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Justatourist93

33 M Indianapolis, IN

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:24pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Student
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Irish (Poorly), Other (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
My self-summary will get longer as time goes on.

I am pretty dorky, but I am probably one of the coolest dorks that I know. Or maybe I just hang out with cool dorky people. One thing that I have said, and I'll say it again, I am sure, is that I am a socially adjusted dork... or something like that.

I get along with most every one, it takes a lot to offend me, and I handle myself pretty well when I am offended. I like to play games (video games, board games, or other), I like to have deep and interesting discussions, I like to get together with friends and drink, and on occasion you might find me at a bar with a group of people that I just met having a good ol' time!

I am looking for something real, I want to meet, and date people, the only problem is that I have been single for so long that I kinda forgot what being with someone is all about... you know? Then again, isn't meeting people and learning those skills what dating is all about.

I also get very discouraged by dating websites, as I can find, what I feel, is a really great match, message them, and rate them but never get messaged back. Where if I met someone in real life I feel that I would hit it off with them a lot better, as you can gain a lot from human interaction; did you know that 90% of communication is nonverbal? While reading text I am sure that you can get a general feel for the person, but not for the individual, added to which, 75% of what every person writes in these essays are the same.

The thing is that I have officially lost hope in dating websites. As I write this I have written so many messages to women, with whom I am matched well, and have received virtually nothing in return. So... what does it take? I mean, on one hand, to think that you aren't going to find a good person on a dating website is setting yourself up for defeat, wouldn't you agree? If you feel the aforementioned way, than you wouldn't give a good person a chance. It would become a vicious cycle, as I am sure that your logical analytic mind has already made it to that conclusion.
What I’m doing with my life
I am presently in school as an English and Communication major right now. I plan on continuing my education after I get my associates, I am thinking an English major, museum sciences major, or library sciences major. Outside of that I work, part time in a bookstore. I also write from time to time.

I have this last spring semester (2014) to get my associates, and then it is on to other things to continue my education. I am focused and determined for that, and could be just as focused and determined in other areas in my life, like romance, if given that chance.
I’m really good at
Anything I put my mind to, really. I have been told that i am pretty smart, but that is something that I rarely say; in fact you will hear me say, more often that not, that I am dumb sometimes. Here is a quick list of things that I can do:
Multitasking
Cooking
Cleaning
Brainstorming
Cuddling
Going-with-the-flow
Playing bass guitar (so-so)
Hooking up electronics with little or no help
Hosting a party
Hosting a role-playing game (D&D, Pathfinder, Shadowrun, Ect...)
Giving good advice
Seeing two sides to everything
Going on rants
Getting A's in school
...and the list goes on!
The first things people usually notice about me
If I am wearing my kilt: my kilt. If I am not wearing my kilt: my red beard, and if I have happened to have shaved... umm... got it: my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: "The Name of the Wind" and "The Tao Te Ching"

Movies: "Kill Bill" "No Country for Old Men" and "Forgetting Sarah Marshall"

Shows: "Mtv's The State" "Daria" "Dead Like Me" "30 Rock" and "Avatar: The Last Air Bender"

Music: I am not a fan of Rap or country (unless it's older country)

Food: I like food!
The six things I could never do without
I am going to go ahead and assume that "Friends and Family" is an answer that we all understand is something that people cannot live with out. So here are six thing outside of that.

(in no particular order)
1. Games (of all sorts)

2. A drink or two from time to time.

3. My cunning ability to say the exact wrong thing at the exact right time (completely oblivious, unaware, and usually with hilarious results).

4. My creative mind

5. My affection for learning

6. Humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Creative ideas for things. What people would sound like if they laughed tonally upward instead of tonally downward. Does that person over there think that I am staring at them when I am actually lost in thought, are they disturbed by it? If I left Fort Wayne to Indianapolis travailing 100 MPH for the first ten minutes but then steadily decreased my speed by 10 MPH every ten minutes after that: how long would it take me to get to Indianapolis. Homework. What it would be like to fly.... Does that person think I am crazy....

I spend a lot of time thinking about how our society has become a great big hypocritical mess on just about everything. This has also led to me trying not to be hypocritical, but is hard when I feel that the rest of society doesn't understand how to not be hypocritical.

I spend a lot of time thinking about ways that science and religion agree on a lot of aspects of things, and they just don't realize it; how the argument of religion is one that is centuries old and no one is going to come up with any new arguments on either side ever again, but for some reason we are just too damned stubborn to realize that people have different beliefs and there is nothing that we can do about that, and the only way that you are ever going to know the truth to that particular argument is to die, after which, you can't tell any one about it anyway.

I think about the myriad of of possibilities of cake. One simple design, or recipe, can be altered in so many different ways that no cake is ever the same, which is why, on a subconscious level, we never pass up cake because we want to know what it tastes like.

I can't be the only person who thinks like I do....

I think about everything... all the time... it's hard to shut down my mind's processor, it is my favorite and least favorite quality about myself.

How the dating scene is absolute bull-crap full of double standards. One of my favorite, most recent, conversations was centered on how I didn't think it as going to work with a girl because I felt she didn't have any confidence, which is important to me, but I was told that I was in the wrong as she was likely just shy. That is a double standard, and I hate double standards; I like my women to be strong and confidant as any woman would want me to be.

Added to which, if the woman is ultimately the deciding factor on whether or not she is going to go out on a date with a man, than why doesn't she just ask a man that she is attracted to on a date. I mean, it makes plenty of sense to me, but I know that most people are going to disagree with me on that and that's ok.
On a typical Friday night I am
If I have homework, I am finishing that, if not than I would be hanging out with my friends, possibly having a drink, and possibly at a pub. Or playing video games. Or writing down ideas for creative projects.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am probably insane, not in a dangerous way, but in a kooky 1950's mad scientist sort of way.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Message me if you are smart and confidant, if you're tired of dating assholes and jerks, and you want to talk to some one who is down to earth, even about serious things. Message me if you would wear a Daria Or Jane Lane costume for Halloween. Message me if you feel that you came onto this dating website for a reason and want to make a connection with someone.