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27 Trenton, NJ Man


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  • Ages 21–32
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Last Online
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Black, Native American
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it matters a lot
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I feel that there are infinite ways to define a person, and I absolutely love that. I love to look deeply into the divine aspects of beings and things and take the time to appreciate and love them. Tell me what you believe in. What mark you want to make on the world. Tell me what your favorite TedTalk is and why! What movie made you cry last and what scene did it! Mine was interstellar. Fucking love that movie.

My favorite words: Gratitude, compassion, mindfulness, love, light, meditation, silly, play, Namaste :-)

I'm also very interested by astrology actually, so again I'll apologize for going all over the place there before, hahah. Both my rising and ascendant signs are in Gemini ^_^

Want to meditate together, have a deep conversation, laugh and joke over some diner French toast, then I'd love talking with ya.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am working as a server at Changs, taking a small break from school to build my own income with my own businesses, one being with a health and wellness company doing promotion for them to help people switch to healthier alternatives.

I also am blessed to say I am a practicing Reiki master teacher, meditation instructor and partner with Ambience Artistry :-)

I'm also going to school to become a math teacher, although my ultimate goal is to also teach mindfulness meditation to our youth, and give them the tools to live with an open heart for themselves, more room for self acceptance and for compassion for others.

I work out on the regular by going to Kung-fu. Been involved with martial arts for quite sometime now and so I also am a junior instructor at the school :-)

Also just trying to find some new like-minded people to hang out and have fun with ^_^
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Spontaneous Dancing (Especially at work.)

Talking a lot about energy healing

Im good at serving and taking care of people, even though its my job, its something I really enjoy doing too.

I suppose I'm good at kung-fu as well.

I'm good at listening and putting others before myself.

Good at cuddling (cuddle buddy please?)

I'm sure there's more stuff I'm good at.. Like breathing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm tall. Get the question all of the time, naturally of course so it doesn't bother me at all. "You must be a mean basketball player huh?" My reply, "Not so much. I'm the balance of tall people that makes the other tall people really good at basketball.. Because I pretty much suck at it. They send me a check about every six months or so."

My hair, smile, and positive energy from what people have told me are other trademarks qualities.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Perks of Being a Wallflower, Tuesdays with Morrie, Picture of Dorian Grey, All of the Harry Potter Books :-) All of the Twilight Saga (don't judge please lol) and All of The Hunger Games Series, Buddha in Blue Jeans, Daring Greatly or any studies from Brene Brown and vulnerability, Compassion and Meditation: A spiritual dynamic between Budhism and Christianity (one of my absolute favorites), Tao Ti Ching, Siddhartha, The Dhamapada, a few from author Mantak Chia, No Self No Problem by Anam Thubten, and damn near anything on Eastern Philosophy. I love self help books as well and reading theories on bettering society and equality. Western philosophy is cool too, I'm just a little more captivated by Eastern.

Movies: I <3 Huckabees was one of the most profound philosophical and phunny movies I've ever seen lol, Hangover, 21 Jump Street, The Avengers, The Dark Knight Rises, (A new favorite thing of mine to do is catching movies opening night too :-) so fun) My Best Friend's Girl, The Avengers, Iron Man, The Dark Knight, Stranger Than Fiction, Memento, The Majestic, Fight Club, Inception, anything Chris Nolan really. lol. Snatch, Despicable Me, Finding Nemo, The Emperor's New Groove, Eternal Sunshine for the Spotless Mind, Wreck-it-Ralph, Life of Pi, Cloud Atlas, Flight, The Fountain, Many more

Shows: America's Best Dance Crew I've always absolutely loved, I could just talk about that show forever. Avatar: The Last Airbender is another TV Show I have always absolutely loved, All the investigation shows, CSI, Psyche, Monk, all of those are cool. Archer, Bob's Burgers I'm starting to watch too, Samurai Champloo, Orange Is The New Black, Death Note, TED TALKS!

Music: Massive Attack, Portishead, Jaga Jazzist, Explosions in the Sky, 65DaysOfStatic, This Will Destroy You. I also love meditation music, sounds of nature and such. Little Brother, Foreign Exchange, Elzhi, Common, Lupe Fiasco. Silversun Pickups, Linkin Park, Queen of the Stone Age, Priestess, 30 Seconds To Mars, Lauryn Hill, Adele, Arcade Fire, Frank Sinatra, The White Stripes, Wu-Tang, The Killers, Norah Jones, Nujabes, Screaming Females, Kendrick Lamar, Childish Gambino, Isaiah Rashaad.. See how I'm bouncing back and forth here? Lol, that is my taste in music. NOTE: That I honestly don't like listening to Lil' Wayne or Nicki Minaj..

Food: is wonderful. I am not at all a picky eater. I just love food. Only thing I don't eat anymore is pork
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
--Family-- I know they are not really "things," but I can't not put them on this list. Heaven knows where I would be without them. And I'm including both my family, and my Kung-Fu school here too because they too have made up a huge part of who I am.

--Connections-- Seeing people smile, and listening to people talk about things they love and are passionate about, like travelling, or their career, or their pets ^_^ Sharing experiences with people, laughing and smiling with them. Brings the deepest sense of joy to me to see others smiling and happy about things

--Food-- Especially sweets. Gemini sweet tooth is twice as strong, lemme tell ya.

--Cellphone-- To call my family and so they can call me wherever

--Breath-- Without this blessing, I most certainly would not be able to enjoy the previous things mentioned.

Only five. Why? #ThugLife
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Mindfulness. Compassion. Kindness

Consciousness, spirit, the secret, law of attraction, how to live wholehearted with an open mind and open heart

Why people worry so much.

Spend a lot of time thinking about my family in Georgia, my mom, sister, nephews and nieces. Miss them a lot, but always see them at least once a year before fall semester starts.

I spend a lot of time thinking about how to practice being a more virtuous and overall better person too and just what that means to me. "With our thoughts we make the world we live in," is a quote from the Buddha, so I suppose I try to think about how to practice making that world. I have learned that compassion is one of the most important things for sure. And learning just that small piece has greatly changed my life for the better.

How to pass on and teach the virtues that I've learned to young minds, beginning with my nephews and nieces.

A person's personness. Questions like: What's your story? How did you get here? Why are you here? What do you believe? What do you practice? What do you value? What your dreams about? How do you want to change things? Better yet, how do you want to effect things? What brings you joy? Contentment and happiness? Why does it seem like those feelings are so fleeting? Expect vs Accept.

It's one of the greatest feelings to me to be able to share pieces of our view of the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working. Pretty rare I ask for a Friday night off, as it's kinda my money day. Being a server and all of course.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I struggle with admitting to myself when things have a hurtful effect on me, and I have a tough time finding the balance between accepting that something has with the compassion in my heart and moving forward.

The reason I'm willing to admit something so private to me is because to open up about things that I may better develop and grow I feel is a beautiful way to productively talk about stress and what does hurt us so that it all can become positive, nurturing energy for us :-)

And I really friggin love cuddling.


I bow to the divine within you. ^_^
You should message me if
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You'd like a new friend. What I would really love is someone I can go to yoga with in the area, like Princeton or Yardley or Trenton. Someone I can practice mindfulness meditation with especially.

That's the kind of connection I really value over or at least before anything physical. Being in one another's presence, laughing, being goofy, talking about life and thoughts and so on :-) Someone I can enjoy becoming a better person with while enjoying living fully

But I enjoy chatting with people from all over, and do well to keep in contact with friends that even live across the country using Skype, so if you l live a little father away but would still like a pen pal, or Skype pal, hah, it would be a pleasure virtually meeting you as well :-)

It would be a plus though if you really liked meditation, kung-fu (kung-fu movies, or martial arts in general, lol), diners, and/or chatting over cafe drinks ^_^ Oh, and if you're really into astrology too! I love learning more and talking about that as well.

I do hope to hear from you, but wish you all of the happiness in the world just for Being :-) Thank you again for visiting