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23 M Oshkosh, WI

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:20am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Est Sularus oth Mithas.
My honor is my life.

I can't stand liars and people who would play games with other people's lives.

I'm an ISTJ, if that matters to you at all.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm currently working as a security guard to support myself until I have time and financial stability enough for technical college.

Being awesome for my friends and trying to be there for my daughter, as often as my ex lets me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing Magic, running D&D, fixing computers, rushing into things before thinking. I'm also a good cook, except when it comes to baking.

Fairly recently I've picked up being an armchair general for tabletop wargaming. I don't know if I'm good or not at it, but it occupies my time and is entertaining. The painting is fun, too.

I can usually find some way to make others laugh, be it by being a spaz, or telling jokes.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Usually my bed hair. I forget to brush it often enough that it occasions comment when I remember.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'll read almost anything, with preference to fantasy or scifi. All time favorites:
David Eddings
Robert Jordan
Anne Mccaffery
Piers Anthony
Nora Roberts writing as J.D. Robb, since it's murder mysteries.

Music is a huge part of my life, I relate to life by music. I'm not particularly picky, I just prefer content in my lyrics.
Current favorite song: Iris by the Goo Goo Dolls.
Other notable artists:
The Cinema, George Watsky, Twenty One Pilots, Alt-J, Phosphorescent, Nobuo Uematsu, Utada Hikaru, Yellowcard, Avicii, Zedd, Basshunter, Red Hot Chili Peppers, The Bloodhound Gang, The Offspring, David Guetta, Deadmau5, Dishwalla, Skillet, Stone Sour, Shinedown, Matchbox Twenty, Dave Matthews Band, L'arc-En-Ciel, Anything that hit the charts in the 90s. Also I listen to techno, and basically anything that isn't rap talking about how much money they have, how many women they've slept with, etc.

I maybe watch a movie every three months or so, so that's not something I usually comment on. It's not that I don't enjoy movies, it's that I don't watch them unless someone watches with me. I do have a preference for action movies or comedies, especially romantic comedies. Sue me.

I haven't really watched television in about 6 years. I do watch some shows on my computer though, Game of Thrones and chipping away at Doctor Who at a friend's behest.

Anime/manga: Toradora, Macross, Macross Frontier, Zero no Tsukaima, Gantz, Itazura na kiss, Sekirei, Vampire Knight.

I like to cook, and there are very few foods I won't eat, with a preference toward Italian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My daughter, I'm the noncustodial parent.
Cooking supplies and utensils.
Human contact of some form.
My cards or laptop
A good book.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. I overthink often, except when emotionally driven. Happens when your job consists of sitting around for 8 hours with naught else to do.

I used to spend a lot of time dwelling on things, but that ended up just making me a depressed person who was very bitter with things. I've taken steps to correct that, and I'm a happier person overall because of it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It varies now. Unless someone makes plans with me, I usually just paint models.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have problems accepting others at face value, since some people in my past ended up extremely two-faced.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you want to talk with an actual human being instead of the tactless jerks that seem to be what all the girls want. I'm happy with who I am, your loss if you aren't okay with that.

I'm not perfect, I don't claim to be. Flaws are what makes us human.