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JustKiddingLeon

28 / M / Straight / Single

Salisbury, Maryland

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:22am
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 4″ (1.93m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and very serious about it
Sign
Taurus
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Other
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Dislikes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WibmcsEGLKo
That is my philosophy. You can call it naive, and you may be right, but it is my strength and my identity every day.

You can never go wrong by learning more. I believe that it is our duty to seek to improve the world. Don't cling to pain. Don't expect happiness. Don't fear loss. Don't accept injustice. Enjoy the good. Endure the bad. Be selfless, and unconditionally kind and just, without ever expecting a reward. Knowledge and compassion. Dignity and strength. Every day make sure you help someone. Make sure to respect and acknowledge all sides of all things. Everyone is a person first, a member of groups second, a sum of their parts third, innumerable other things fourth, and a reflection of your biases last.

I'm a people person and I have a positive optimistic outlook on life. If I have problems I fix them. If I have free time I look for things to do and people to make happy. I don't get mopey, angry, or insular. I am honest and straightforward, talkative and kind. I like women who are aggressive and with high self-esteem than borders on arrogance. I strive for passion in all things. Nothing half-way.

I try new things for no reason other than the fact that I've yet to try them. I retry things I disliked in the past because I realize that I could have changed. I try not to second guess myself and instead just go for things, while being aware of risks of course. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take, as some guy once said. I see that quite a few people on here describe themselves as "laid back" and I'm glad that that can work for them, but I don't see that as a positive thing. I like action, passion, movement, and large groups.

I'm big on health and wellness. I eat healthily, exercise, and I stay away from smoke and (most of the time) alcohol. Health is very sexy to me. An unhealthy lifestyle is a major turn off.

I love sociology and statistics. I've been told that I have to stop trying to analyze everyone because I come off as detached sometimes. I go to midnight black friday sales without my wallet just because I like to observe the behavior of groups. I rearranged the the letter keys on my keyboard so that they're in alphabetical order. I home cook almost every meal I eat. I don't believe in gender roles. I am a huge advocate of sex education and I believe that shaming people for their sexuality is a huge problem in modern America. I respect honesty above all things and I consider censorship, superstition, pseudoscience, and religion to be inherently dishonest and intolerable. I stay up to date on politics and policy and respect people who do the same.

As far as purely superficial things, I like tall women, lanky women, angular features, legs, and a sharp fashion sense. I also tend to be attracted to women who are a little older than me.

Things that I dislike? Smoking (very important), religion (also very important), dishonesty, passivity, silence, tactlessness, sloppiness, and social conservatism.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm working and saving up money. I'm trying to improve myself a little bit everyday, whether it's financially, physically, emotionally, or intellectually. I find strength and fulfillment in these small actions.

I hope to soon move to western shore and pursue a career in government, from the research / statistical analysis side. I had an internship set up with the department of justice, but circumstance prevented that. Soon enough though, I will make it happen!
I’m really good at
Cooking, rational discussion, seeking and retaining knowledge of both the useful scientific and useless trivia kind, social theory (but not economic theory, sadly), feminist theory, geography, organization, nutrition, cheering people up, and being a voice of reason in heated discussions.
The first things people usually notice about me
The same thing that everyone more than 2 standard deviations above average height says... my height! Also the fact that I like to talk a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Ender's Game, Good Omens, The Discwold Series, Sherlock Holmes, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy

Movies: Back to the Future, Cast Away, American Beauty, Zombieland, Hot Fuzz, Pulp Fiction, Scott Pilgrim vs. The World, Indiana Jones, Cloud Atlas, Thank You For Smoking, The Departed, Foodmattters, Forks Over Knives

TV shows: Game of Thrones, Louie, The League, Pushing Daisies, Friends, Futurama, Archer

Music: The Offspring, The Foo Fighters, Garbage, The Mountain Goats, The Who, Led Zeppelin, Chicago, Flogging Molly, KMFDM, Nobuo Uematsu

Video Games: I've gotten away from video games in the last 5 years or so, but I still play Minecraft and Skyrim. Sometimes I still go back and play Final Fantasy VI and Yoshi's Island. Great games, those.

Food: Mexican, middle eastern, Thai, vegetarian things. Every time I go grocery shopping I make sure to buy one thing that I've never tried before. I'll try anything twice (once could be a fluke, twice establishes a pattern)

I've yet to try Indian food, but I'd like to. I've heard only good things.
The six things I could never do without
My social progressive morality
My lust for knowledge
My honor
My health
My internet connection
My sense of adventure
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Politics, human rights, exercise, food, chemistry, Things I can do for people that are important to me, things that I can do to improve the world, things I can do to improve myself.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working until 11:30 or so, then a mad dash to clean up and go out to the bar to attempt to meet people. I generally don't drink much, but I like to go to be around people and socialize.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Anything that you feel like asking. I am a bluntly honest person, and am not ashamed of anything that I have done. In fact I enjoy talking about things that many people would find sensitive. I don't believe in shame or regret.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 21–99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
- You realize that social and cultural norms are human constructs and that we, as human beings, have the power to make our own decisions outside of those structures.

- You are interested in discussing politics, human / civil rights issues, personal philosophies, or moral / ethical structures.

- You like men who are tall, strong, respectful, conversational, trusting, and generous, and you're not disgusted by hairy chests, glasses, atheism, liberal philosophies, vegetarianism, or a lack of college degrees.

- You want to share recipes or discuss fitness or health.

-You are 5'10"