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5′ 8″ (1.72m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Norwegian (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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¨¨°º©Hi everybody!©º°¨¨

So, who am I??.....
A question I keep asking myself , and keep on giving shape with each new step every day. I don't believe anyone to be a fixed as a person. We change every day, and we are what we tell ourselves and choose. So all I can say is who I am right now and what I have done in my life so far :-)

I am A Norwegian girl, with a gypsy heart and a zest for life.
My name is Aasa (Åsa) (derived from the old viking mythology - Aasatrú, and means "goddess" (wuhu!)

I am not a very "typical" Norwegian - I am more emotionally dominated and most of the time I am happy, cheerful and outgoing. (I am very much an ENFP if you know the MBTIs :-)) I am a peace-loving person who adore social interaction and meeting new people (A typical ENFP with hints of INFP, if you know the IMBTs) , and besides art, it is mostly what drives me in life.

I am excited about things that I love and just life in general. I am very enthusiastic, intense and energetic - I have a lot of energy in me, and I adore spending it on other people, interaction and passion. I am also a very honest person - just ask me anything ;-)

I cannot live without my writing, paintings, drawings or photos -art and expression is a part of my reason for living....I love music, literature, theater-( both performing and watching ),playing, mythology, psycho[logy, philosophy, movies, games of all kinds, discussions, new people, languages, science , politics ( I am a Libertarian socialist, who strongly believe in egalitarianism, but I always love a discussion), cultures, , comics, cartoons, drawing, costumes, computer-editing or creating, the night, painting, cheese, writing , learning, food and cooking, sensory pleasures, fine cheeses and red wines, art-photography risk-taking, excitement, exploring, adventures, the subconscious, mysticism, traveling, traveling and traveling - all in a good mix.

Although I am an agnostic, I am also a highly spiritual and philosophical person, and I am very interested in different kinds of mysticism, philosophies and world/soul/life understandings. I am especially fascinated by Zen Buddhism, Taoism and different mythologies.

I love anything that's creative and challenging. I am full of contradictions in my personality, but my dominant features are : childlike, caring, playful, empathic, quirky, strong and positive with a BIG serious side as well.

My view on life is that I learn from everything, so there are no regrets, just experiences to take knowledge from. There is something positive in anything if you are open to seeing it. I prefer to find solutions and work on and with them, a practical approach is always best when it comes to poblems, I feel.

I am an open-minded spirit that is very frank and open about what I feel and who I am. I feel that you cannot judge people before you have walked in their shoes or slippers. And if you manage to do that there is no reason for judging, as deep understanding and compassion takes the judging element away.
I hate mind-games, manipulation, control and narrow-mindedness, as I grew up with some of these things around me. So I have done everything to learn from it and take myself on a different road.

I don't consider many emotions negative, just part of lives different aspects. What is told to be negative will also be so in your eyes. I experience sorrows and griefs just as part of life - and then they become wonderful parts that can teach me new things and deepen the range of my hearts emotional capacity. The only things I see as negative are the things you give into that stops yourself from growing.

I am working very consciously and hard with going through and leaving behind some old patterns and roles that are not me, but coming as a result of happenings in my past. I feel that I have come very close to resolving them recently and that has empowered me to dive even deeper into all matters of my "darker sides" that needs attention. I am no wuss, ha ha! ;-)

Oh, and I have been a vegetarian for 20 years now. (Update: I have started eating fish again)


PS1: I hardly hardly ever answer any messages here, just the very few that really grabs my attention. I am Sorry - don´t take it personally if I don´t answer you, or just answer you once and then stop. I am sure you are a great person - I just know what I like in people when it comes to giving them my attention and time, and it is very narrow. I am quite peculiar in many ways, and therefore few people truly match me deeply. But if you feel that it has hurt you in some way, just message me and tell me. I am sure I can mend and make you understand why. There are just so many messages I get here so i can get a bit lost too you see :-)

PS2: Please dont insult my intelligence with a message like "You are pretty" or "Hi, how are you. What are you doing today?" I know you can be more inventive than that, and if not, I wont answer you, as 80% of my mailbox already si full of boring messages like it.

Life is goooooooooooooooooooooooooood whopiiiiiiiiiiii!!!!!!

I have made a new webpage for my work! WHUPPIII!
Check it out and tell me what you think.


From My Facebook Profile:
About Me:
Freelance photographer
Educated in Barcelona, Spain and Oslo, Norway

I am New, Every, Day
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have done several different things in my life so far. Worked as a photographer, in kindergartens, studied art, philosophy, psychology, languages and linguistics. Traveled around in several countries, and lived over longer periods in Oslo, Norway (my birth country) Germany (Ulm and Berlin), Spain(La Gomera and Barcelona), the Caribbean(Dominican Republic) and Seattle (USA)

The world is my home, and I never get enough of exploring it.

Right now I am at a new starting point. I am looking and searching for several new things in my life, to give my life a deeper sense of meaning.
So I am also looking for certain things:

*That special city/country to settle in. I am tired of rootless travels. I want to have one wonderful place to settle, that will be the base for my journeys into exploring the world more also, but building a fundament there where I can set roots. It might be in two different countries, one of them my birth country Norway, for half of the year.

*The outer frames for where I can practice the work I love (art, crafts and photography) in the place I am settled in. (Update: have come quite far on this one, and grown much as a photographer and artist. But of course this is a path that never stops, but always keeps evolving)

*Create and explore the meaning of a deeper love-relationship.

Other than that? Just being a playful person, continuously curious about life , people and the world. Committing, learning and exploring. Finding the deeper sides of life as well as the light and fun ones.

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Oh... all of that and dragons! I love dragons!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being loving and supporting

Understanding and listening to you, whoever you are

Being enthusiastic (!) and bubbling over with ideas

Giving massages and daydreaming...not at the same time though.

Being creative and come up with wacky new plans and thoughts

Being an optimist and cheer you up

Being open minded (maybe too much ?)

Talking and playing and talking some more (and a little more)

Analyzing everything from people to abstract ideas.

Pondering life, love and the unconscious mind

Helping you on your road in life

Being silly and surreal

Being opinionated but yet flexible and open

Being 30% crazy.


............just being..............


I am really bad at: (Working on all of this and improving)

Not answering back if you are rude, or anything similar (I have a big mouth, he he)

Shutting up and not give my opinion

Sending you SHORT mails if I really klick with you

Waiting...for anything (I cannot express how much I hate waiting. Still have gotten pretty good at it though)

Focusing on one thing for a long time (Update: Really good at this now actually)

Completing and sticking with all my ideas (Argh - this one is a tricky one, but very important for me to improve)

Being detail oriented and doing things slowly

Just accepting that not everything has an answer

Behaving as I "should" , follow authorithy or take orders

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Dragons... again... well... really.. dragons and kitchen cabinets... don't worry if you don't get it. If you're worthy... you will
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If I am really into something I give it ALL of my burning
attention. That goes for activities, ideas, people,
things, and expressing my thoughts.

How important dedication, honesty, and ideals are in my life.

That I am both extremely extrovert AND introvert. I love people, and I find social interaction to be one of the things I could never live without; it energizes me and I thrive on it. At the same time, I also love and need to be alone
regularly and deeply enjoy it.

Physically? Maybe my lips.


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Again, and I realize it's getting to be a bit predictable but...
dragons. Somehow people aren't used to that anymore it

Oh.. and before I forget... bowler hat !
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
ANYTHING that touches my heart, gives me a zizzles or moves my emotions or makes me think in a new way. I like everything from (labels:) popular trash culture to underground "weird"-stuff ;-)

Here are some of my current favorites of mine for you:
Novels/poetry: Pablo Neruda, Haiku, Tao Te Ching , A new earth - by Tolle, Naiv - Super by Erlend Loe, Patrick Suskind - The perfume, Kafka on the Shore by Haruki Murakami, The propht by khail Gibran, The unbearable lightness of being by Milan Kundera, The little prince by Antoine de Saint Exupery, Steppenwolf, Stranger in a Strange Land, The complete guide to the galaxy by Adams, The Discworld series by Pratchett (should be tried by everybody who loves the hitch-hiker),Alice Walker - The Color Purple, Crime and punishment by Dostojevskij, Anna Karenina by Tolstoj, Dracula by Bram Stoker, The mists of Avalon by Marion Zimmer Bradley, Memoirs of a Geisha by Arthur Golden, The Tao of Pooh (everybody should read this - excellent!), Helter og monstre paa himmelhvelvingen (stories from greek mythology), Siddharta by Hesse(Anything by Hesse), The old man and the sea by Hemingway, A song of ice and fire by George R.R.Martin, Simon och ekarna by Marianne Fredriksson, Through the words (+ Through Chaos) by Marie Cardinal, Anything by Amy Tan (especially "A hundred secret senses"), One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Everything written on Winnie the Pooh by A.A.Milne, anything written by Torbjørn Egner. I could go on forever so I think I will stop here. (Yes, I am a huuge bookgeek) I also love reading non-fiction :) I guess I just love to read, throw me something to read and see me devour it, ha ha!


Films: Anything that really appeals to my analytical or philosophical mind or my heart. In general - any movie that shows creativity behind its making. I hate gory movies though - am too sensitive to take it, and dislike violence.

Some examples: Amelie, Shine, Run Lola Run, My idiot brother, Monsters ball, Central do Brazil, Edward scissor hands, The Piano,Italiensk for begynnere, Il Postino, The phantom of the opera, Ice age, The Curse of the Were Rabbit ,The Shawshank redemption, David Lynch films : Lost highway, Mulholland Drive etc, Immortal beloved , Amadeus, The green mile, LOTR, Monsters Inc , Donnie Darko, Monthy Python movies, Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, Merlin, Benny and Joon, One flew over the cuckoo's nest, Sommernattens leende, Chocolat, Shrek, The chicken run, The unbearable lightness of being, Rain man, Dracula (by Francis Ford Coppola), Ronja Roeverdatter. I am forever in love with Twin Peaks (the series, Krzysztof Kieslowski, Tim Burton, Kubrick, Lynch, and of course Ingamar Bergman(The man is a genius. Every freaking word has a deeper meaning!)
Also lovelovelove documentaries....about almost anything really :-)


I like a lot of different music, but am mostly into rock of any kind, Indie, folk, classical, goth, world music, medieval and jazz. Here are some current favorites: Tori Amos, Cocorosie, Cultus Ferox, P.J.Harvey, Nick Cave, Corvus Corax, Nine Inch Nails, Imperiet, Sigur Ros, Jan Garbarek, David Lynch and John Neff, Anja Garbarek, Loreena Mckennit, Eva Cassidy, Julee cruise, Rammstein, Radka Toneff, Carmina Burana, The Doors, Beethoven, Elvis, Louis Armstrong, Edith Piaf, Dead Can Dance, Portishead, Prokofiev, Angelo Badalamenti, VNV Nation, Ani DiFranco. I especially have a thing for "powerfull", creative and weird women who sing (like Cocorosie) - it tend to catch my ear easily.

If you have some music you want to share with me I would TOTALLY LOVE IT!

My Favorited food flavors are like life: mixed and full of contrasts. So the tastes I like the most are 'sweet and sour' or 'sweet and salty'. Opposites are so different in your experience of them, that they awaken you, force you to think and be dynamic and alert. This is something that I find to be very alluring, both in food, people and life :-)

I have a weak spot for tapas, Mexican or Indian food (Thai is also great), but I also love to cook new things I haven´t tried out before. I especially love making desserts and cakes!(Cheesecake, oh my oh my) I also have a sick nearly dependent love for cheese and good, quality red wine OR ANYTHING with garlic on it(!)

Here's tree categories I would like to add: Artists: Mark Rotkho, HR Giger, Munch, Dali, and Man Ray. I love expressionism, surrealism, symbolism, art neauveaux and experimental photography. Miguel Rio Branco, Diane Arbus, David Lachapelle. I love everything emotional with underlines that makes you think in a new way, combined with mythological or spiritual themes. A little sensual darkness to spice it up doesn´t hurt either ;-)

And Poets: Rumi, Hafiz, (Sufi poets) Karin Boye, Inger Hagerup, Edith Sodergran, Astrid Hjertnes Hansen, Olav H Hauge, Tarjei Vesaas, Hans Børli, Stein Mehren.

And Comix: Calvin and Hobbes, Jason, Ernie, Pearls before Swine. Savage Chickens, Chuck and Beans, The far side, Neil Gaimans work, Vallhall (Peter Madsen), Nemi


From My Facebook Profile:

Books: Tao Te Ching,A New Earth,The Prophet,The Little Prince,The Hitcher..Discworld series,The Color Purple,Crime and punishment,Dracula,Memoirs Of A Geisha,The Tao Of Pooh Siddharta,The Old Man And The Sea,Through the words,Demian.

Movies: Amelie,Shine,Run Lola Run,Central do Brazil,Edward Scissorhandshands,The Piano,Italiensk for begynnere,Il Postino,Bagdad Café, Into The Wild...
Monthy Python,Coppola,Kieslowski,Burton, Kubrick, Lynch,Ingmar Bergman,Almodóvar.

TV Shows: Twin Peaks (love), In Treatment, South Park, True Blood.

Music: Rock, Jazz, Indie, Folk, Classical, Electronica, Opera.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Six? Why? PFT! Rules are normally just guidelines to hold the society together and are often taken too far. In the en d people can´t see the forest for all the trees. ;-)

The basic things I would´t want to live without are:
The ability to reflect and learn, tenderness, love, intimicy and understanding, physical contact, meaningful communication, excitement, childlike playing, pleasures, creativity and deeper meaning(s) heart
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The enjoyment of simplicity.

The small things in life that has enormous beauty.

The sound of silence.

An unopened letter.

The smell in the air just before it starts to rain.

The smell of the man I am in love with (this is an absolute fav ;-)


Where am I going? / What do I want? What am I searching for deep down? What is my drive / my deeper meaning?

Why like that? Whats behind? What's in it? What's under all of it? What does it mean?
Why did I do that? Why did he do that? What was the deeper meaning in those words? Is a joke just a joke? Why did I do/say this? What was my real intentions behind it all?

What is it all? / Is there an objective meaning or only a subjective one?

etc etc etc etc etc...

.........and sometimes..........

That maybe I think to much ;-)

OR.... I am just totally blank for really long, only focusing all my energy on doing - without thoughts, just dwelling in being and the world - and I love that, ha ha!


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25, aeroplane, barca, canon, astronauts, spoons, light, joy. And obviously the links between those. You can see them as well, right?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
yes, indeed, then also.....I am...*nod* - isn´t it GREAT!?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If you wonder about anything - Just ask! ... very few things really embarrass me anymore and if it`s not against some inner feeling of protection I will always answer you - I am brutally honest...

You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
....You are looking for a good friend, or just somebody to have fun, philosophical chats with

You too wear mismatching socks

If you think you can learn me something new....(;-))

If you like to sit on rooftops looking at stars...

If you like to climb trees...

If you would like to join me in endless walks in a dark forest with tall impressive trees under a sky filled with moonlight...

if you are brave enough to face your demons in life, and want to tell me about it.

If you love art, photo, theater, acting, music, movies or literature...

If you are a passionate and compassionate person...

If you are a spiritual person...

If you are a hopeless romantic with a tender heart

If you love traveling, discovering new cultures and languages...

If you can tell me a weird little story that you make up just for me...

If you believe in the magic of life...

if you want to get to know me and think we can share something great or fun together.

Or just if you want to

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But most importantly, if you take yourself and life serious enough not to take yourself and life to seriously!