So here it is. I am a very empathic, caring man. And because of that it is difficult for me to tell someone that I am just not interested. To try and eliminate that stress, I am going to tell you what I am looking for. I'm sorry if this upsets you, but if you aren't this person, do you really want to waste your time? I won't tell you that I'm tall if I'm not. (I am 6'2") I won't tell you that I'm tan if I'm black (I'm not, see my pictures). I use those as examples because I have had ladies tell me that guys will say anything to get a face-to-face meeting, because they just knew that once the lady met them, they would change their mind. It doesn't work. If you lie to get to meet someone, why should they trust you enough to go any further (even if you are super awesome and they might have overlooked what you lied about if they met you a different way) I expect the same thing in return. If someone lies to me, we're done.
Now I will tell you exactly what I am looking for (or hoping for). If you aren't pretty close, then I wish you the best of luck, but I'm not the guy for you. Please read these and be honest.
What I am looking for: A lady who can carry on an intelligent conversation. A lady who can go from hiking/camping to a charity ball and fits in both. A lady who cares about her appearance. A lady who likes to have fun. Ambitious, but not stuck on comparing us to the jones' or smiths' or whoever's. A lady who is happy with who she is and doesn't need me to make her happy. (If you have to have someone else make you happy, you never will be) A lady who is not looking to have kids, but understands that I do have two younger boys and they come first. A lady who likes to flirt with me and wants to flirt, whether it's our first date or 25th wedding anniversary. A lady who challenges me to be better than I am, but doesn't judge me if that better isn't perfect. A lady who isn't looking for someone to take care of them. I am not a sugar daddy. I will not 'help out' with bills or pay you to come see me. (It really important that you are within driving distance of Oklahoma City) A lady that enjoys sex with the right partner, not with anyone who comes along. I need to be physically attracted to you. I am sorry if this sounds shallow, but there is a difference between curvy and overweight. If you are overweight, I wish you the best, but it won't go anywhere with me. I don't want to lead anyone on. I am being honest.
If you have read this far and are not completely angry, understand this: for the right woman, I will be her knight in shining armor, her prince charming, her best friend, her lover, her companion and her partner. It will take some time to get to know her; to find out she is the right woman, so she should not be in a hurry. If you are that woman, we will get there. If you have read this and think you might be her, message me, I would love to hear from you.