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  • Ages 28-52
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Last online
Nov 25
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Post grad
English, Portuguese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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A Man With A Plan

I'm a native New Yorker - a professional, philanthropist, singer/guitarist, and consultant to the arts. I just moved back from Miami for a short stay (I am spending one month in Manhattan and Livingston, NJ, visiting family). Then, it's overseas for six months of work and fundraising in Medellin. My foundation helps rehabilitate former child soldiers in Colombia and educate impoverished children in the Brazilian favelas.

*If you are not comfortable with someone moving away for (at least) six months, don't contact me.*

People can't believe I've had a circle of six best friends for more than 25 years, but I just have a knack for keeping folks understanding of what makes people tick. It began with vacations in Miami, urging my parents to turn a blind eye when Grandma cheated at Scrabble and dumped restaurant rolls into her handbag. With friends, I became the tour guide, leading them down to Arrial d’ Ajuda for Carnaval, where we danced and drank Caipirinhas in front of 120,000 screaming Brazilians. I've saved friends from angry bouncers in Florence, sang and played guitar in Santorini, and danced tango in Buenos Aires.

*believe that the day after Halloween should be a national holiday.
*treat busboys w/ the same respect as your CEO.
*have one of the following in your top movie list: Run Lola Run, ONCE, Harold Maude, The Big Lebowski, The Diving Bell and the Butterfly, Bananas, City of God, The Princess Bride.
*know who wrote the novel "Stranger in a Strange Land."
*are intrigued by left-handed people.
What I’m doing with my life
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Helping people in a different way. For too many years, I've made rich people even more rich. Now is the time in my life I get to focus far more time using my skills to help truly needy children.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being an uncle, a brother, a son, and a friend. I'm really good at singing/guitar, basketball, tennis, teaching Laughter Yoga (never heard of Laughter Yoga? Check out YouTube), helping people, being subtly sarcastic, and winning Olympic Gold Medals in Skee-ball and Chocolate Tasting.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Eyes, lips, east coast mentality
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Fear and Loathing: On the Campaign Trail '72, On the Road, Catch-22, Ender's Game, Stranger in a Strange Land, A Whole New Mind, The Great Shark Hunt: Strange Tales from a Strange Time, Homeland, Foundation, Blink, The Invisible Man, The Four-Hour Workweek, Drive, Wheel of Time, Portnoy's Complaint, Signal and the Noise

Run Lola Run, Midnight Run, Usual Suspects, ONCE, Harold & Maude, The Big Lebowski, The Diving Bell and the Butterfly, Bananas, City of God, The Princess Bride, Dave, The Sting, The American President, Fargo, Deconstructing Harry, The King's Speech, The Social Network, Goodfellas, Farewell My Concubine

Edward Albee's The Goat, Hair, Art, Tommy, The Producers, The Dirty Joke Show, A Midsummer Night's Dream, A Streetcar Named Desire, David Mamet's Sexual Perversity in Chicago, Terry Fator, 42nd Street, Rent, West Side Story, LOVE, O

Elvis Costello, Ray LaMontagne, GWAR, Paper Tongues, Nirvana, Black Sabbath, Sam Cooke, Pavement, The Beatles, White Stripes, Teitur, John Spencer Blues Explosion, Grateful Dead, Johnny Cash, The Who, Bill Withers, Joe Jackson, Rolling Stones, Sunny Day Real Estate, Coldplay, Maroon 5, Bob Dylan, Bruce Springsteen, The Pixies, Wilson Pickett, Tom Petty, Spinal Tap, Otis Redding, REM, Big & Rich, The Breeders, Blues Traveler, Sugarland, Lemonheads, Buffalo Tom, The Band Perry, Chris Cornell, Superchunk

Okada, Blue Ribbon, Slanted Door, Daniel, The Little Door, Shopsins General Store, French Laundry, WD-50, The Purple Pig, Girl and a Goat, Jar, Joe's Stone Crab, Rao's, Federici's Pizzeria, Sakura, Restaurante Fasano (Sao Paulo), Le Stella (Paris), La Huella (Jose Ignacio Beach, Uruguay)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sushi, Music, & Chocolate
Pizza, Love, & Understanding
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how I can help millions of people -- rather than thousands -- have better lives; finding additional opportunities to volunteer.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
trying a new restaurant with a group of friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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The first act I ever saw in concert was Juice Newton. Granted, she was just the opening act for Neil Young, but that doesn't make the awful memories go away.
You should message me if
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you like a man who makes decisions (and doesn't burden you with the responsibility of making plans).