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Just_Theodora

28 Chicago, IL Woman, Cis Woman, Genderfluid, Genderqueer

Woman, Cis Woman, Genderfluid, Genderqueer

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 12:26pm
Orientation
Lesbian, Queer
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Status
Open relationship
Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am an adult human who sometimes makes music and movies, is always covered in cat hair, and is interested in creative collaboration, weird sounds entering my ears, occult theory and practices, altered states of consciousness, the history of and potential in porn and erotic entertainment/art, interacting with new and old people and animals, humans as individuals and as a collective... and I have other interests and facets of my personality, as well.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Doing vintage gay porn restoration/trailer editing work, playing music with others and without others, socializing with cats and humans, working on my own/others' creative projects and events, starting to make movies again, attempting to learn things, trying to get my shit together.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I guess: music improv, sleeping soundly on any surface, creepily remembering the details of everyone's astrological chart, researching, clone-stamping.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm honestly not sure, but I'd love to know the answer to this. Unfortunately, I think it's probably some sort of nervous aura that hangs about me and is ultra-apparent at all times.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I tried to reduce my lists, but they're still long.

BOOKS: The Haunting of Hill House/We Have Always Lived in the Castle/short stories - Shirley Jackson, Strangers on a Train/short stories - Patricia Highsmith, The Little Stranger - Sarah Waters, some of Liz Greene's astrological writing

MOVIES: Kuchar brothers, The Haunting, Repulsion, Rosemary's Baby, Possession, Dead Ringers, Desperate Living, Sin in the Suburbs, The Curse of Her Flesh, The Alley Cats, Score, The Destroying Angel, Reflections in a Golden Eye, Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf?, All About Eve, What Ever Happened to Baby Jane?, A Woman's Face, The Abominable Dr. Phibes, Hausu, Phantom of the Paradise, The Telephone Book, Lord Love a Duck, Barbarella, Tetsuo: The Iron Man, The Piano Teacher, La Cérémonie, In My Skin, Irma Vep, Harold & Maude, The Celluloid Closet, The Devils, Melancholia, The Holy Mountain, Conspirators of Pleasure

SHOWS: Pee-Wee's Playhouse, The X-Files, The Fall, Angel, Daria, The Twilight Zone, Jem & the Holograms

MUSIC: Kate Bush, The Space Lady, song-poems (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Song_poem), soundtracks, many assorted types of dance music, Sylvester, Donna Summer, The B-52's, Malaria, Siouxsie, Fad Gadget, Bauhaus, Screamin' Jay Hawkins, Hank Williams, Wanda Jackson, The Carpenters, Minnie Riperton, Piero Umiliani, Alessandro Alessandroni, Roy Ayers, David Earnest, Depeche Mode, Ministry, Prince, Lost Sounds, The Gories, Zoe Keating, Rachel's, Death Grips, Diamanda Galás, Lime, The Egyptian Lover, Cybotron, 'Rhythm of the Night' by Corona on repeat forever

FOODS: sweet potatoes, butternut squash, brussel sprouts, guacamole, hummus, pineapple, Thai food, Ethiopian food, seasonal candy
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Food, cats, people, music, collaborative projects, obsessions.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ethical conundrums, grey areas, belief/absence of belief, good/evil, science & pseudoscience, supernatural/paranormal phenomena, ectoplasm, astrology, "energy," altered states, patterns, synchronicity, symbols, rituals, queerness in movies and TV, movies in general, porn history, erotic entertainment and art, my brain and how to work with it, cats, cute girls, people I know, people in general, interpersonal dynamics, psychology, weird museums, kink, food, projects and potential projects, anagrams/palindromes/wordplay, collaborative creativity (music-making, movie-making, round-robin writing, exquisite corpse-drawing, and the like), dreams, etc. x infinity
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out among people, doing something or other.
You should message me if
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...the spirit moves you to.

And/or if you are scheming up ideas for interesting sexually explicit/sexually themed film, video, or performance work and want to talk about collaboration or programming possibilities.