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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 45-63
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:20am
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a shallow cad seeking a mindless bimbo for a deep, meaningful relationship. Have a passion for humor, needless to say, authentic connections, learning, concern for the world around me (my politics are left of center), indy/art films, intense music (mostly classical, but like jazz, rock, etc), the outdoors, animals of all kinds, exercise. I don't have a passion for possessions, although I'm not adverse to them.
I want a lot out of life while making every attempt not to take myself too seriously. Also, while having my own seems increasingly remote,
I enjoy kids a lot and while it´s not a requirement, I would be very open to a mate with children. In addition, while I'm certainly interested in finding a long term partner, I think it's a good idea to be friends first. Plus I'm interested in new friendships as well, even if things don't turn romantic. I have two good friends I met via OKCupid.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Former public-interest lawyer, current journalist, classical and improv cellist, real estate mogul. Starting to do overseas journalism/media trainings.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being irreverent, seeing the absurd and laughing.
Also good at listening, especially when I remember to do it, and procrastinating, even when I don't remember to do it.
The first things people usually notice about me
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You'll have to ask them or decide for yourself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies - The Great Beauty, Museum Hours, Truly, Madly, Deeply; Big Night; Burnt by the Sun; Diving Bell and the Butterfly; East of Eden; Five Easy Pieces; The Edge of Heaven; The Lives of Others, Antonia's Line, just about anything by Jim Jarmusch and the Coen Brothers. In short, foreign/indie. Recently getting into silent movies with live bands - have you heard of the Alloy Orchestra?
Music - World music of all kinds, especially Juju, Mahler, Bach, Beethoven, Bartok, Ravel, Stravinsky, Debussy, Talking Heads, The Beatles, Motown, Mingus, Miles, Monk, Coltrane. Just heard/saw some amazing hip-hop.
The written word - NYTimes, New Yorker (what is it about NY?), The Progressive, The Nation, Reader Supported News
Fav books - Franny and Zooey, Native Son, Zealot, An Unquiet Mind, Drown, One Hundred Years of Solitude, Chronicle of a Death Foretold, East of Eden, Women in Love, Difficult Loves, Peoples History of the U-S, Guns, Germs and Steel, The Story of Ferdinand, Tenth of December, Into the Wild, This is the Story of a Happy Marriage, The Drama of the Gifted Child
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A significant other or the possibility of one
Opportunity to learn
Something good to read
Exercise - primarily biking, hiking, yoga, swimming, weights
OK, fine, so that's more than six. Whatever!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The choices one continually has, and how you can instantly flip a potentially negative reax into a positive one with compassion and humor. Then there's the whole idea of projection and how we create our world. And, while I'm not particularly drawn to meditation, I am interested in non-dualistic Eastern approaches. And finally, least we forget, all the injustice and suffering flying around this crazy planet.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
W/friends, either out and about or at home, watching a good movie or play, iistening to or playing music, contemplating my navel. And I'm doing more dancing these days.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'll tell you when I know you better
You should message me if
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Any of this makes any sense, and/or you want to laugh.