48 Raleigh, NC
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My self-summary
I'm a pretty happy go lucky girl, thus the name. I try to smile all the time...look at the bright side of things and motivate people as well as myself to get things done! I'm always working on myself, being a better person inside & out. I am physically fit and am always striving to be better...being over 40 makes it more difficult sometimes but I work hard at it! I eat pretty healthy, but of course enjoy eating and indulging at times. You have to live and not deny yourself...Life is waaayyy too short!!! :)
What I’m doing with my life
I am a mother first & foremost of two amazing teenagers and live for them. I am currently a fitness instructor and I finally achieved a long desired goal of becoming a certified personal trainer! LIfe is busy for me but it's all good!! Bettering myself and helping others achieve their health & fitness goals is my passion!

I am looking for that special man to be my partner for the second half of my life. I thought I had my soulmate, but things changed and we grew apart. You know they say "life is tooo short" and it's true...I needed to change things to find what I truly deserve...I have lived the past 20 years for my family and now it's time to live for ME and find that person to complete me...enjoy time with me...adore & respect me...be my best friend, appreciate me and the one that can be my soulmate to spend forever with! I desire a true unconditional passionate love! I want to be with a man who is proud to have me on his arm when we go out, who tells me I look hot or sexy....a man that can just enjoy whatever we do together, even just lying on the couch watching TV. Are you that man...the one that will make me smile when I get a text or when he says my name...the one that will make me laugh or make me a better person?? Maybeee......

Please no smokers..that's a total dealbreaker for me! And please NO long distance relationship ideas...just doesn't work for me! Thank you! :)
I’m really good at
exercising, cooking, listening, talking, laughing & taking care of others.
The first things people usually notice about me
are my eyes and my smile or so I've been told! :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Ok....I do love to laugh so comedies r awesome! Dramas are great...Netflix is my friend to chill out to lately!! Don't have much time to watch tv! Chick flix of course!!! Dont love being terrified but a not sooo scary movie cld be fun to watch w/someone who will hold me & make me feel safe! All music...I need music to live!!!

Not an avid reader, but I can so no worries there hahaha I have read a few books, but nothing tooo deep. I wish I had more time and energy to read, but by the time my day ends I'm ready to hit the pillow and crash.

Food....well I am pretty cultured in this area! I love ethnic cuisines...thai, indian, ethiopian, japanese (luv me some sushi), greek, italian of course (being 100% Italian) but i also cook really well & love to do that!!!
The six things I could never do without
My children...chocolate...laughter...exercise....friends & family....love & affection....Music...the ocean and the sunshine...sunrises & sunsets!!!!!! Not necessarily in that order and I know it's more than six...sorry!!! ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my future, my kids and the man I will spend the rest of my days with.
On a typical Friday night I am
If it's my weekend w/the kids I would like to just chill out with them but being teenagers they make their plans. So Friday us for relaxing & decompressing! Friends or my guy just bring together. I'm not very high maintenance so anything is fine w/me. I'm a pretty laid back simple girl!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
THAT you will have to get to know me to hear! ;)
You should message me if
you are looking for that special woman to spend time with, build a friendship and start a relationship with. Realize that I said start a "RELATIONSHIP" with...not lookin to just be with a man. If you want a partner in life to laugh with, cuddle up close to and talk with I'm your girl! :)

Could our first date be our LAST FIRST DATE EVER????? Hmmmmm That's nice to think about and hope for!!!!!! ;)