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27 M Trenton, NJ

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Last Online
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Black, Native American
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it matters a lot
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
"Love, oh Govinda, seems to me to be the most important thing of all. To thoroughly understand the world, to explain it, to despise it, may be the thing great thinkers do. But I'm only interested in being able to love the world, not despise it, not to hate it and me, to be able to look upon it and me and all beings with love and admiration and great respect" From Siddhartha by Hermann Hesse. A quote I like to think I live by, definitely makes me smile ^_^, and sums up a bit of what I passionately believe in. Compassion.

Hello by the way, and thank you very much for coming to visit my profile.

I feel that there are infinite ways to define a person, and I absolutely love that. I love to look deeply into the divine aspects of beings and things and take the time to appreciate and love them. I feel that giving that gratitude, that silient but loud appreciation, of which my favorite expression is in a smile, gives everything the better chance to blossom into even more beauty.. heh, I tend to get a bit passionate about this belief and practice and can sometimes get lost in my wording, haha, so I hope all of that made some sense :-P

I love compassion, appreciate stillness and love just as much as I love craziness, dancing around making jokes and just having a good time. (Like most here, I'm a fan of sarcasm too) My coworkers and friends have told me before that when I just speak to them it brings a sense of calm.. (Heaven bless their hearts, love them) and about two seconds later I can be found skipping, cartwheeling and singing a baraton rendition of Rolling in the Deep by Adele. Playfulness is just another way of loving being if ya ask me :-)

I'm polite, a believer in chivalry, respectful, and I can act pretty goofy too, especially if its for a laugh. I don't take things too seriously, but I do have a big heart, and I love living a life that keeps it open.

I'm also very interested by astrology actually, so again I'll apologize for going all over the place there before, hahah. Both my rising and ascendant signs are in Gemini ^_^

So, if I've peaked your interest at all, let's be friends ^_^
What I’m doing with my life
I am working as a server at Changs, taking a small break from school to build my own income with my own businesses, one being with a health and wellness company doing promotion for them to help people switch to healthier alternatives.

I also have a practice with Reiki and giving treatments and being a wellness coach with another amazing company called Ambience Artistry :-)

but I also do freelance Reiki sessions as well for all of those who need it and seek it. I've done sessions both in person and long distance for pets, events, as well as people of course :-) this is my true passion. To help people's spirits to grow.

I work out on the regular by going to Kung-fu. Been involved with martial arts for quite sometime now and so I also am a junior instructor at the school :-)

Also I go to a buddhist meditation group when ever I can, I love reading when ever I can as well; I try to take my Kindle wherever I go and read on breaks or in between whatever I've got going on.

Also just trying to find some new like-minded people to hang out and have fun with ^_^
I’m really good at
Being a good brother, son, and uncle. Making sure I'm the best I can be in those areas above all because I love my family. Most of pictures I do have, although they don't reveal a lot of me, they do show what's important to me. Family, and spiritual growth.

Spontaneous Dancing (Especially at work.)

Using my hands with Usui system of Reiki. Pretty good at giving massages as well, especially foot messages, heh.

Im good at serving and taking care of people, even though its my job, its something I really enjoy doing too.

I suppose I'm good at kung-fu as well.

I'm good at listening and putting others before myself.

Good at cuddling (cuddle buddy please?)

I'm sure there's more stuff I'm good at.. Like breathing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm tall. Get the question all of the time, naturally of course so it doesn't bother me at all. "You must be a mean basketball player huh?" My reply, "Not so much. I'm the balance of tall people that makes the other tall people really good at basketball.. Because I pretty much suck at it. They send me a check about every six months or so."

My hair is the other I get a lot of compliments on I suppose because I try to keep it up and neat. The two H's. My hair and my height ^_^ (Side note: If I'm not at work, I do have a bandana usually on my head though as you'll see in the pictures I'm sure.)

I've been told also that I have a warm, inviting vibe about me. That was cool. Cause I'm pretty sure I didn't threaten whoever said it to say it so I could put it in my okcupid profile.

Pretty sure.

I've also got many compliments on my smile at work as well. Pretty frequently ^_^ Same people that say something about the warm vibe are usually also saying something about my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Perks of Being a Wallflower, Tuesdays with Morrie, Picture of Dorian Grey, All of the Harry Potter Books :-) All of the Twilight Saga (don't judge please lol) and All of The Hunger Games Series, Buddha in Blue Jeans, Compassion and Meditation: A spiritual dynamic between Budhism and Christianity (one of my absolute favorites), Tao Ti Ching, Siddhartha, The Dhamapada, a few from author Mantak Chia, No Self No Problem by Anam Thubten, and damn near anything on Eastern Philosophy. I love self help books as well and reading theories on bettering society and equality. Western philosophy is cool too, I'm just a little more captivated by Eastern.

Movies: I <3 Huckabees was one of the most profound philosophical and phunny movies I've ever seen lol, Hangover, 21 Jump Street, The Avengers, The Dark Knight Rises, (A new favorite thing of mine to do is catching movies opening night too :-) so fun) My Best Friend's Girl, The Avengers, Iron Man, The Dark Knight, Stranger Than Fiction, Memento, The Majestic, Fight Club, Inception, anything Chris Nolan really. lol. Snatch, Despicable Me, Finding Nemo, The Emperor's New Groove, Eternal Sunshine for the Spotless Mind, Wreck-it-Ralph, Life of Pi, Cloud Atlas, Flight, The Fountain, Many more

Shows: Don't watch too much tv really actually, but if I do though.. America's Best Dance Crew I've always absolutely loved, I could just talk about that show forever. Avatar: The Last Airbender is another TV Show I have always absolutely loved, and I'm loving season 2 too ^_^ Awake is pretty bad ass show too. All the investigation shows, CSI, Psyche, Monk, all of those are cool. My favorite cartoon series thus far though is Samurai Champloo. Fav of all time.

Music: Love all music really but my favorites are more laid back electronic kinds of music. Trip Hop bands like Massive Attack, Portishead. But my actual favorite band is a neo-jazz type band named Jaga Jazzist. I also love Bands such as Explosions in the Sky, 65DaysOfStatic, This Will Destroy You. ^_^ When Studying, when driving, when doing damn near anything <3 I also love meditation music, sounds of nature of course and so on.

More favorites in other genres I have are Little Brother, Foreign Exchange, Elzhi, Common, Lupe Fiasco. Silversun Pickups, Linkin Park, Queen of the Stone Age, Priestess, 30 Seconds To Mars, Lauryn Hill, Adele, Arcade Fire, Frank Sinatra, The White Stripes, Wu-Tang, The Killers, Norah Jones, Nujabes.. See how I'm bouncing back and forth here? Lol, that is my taste in music. NOTE: That I honestly don't like listening to Lil' Wayne or Nicki Minaj.. At all really. I've got some views on artists like that, no disrespect to them or course or to anyone that does enjoy their music.

Food: is wonderful. I am not at all a picky eater. I just love food. Have been looking a lot lately at the more-so vegetarian path though. Feel like it's only a matter of time, lol.
The six things I could never do without
--Family-- I know they are not really "things," but I can't not put them on this list. Heaven knows where I would be without them. And I'm including both my family, and my Kung-Fu school here too because they too have made up a huge part of who I am.

--Connections-- Seeing people smile, and listening to people talk about things they love and are passionate about, like travelling, or their career, or their pets ^_^ Sharing experiences with people, laughing and smiling with them. Brings the deepest sense of joy to me to see others smiling and happy about things

--Beads-- Whether it's a mala bracelet or necklace, I can really feel uncomfortable without them on me. They're really just reminders of the things that I try to practice for spiritual growth, to be kind and compassionate to others, but they also are a reminder of how things are impermanent and never as solid as they seem.

--Food-- Especially sweets. Gemini sweet tooth is twice as strong, lemme tell ya.

--Cellphone-- To call my family and so they can call me wherever

--Breath-- Without this blessing, I most certainly would not be able to enjoy the previous things mentioned.
I spend a lot of time thinking about

What my life theme is.

Mindfulness. Compassion. Kindness

The future.

Why people worry so much.

Spend a lot of time thinking about my family in Georgia, my mom, sister, nephews and nieces. Miss them a lot, but always see them at least once a year before fall semester starts.

I spend a lot of time thinking about how to practice being a more virtuous and overall better person too and just what that means to me. "With our thoughts we make the world we live in," is a quote from the Buddha, so I suppose I try to think about how to practice making that world. I have learned that compassion is one of the most important things for sure. And learning just that small piece has greatly changed my life for the better.

How to pass on and teach the virtues that I've learned to young minds, beginning with my nephews and nieces.

A person's personness. Questions like: What's your story? How did you get here? Why are you here? What do you believe? What do you practice? What do you value? What your dreams about? How do you want to change things? Better yet, how do you want to effect things? What brings you joy? Contentment and happiness? Why does it seem like those feelings are so fleeting? Expect vs Accept.

It's one of the greatest feelings to me to be able to share pieces of your view of the world. :-)
On a typical Friday night I am
Working. Pretty rare I ask for a Friday night off, as it's kinda my money day. Being a server and all of course.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I struggle with admitting to myself when things have a hurtful effect on me, and I have a tough time finding the balance between accepting that something has with the compassion in my heart and moving forward.

The reason I'm willing to admit something so private to me is because to open up about things that I may better develop and grow I feel is a beautiful way to productively talk about stress and what does hurt us so that it all can become positive, nurturing energy for us :-)

And I really friggin love cuddling.


I bow to the divine within you. ^_^
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–32
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You'd like a new friend.

I also really enjoy chatting with people from all over, and do well to keep in contact with friends that even live across the country using Skype, so if you l live a little father away but would still like a pen pal, or Skype pal, hah, it would be a pleasure virtually meeting you as well :-)

It would be a plus though if you really liked meditation, kung-fu (kung-fu movies, or martial arts in general, lol), diners, and/or chatting over cafe drinks ^_^ Oh, and if you're really into astrology too! I love learning more and talking about that as well.

I do hope to hear from you, but wish you all of the happiness in the world just for Being :-) Thank you again for visiting!