I hate getting IMs on OKcupid from people I don't know. If I don't know you, send me a regular message.
I prefer relationships of the non-monogamous/polyamorous variety.
I live with my boyfriend. If that's a problem, move along. I am more interested in ladies than men, but I'm open to the right person.
I'm a bit of a gypsy nomad an tend to move a lot and I like it. I'm from a bit of everywhere but will always consider Chicago my true home.
Hmm, what else... Well, I don't know where I'm going with my life, or what I want to do. Right now I'm just compiling a list of things I've tried only to realize they aren't for me. So if you're looking for the professional college graduate type, I'm just not there yet. Not sure I ever will be. Instead, I spend my time going from one wikipedia page to another exploring the universe, then reading the discrepancies in the forums and vomiting up random facts later. I like zombie movies, cooking,dogs, arts and crafts, wine, whiskey, being silly, and having long conversations about nothing and everything from philosophy to making up weird stories that are pure nonsense in the best sense.
I have trouble taking myself seriously while trying to translate the spectrum of my personality onto a dating website. I have trouble taking myself seriously. I have trouble. Seriously.