnings

You read my profile and laughed more than once

You enjoy kink in bed

You have a deep and abiding love for the life on this planet

You have a deep and abiding need to know more.

You want to exchange gardening here for gardening there

3+ of the above is sure-fire friendship.