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22 • Parainen, Finland • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–25
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 1:19pm
- 6′ 3″ (1.90m)
- Body type
- Strictly other
- Not at all
- Atheism, and very serious about it
- Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from high school
- Less than $20,000
- Wants kids
- Dislikes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), Finnish (Fluently), Korean (Poorly)
I'm envisioning long nights of epic chats and possibly some video gaming depending on your likes. Or board games. Or jogging. You can suggest anything really. I'd like someone I could hug.
That's the important part :)
If you're smart as well and like to talk about philosophy and all the deep stuff, great! I generally get more out of personal topics but am much better at the cold hard stuff.
I am looking for a partner as well as friends though...
So if you happen to be pretty or have a nice butt I might develop some feelings for you besides the friendly love.
Can't be helped, but I don't mind the friend zone, in case you're not into me. It's a cool place.
I have very weak physical and psychological motivation, and a somewhat higher social one (working on those). This makes it hard for me to summon strength and will for study or exercise, but not as difficult to contribute to relationships.
I have tried to take up a myriad of constructive hobbies, including piano, boxing, running, weight lifting, Japanese, Korean, photography, audio diary, stick fighting and so on. Ran out of motivation for each. So now I just play games, read, and surf online. Whenever I can't be with my friends that is. I love me some friends.
Let me tell you a Minecraft anecdote. I don't really know if it counts as one, I just really wanted to write those two words in the same sentence. Anyway: When I build something, it's never an intricately designed, detailed piece of architecture. Never. What I do build instead are massive constructs of geometrical simplicity. I invest time, since I do not have the creativity or skill. That is what I do with all my gaming.
I like to think I'm really good at hugging and cuddling and the like <3 So far everyone has agreed on that. To my horror my female friends have told me that it is refreshing to hug a man without being felt up.
Oh, oh and physical work is something I enjoy. Scrawny as I am, I like it infinitely better than mental work. When my body is working, I can still do what I wish with my mind (listening to podcasts, random wandering). It doesn't hurt my ego either. A man has a biological need to feel useful.
Also, since my break up, I stopped cutting my hair and that was almost two years ago. Although it was just a while ago when I realized the two events might be related, and turns out its something people do pretty often when they break up.
3) Long black hair
4) Always wearing a navy blue double trench coat
That last one sounds creepy now that I think about it.
Movies? I don't like horror. Its scary :D
I rarely watch movies. Only when something fairly high profile comes out. Django Unchained, The Hobbit, all Marvel movies...
Shows? My favorites are Miraculous Defeat & Victory, Star King, Star Golden Bell and especially Invincible Youth. To throw in something recognizable, I have all seasons of House and Breaking Bad and I also watch Game of Thrones. And I love Avatar.
There are exactly two types of music I listen: game music (almost exclusively FF, with some TES mixed in) and K-pop. I
am 소원. [EDIT: Have given up Kpop, turns out it was a phase]
I can like pretty much any genre of music and almost any song. I don't think my brain works like most people's in this issue. You see, I don't like music because I "just like it". I am always conditioned into liking each separate song. That's why I like game music so much. Everything that happens in a game during the game when a song is playing on a background, gets attached to that song in my brain. I know this happens in all people but for me it's much more important and powerful as it is the only method which by I start liking a song or an artist.
That's why I don't really listen to music that much, I find (or usually rediscover) a song at best once every few months.
When it comes to food, as a general rule I don't like it. I wish I did, since I'd love to gain some weight, but it just tastes really bad. Thankfully there are a few exceptions. It also seems that I like fluids much better than solids. I don't appreciate people implying that it's somehow my fault that everything tastes bad.
3) People who agree with me
4) People who disagree with me.
5) A social safety net.
6) My friends.
I strongly dislike these kinds of lists.
I had to make a conscious effort not to write "water, nourishment, warmth, a central nervous system..."
And lucid dreaming. Oh god. I need to learn how to do that. Seriously.
But lately... About a year ago. I thought a thought too far. I reached a new level of comprehension on death. And I really wish I hadn't. Now I am really afraid of death. And I am trying to justify and argue the fear away just as I argued it into existence. But I haven't been able to yet.
I like bars too, but never alone.
You can use either English or Finnish. Or both. And please, ask anything you wish. I LOVE answering questions about myself :3 I'm really good at it too, it being a subject I happen to know a lot about.
Unfortunately I am not a very active conversationalist online, I have a hard time maintaining interest unless the topic is especially stimulating, such as religion, morality or sex. Forgive me.
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