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28 Chicago, IL Woman


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Oct 29, 2014
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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Why, hello. I am an adult human who sometimes makes music and movies, is always covered in cat hair, and is interested in creative collaboration, weird sounds entering my ears, occult theory and practices, altered states of consciousness, the history of and potential in porn and erotic entertainment/art, interacting with new and old people and animals, humans as individuals and as a collective... and I have other interests and facets of my personality, as well.
What I’m doing with my life
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Doing vintage gay porn restoration/trailer editing work, playing music with others and without others (I'm a dabbler, so: cello, bass, keys, theremin, whatever else I have access to...... wishing that included steel guitar), socializing with cats and humans, helping out with friends' creative projects here and there, working on various film/music/performance/queer stuff-related events, attempting to learn things, intending to make movies again, trying to get my shit together.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I guess: music improv, sleeping soundly on any surface, creepily remembering the details of everyone's astrological chart, researching, daydreaming, procrastinating, clone-stamping.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Not sure, but I would love to know the answer to this. Would be super handy. Alas, I think it's probably some sort of nervous aura that hangs about me and is ultra-apparent at all times. IS THIS TRUE??
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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So hard to make movie/music lists of a reasonable length........

BOOKS: Shirley Jackson, Patricia Highsmith, Sarah Waters, Liz Greene, Mary Roach + much else

MOVIES: Pagan Rhapsody, The Craven Sluck, The Haunting, Repulsion, Rosemary's Baby, Possession, Shivers (aka They Came from Within), Dead Ringers, Desperate Living, Sin in the Suburbs, The Curse of Her Flesh, She Mob, The Alley Cats, Score, The Devil in Miss Jones, The Night Before, The Idol, Ballet Down the Highway, Chained Girls, Let Me Die a Woman, The Beguiled, Reflections in a Golden Eye, Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf?, All About Eve, What Ever Happened to Baby Jane?, A Woman's Face, Strait-Jacket, The Abominable Dr. Phibes, Hausu, Phantom of the Paradise, The Telephone Book, Lord Love a Duck, Zardoz, Barbarella, Xanadu, Grease 2, I Know Who Killed Me, Pee Wee's Big Adventure, Tetsuo: The Iron Man, Switchblade Sisters, Coffy, Carrie, The Piano Teacher, La Cérémonie, Irma Vep, Portrait of Jason, Paris Is Burning, The Celluloid Closet, The Devils, Antichrist, Melancholia, The Holy Mountain, Conspirators of Pleasure

SHOWS: Pee-Wee's Playhouse, Pete & Pete, The X-Files, The Fall, Buffy, Angel, Bewitched, Daria, Parks & Recreation, Comedy Bang Bang, Kids in the Hall, The Twilight Zone, Jem & the Holograms

MUSICS: Kate Bush, Kate Bush, Kate Bush, song-poems (, 'outsider music,' soundtracks, Sylvester, Bee Gees, Chic, Machine, Donna Summer, ELO, Slade, Roxy Music, The B-52's, Siouxsie, Fad Gadget, Bauhaus, Chrome, Suicide, Skeletal Family, X, The Sonics, Screamin' Jay Hawkins, The Space Lady, Yma Sumac, Rodd Keith, The Supremes, Helene Smith, Wanda Jackson, Hank Williams, The Carpenters, Minnie Riperton, Piero Umiliani, Alessandro Alessandroni, Roy Ayers, David Earnest, Sam & Dave, The Four Mints, Depeche Mode, early Ministry, early Madonna, Prince, Lost Sounds, Coachwhips, The Gories, The Mummies, Human Eye, Rasputina, Zoe Keating, Rachel's, Coil, Death Grips, Diamanda Galás, Light Asylum, Gravy Train, Lime, The Egyptian Lover, Cybotron, Techotronic, La Bouche, 'Rhythm of the Night' by Corona on repeat forever

FOODS: sweet potatoes, butternut squash, brussel sprouts, guacamole, hummus, everything bagels, kale, pineapple, Thai food, Ethiopian food + does beer count?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Food, cats, people, music, collaborative projects, obsessions.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ethical conundrums, grey areas, belief/lack of belief, good/evil, science & pseudoscience, supernatural/paranormal phenomena, ectoplasm, astrology, "energy," altered states, patterns, synchronicity, symbols, Satan, Joan Crawford, costumes, queerness in movies and TV, movies in general, porn history, erotic entertainment and art, my brain and how to work with it, cats, cute girls, people I know, people in general, interpersonal dynamics, psychology, weird museums, kink, good food and good beer, projects and potential projects, anagrams/palindromes/wordplay, collaborative creativity (music-making, movie-making, round-robin writing, exquisite corpse-drawing, and the like), dreams, dumb stuff, etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out among people, doing something or other.
You should message me if
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...the spirit moves you to.

And/or if you are scheming up ideas for interesting sexually explicit/sexually themed film, video, or performance work and want to talk about collaboration or programming possibilities.