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46 M Carrollton, TX

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Last Online
Today – 5:50pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
(Man, OKCupid has Changed over the years. Journals gone? Forums near invisible?)
A prepared, confident, non-smoking man a voracious appetite for the written word. (If you're the type that is reading something at every meal you eat without company...I'm looking for you).

I prefer face-to-face communication over electronic. Without the ability read body language or tone of voice, it too easy to mess things up or over-analyze every word. That doesn't mean I won't cupid chat or email.

I like it when someone touches my head or hair lightly and my scalp tingles. Seeing smiles makes me a happier man.

I understand that relationships (this includes both friends and more) just don't happen and take effort to foster and grow. (Although, the best ones are electric from the beginning.) I'm willing to put some work into it but it takes two willing people to give it a try (distance can hinder this process immensely).
What I’m doing with my life
The way I figure it, I've got 2/3rds of my life ahead of me. (The first 20 years don't really count.) I used to travel more than 3 hours away about once a month for fun (I want a partner to do it some more) and have a job I Love. (Hopefully, you have one too.)

Looking for friends and companionship. Someone to leave the house with or stay home with. Someone to ask, "How was that book?" Someone to miss me if disappear mysteriously. Someone to make happy so I can be happy. Someone to shoulder to shoulder with while we beat on some strangers.

I had an epiphany a few years ago. Life is about being happy and collecting stories to tell. I'm always looking for new stories and while I'm pretty happy as it is, there's room for more... Bring your stories.
I’m really good at
Anticipating the future. Explaining things. Hitting people with foam sticks. Computers. I know a little bit about most things. Putting myself in other's places and viewing things in the best possible light. Projecting into the future to evaluate my current actions based on that perspective.
The first things people usually notice about me
Physically? My Hair. (Maybe my glasses.) After years of thinking hair was a nuisance, I've finally let it grow long and I think I like it.

Personality wise, I can be a little literal minded.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Firefly, Heinlein, Ultimates, , Soundtracks, Planetary, The New Guy, Saw, Happy Feet, Galaxy Quest, 3:10 to Yuma, The Sweetest Thing, Momento. Other than Mythbusters and the occasional Good Eats, I don't watch too much TV these days.

Going to the Movies is an event that's meant to be shared. In general, I'm patient enough to wait for a movie to make it to used DVD and buy it for $8 or less. I have a pretty large collection.

Food wise, I'm sorta unadventurous.
The six things I could never do without
Literally? Food, Water, Air, Freedom

Less Literally? (I've had thier employees tell me that I buy a LOT of stuff from them),
Amtgard (If I could only find someone to share it with and rekindle that passion),
Books (I work on at least 3 at a time),
Computer w/Internet,
Showers (must shower every morning),
That special someone who remains to be found (Are you the one?).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future. Most of my decisions are based on anticipating a look back into the present from some future time. If, in the future, I'd find myself saying, "I wish I had done/said blah instead," then I do/say blah.

BTW: If you find the time to check out the "Two of Us" link in OKCupid and filter by "Unacceptable Answers." You'll learn a lot more about me. (In fact, it's third thing I always check when reviewing a profile.) If you find yourself tweaking your explanations, that would be cool. If you strike up a conversation with me on one, that would be awesome. )
On a typical Friday night I am
Forgetting the work week and planning for the weekend (while sitting in front of the computer). Most of my leaving the house happens on Saturday/Sunday as opposed to Friday.

Lately I've rediscovered the joy of board games such as Illuminati or Pictionary. Talisman being my current obsession. If you're game, feel free to invite me over or volunteer to attend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't lie. I might commit the sin of ommission, but a straight question, honestly asked will always receive a straight answer. (I was once run out of a job because of a straight answer to a question that a manager didn't really want to know the answer to.)

This question is so loaded. Private things are intended to shared with those you anything someone says is either "public knowledge" or likely cherry picked to gain sympathy or work an angle.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 38–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if can see that meeting new people doesn't have to be a ordeal. Exciting perhaps, but not an ordeal. A meal, a movie, a TV show are just that. Tomorrow, the sun will still rise and work will still be there. Worst case scenario is some food, an awkward conversation, and a story to tell your friends back at work.

Also, you know that the pronoun "I" should be capitalized and that the word "you" is spelled with three letters.

Seriously, I think we've reached the point where "Seize the day" should probably be a bit more than a line from a movie. How many more chances will we have?