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JustBe_DC

31 / M / gay / Single

Boulder, Colorado

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 3" (1.90m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism and laughing about it
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Student
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Polish (Fluently), French (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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I am passionate, romantic, and genuine.

My Self-Summary

After a very successful career in technology I said so long to the rat race, and started a new life following my new found passion for Chinese Medicine. I've been studying Acupuncture for the past year and recently decided to switch schools and move to Boulder. Who knew sticking needles into people would be so fun! Bwahahaha, j/k ;)

I grew up with Gandalf the Wizard being my role model, and always dreamed of magic being possible. I found that magic in Eastern philosophy and learning how to live harmoniously with the the flow of nature. Over time this made me less neurotic, happier, and more fulfilled.

I love Japanese Pop music and Anime, and Startreck though I've not owned a TV for a couple of years and watch occasional movies on my laptop. Don't worry, doctors say its normal, its not contagious, and I'll be ok ;) I also love T'ai Chi, meditation and any self-development associated with confronting the mind as the final frontier to our evolution in being more alive, more compassionate and more authentic. I've a whole lifetime to learn, and a whole lifetime to share.

Whether its discussing the latest political issues, evaluating the merits of stucco versus other paint finishes, people watching, pontificating on the nature of reality, giving personalities to cats and shapes to clouds, going to a high-society concert, working in the yard, or biking and hiking - it all sounds fun and part of what I love to do.

I'm really excited about all the stuff I'm up to, would love to expand my horizons, learn more and to share that journey with new friends and a partner who are following their own passions and pushing themselves further upward and onward. Maybe we can help eachother live a well lived life.

What I’m doing with my life

I've been a software developer for over a decade, and though the riddle solving has brought me much satisfaction, I moved into managing a development team. Eventually I realized that working for the man was really no longer satisfying. I decided to quit my prior career and go study Chinese Medicine and acupuncture.

I’m really good at

Cooking, photography, singing, gardening, cleaning.

The first things people usually notice about me

My eyes, my grin, my laugh, my openness.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Favorite books: Lord of the Rings, Wicked, Roads to Sata
Favorite movies: Silence of the Lambs, Eddie Izzard Dressed to Kill, Kill Bill 1&2, Holy Grail
Fave Anime: Trigun, Ghost in the Shell, GTO, Witch Hunter Robin, Cowboy Bebop

The six things I could never do without

Colors of the evening light, crackling of fire, running water, Autumn, driving my car, the joy of spending time with other people.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Questions that have no answers. Answers that have no Questions.

On a typical Friday night I am

Planning random acts of adventure and weekend roadtrips! Lighting candles, playing some music, cooking, and spending time with friends. Hang out at a coffee shop, going out to dinner, or curling up over a movie at home, avoiding crowds and continued work on home projects.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'll update this when I think of something :-D

You should message me if

You're not completely put off by my long-windedness ;)