A prepared, confident, non-smoking man a voracious appetite for the written word. (If you're the type that is reading something at every meal you eat without company...I'm looking for you).
I prefer face-to-face communication over electronic. Without the ability read body language or tone of voice, it too easy to mess things up or over-analyze every word. That doesn't mean I won't cupid chat or email.
I like it when someone touches my head or hair lightly and my scalp tingles. Seeing smiles makes me a happier man.
I understand that relationships (this includes both friends and more) just don't happen and take effort to foster and grow. (Although, the best ones are electric from the beginning.) I'm willing to put some work into it but it takes two willing people to give it a try (distance can hinder this process immensely).