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Just_Gustav

62 M Washington, DC

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a shallow cad seeking a mindless bimbo for a deep, meaningful relationship. Have a passion for humor, needless to say, authentic connections, learning, concern for the world around me (my politics are left of center), indy/art films, intense music (mostly classical, but like jazz, rock, etc), the outdoors, animals of all kinds, exercise. I don't have a passion for possessions, although I'm not adverse to them.
I want a lot out of life while making every attempt not to take myself too seriously. Also, while having my own seems increasingly remote,
I enjoy kids a lot and while it´s not a requirement, I would be very open to a mate with children. Also, while I'm certainly interested in finding a long term partner, I think it's a good idea to be friends first. Plus I'm interested in new friendships as well, even if things don't turn romantic. I have two good friends I met via OKCupid.
What I’m doing with my life
Recovering public-interest lawyer, journalist, classical and improv cellist, teacher/trainer, real estate mogul. Starting to do overseas journalism/music trainings.
I’m really good at
Being irreverent, seeing the absurd and laughing.
Also good at listening, especially when I remember to do it, and procrastinating, even when I don't remember to do it.
The first things people usually notice about me
You'll have to ask them or decide for yourself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies - The Great Beauty, Museum Hours, Truly, Madly, Deeply; Big Night; Burnt by the Sun; Diving Bell and the Butterfly; East of Eden; Five Easy Pieces; The Edge of Heaven; The Lives of Others, Antonia's Line. In short, foreign/indie. Recently getting into silent movies with live bands - have you heard of the Alloy Orchestra?
Music - World music of all kinds, especially Juju, Mahler, Bach, Beethoven, Bartok, Ravel, Stravinsky, Debussy, Talking Heads, The Beatles, Motown, Mingus, Miles, Monk, Coltrane. Just heard/saw some amazing hip-hop.
The written word - NYTimes, New Yorker (what is it about NY?), The Progressive, The Nation, Reader Supported News
Fav books - Franny and Zooey, Native Son, Zealot, An Unquiet Mind, Drown, One Hundred Years of Solitude, Chronicle of a Death Foretold, East of Eden, Women in Love, Peoples History of the U-S, Guns, Germs and Steel, The Story of Ferdinand, Tenth of December, Into the Wild.
The six things I could never do without
Community
A significant other or the possibility of one
Humor
Music
Opportunity to learn
Something good to read
Exercise
OK, fine, so that's more than six. Whatever!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The choices one continually has, and how you can instantly flip a potentially negative reax into a positive one with compassion and humor. Then there's the whole idea of projection and how we create our world. And, while I'm not particularly drawn to meditation, I am interested in non-dualistic Eastern approaches. And finally, least we forget, all the injustice flying around this crazy planet.
On a typical Friday night I am
W/friends, either out and about or at home, watching a good movie or play, iistening to or playing music, contemplating my navel.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll tell you when I know you better
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 45–62
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Any of this makes any sense, and/or you want to laugh.