~ UPDATE ~ 1/18/14
When I joined okcupid I thought I was sooo ready for love and to
find my one and only .... Boy, was I wrong LOL I'm soooo over being
shy and hiding. One could say I've had an attitude adjustment. LOL
I'm ready to meet life head on, the good and the bad. No longer
will I ride in the back of the bus nor in the front ... From now on
I'm driving it !!!! So if anything about me, my profile, or my
answers to the questions interests you, message me cause you ain't
seen nothing yet..... I'm just getting started :-P
I am complex in many ways and very simple in others. I have a very
good sense humor and love to laugh. I believe a smile can brighten
a whole day. Words are the strongest weapons in the world and if
used wrongly, they can crush a spirit, but if used wisely, they can
lift a spirt to sore in the clouds. God didn't put us here to bring
each other down but to lift one another up. My mama raised me
right. I was taught to speak to someone when they speak to me. I
was taught about common courtesy. If a person waves or smiles at
me, then I wave and smile back. My mama taught me to be this way to
everyone, but mostly to be the one that speaks, waves, and smiles
first. Friendliness is contagious. I want to start an epidemic.
It's a long road home and I'm not looking for someone to carry me
or to push me, just someone to make the journey with me. As Joyce
Meyer says " I might not be where I am supposed to be but thank God
I'm not where I used to be".
What I’m doing with my life
Living one day at a time. Trying to be a light in a sometimes dark
world. Raising my kids by the grace of God. Taking care of my
family which includes three of my four kids, a chocolate lab and 3
I’m really good at
Sarcasm !!! Wondering why sooo many people think the sun rises and
sets at their butt crack. News flash..... IT DOESN'T !! At not
being a nag, complainer, or pest. Answering questions on okcupid.
At being a bit of a smarta$$. Ok more than a bit.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably that I'm not a super model. So if that's what you're
looking for, you must've clicked on me by accident and you may now
go back to browsing. After they see that I don't have the face,
body, or income of a super model, I'd say they notice my eyes. Next
thing would probably be my sarcastic sense of humor. Maybe the
humor before the eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm very flexible in what I like to watch, read, listen to, and
eat. I love diversity.
Favorite radio station is KLOVE
The six things I could never do without
My God and my kids are about the only two things I can think of
that I can't live without. I enjoy a great many things and would
miss having them but I could live without them.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I try not to think too much, it makes my head hurt.... Yet I still
do a awful lot it. LOL
On a typical Friday night I am
Home hanging with my family. Then answering questions on okcupid.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Shhhh, I don't want this getting around, but since it's just you
and me here...... My natural hair color isn't really black. Don't
You should message me if
You can laugh at something if its funny, including yourself. You
want to know more. If you want to know what a sugar glider is. If
you message me I will respond. Ignoring people is rude and
inconsiderate. If you have a question, I WILL answer it, no holds
barred. We don't have to be a perfect match to be friends.