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JxDxS

23 M Winnetka, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–24
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:51pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Other
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), C++ (Poorly), Tagalog (Poorly), Other (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am an enigma unto myself, wrapped in mystery and shrouded in secret sauce... and pancakes. Enter the eternal labyrinth of perpetual entanglement and paradox that is my mind, if you will. You may have to encounter and defeat Will Smith, Nicholas Cage, and Bruce Lee. Bring cookies.

**If you aren't a reader, or have the intellectual capacity and attention span of a Goldfish, I am, in simplest of descriptions and labels by society which are reasonably-acceptable: Hipster, Geek, Visionary, Dreamer, Free-Thinker, Rebel, Idealist, Truth & Knowledge Seeker, Foodie, Introvert, Intuitive, Empath, Dinosaur, Alien.**

My Myers-Briggs personality Type Indicator is INFJ. Enneagram type 4w5, Numerology Life Path/Vibration number: 7(The Bohemian), Astrology signs: Pisces sun, Libra moon, Virgo rising.

Expressing and describing myself verbally is difficult enough, so here is my attempt at describing my essence through writing. (Prepare your anus for a huge load of paragraphs, ahem.)

I'm a lover of humanity, the arts, music, philosophy, technology, the unknown, and the universe.

I want to change the world for the betterment and progress of humanity. My first step was to partake in random acts of kindness. I believe that every seemingly insignificant thing we do has an unfathomable effect on everything around us. Like a droplet in a pond, every little action ripples out into the world, ultimately causing a chain reaction of potentially unforeseen benefits for people we may never meet, profoundly shaping the lives of future generations and our universe.

I am constantly seeking meaning in life. I mainly perceive the world through patterns, connections, ideas, and possibilities. You may call this intuition. In this state of mind, it is sometimes difficult for me to live in the moment, because my my thoughts are mainly future-oriented, or a step ahead of what is going on in the present. This is also why I'm often the silent one in group or large social settings, as it is my nature to observe, listen, and analyze.

The maps I manifest in my mind would probably compare to a drawing board of a mad scientist. If only I knew how to coherently express and describe them, I just might come up with an invention, idea, or discovery that could someday change or benefit humanity. Or I may simply be able to better explain my thoughts and persona to my family and friends who still look at me as an enigma.

As an idealist, theorist, and primarily abstract-minded individual with interest in the subject of Philosophy, I often find myself fascinated by the mysteries and complexities of our universe, consciousness, and perceptions of reality. I'm intrigued by infinite hidden possibilities and alternative ideas and knowledge. Often times you will also find me doing research on metaphysics, parapsychology, and the paranormal. But don't get me wrong, I have a strong interest in acceptable sciences, such as Quantum Physics, Biology, Psychology, Neuroscience, and Anthropology as well.

I consider myself spiritual(but not religious). I left my religion of Catholicism a few years ago, and I may or may not come back. My current 'system' is a culmination of various ideas, theories, philosophies, and concepts which I have gathered on my own unique, and very private inner journey of self and purpose, a path to 'enlightenment'. I will never force my views or beliefs on anyone and tend to avoid discussions or debates about them. I do not think I am more superior than anyone, and I do not put myself or my beliefs on a pedestal. I rarely discuss or share my spirituality unless I know the other individual(s) are like-minded, open and tolerant. Everyone has a right to believe in what they want. I will talk to, date, or be-friend anyone of any religion, belief-system, lifestyle, etc. My belief system has little effect on my life decisions or judgments, rather I have grown a preference for logic. At times I will go in a 'loop' or conflict between feelings of unexplainable, intuitive 'knowing' vs logic and realism, putting myself in a maddening position of paradox.

I'm a very open-minded, tolerant, and understanding individual that strives for harmony and diplomacy. It takes a lot for me to dislike anyone or anything. I think I've almost eliminated my ability to hate, and I wish such emotion could be removed from existence. I think it's completely unnecessary for people to hate, hold grudges or express negativity toward others, because it doesn't solve anything, makes things worse, and has potential to cause a negative domino-effect upon other lives, even unintentionally. I could go on but it would be a whole psychology and philosophy discussion.

Although I dislike the political system in our society, and would rather not affiliate myself with any particular political party, I suppose I mostly relate to Libertarian philosophy. I'm also quite a conspiracy nut, and I'd say I'm a bit of a rebel when it comes to what the system or mainstream society says is "right" or "acceptable", but don't get me wrong, for I am a law-abiding, and respectful man.

As an Empath and a sensitive, I tend to connect to specific people in a deeply emotional, compassionate, almost "spiritual" level of understanding. I am highly perceptive, often intuitively predicting people's actions and intentions.

I'd say I'm an idealistic romantic, as I tend to fantasize love through rose-tinted sunglasses. It's likely due to the fact that I believe in the concepts of "true romantic love" as vague and subjective as it sounds. I have to connect with someone on many levels to even consider getting into a romantic relationship with them. All seriousness aside, I'd like to find the girl who will be my ultimate sidekick and intergalactic princess, to save planet Earth, and the worlds above and beyond! We'll die old together, and the ultimate duality of our love will forever transcend lifetimes, and be spoken of in legends and epics.
Ahem, anywho...
My favorite color is Red, dinosaurs are badass...RAWRR... :V

Sorry for the headache... I wrote a damn book. I simply cannot fit everything about myself here, so the rest can come with conversation C:

http://jdisrawrsome.tumblr.com
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
-Thinking I'm some kind of hero in progress while in reality I'm not doing enough.

-Pretending to not be attracted to someone when I actually am.

-Stubbing my toes on chair legs, hitting my hips on doorknobs, tripping on hardwood floors, slipping in showers, banging my shoulders on door-frames.

-Eternally changing and improving myself. Perfectionist/mild OCD here.

-Walk around looking for random item, later realizing said item has been in my hand for 5 minutes.

-Working towards a degree in Anthropology. (Greatly hindered through daydreaming and procrastination).

-Reading, researching, thinking, reading, researching, thinking.

-Ninja by night, dork by day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Mimicking foreign accents
Reading your mind, predicting your actions and thought processes
Amateur Acting
Listening to your problems and helping you
Lucid Dreaming/Oneironautics
Eating, a lot.
Daydreaming
Washing dishes
Repairing your computer
Empathizing
Procrastinating
Being weird
Thinking and Over-Analyzing
Gaming
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
(including the first things they would say or think)
"ARENT YOU LIKE 16?"
"WHY ARE YOU SO QUIET?"
"I LIKE YOUR HAIR!"
"OMG ARE YOU IN A KPOP GROUP?"
"OMG ARE YOU IN A JROCK GROUP?"
"DAT SMILE DOE."
"ARE YOU GOOD AT MATH?"
"ARE YOU GOOD AT COMPUTERS?"
"DO YOU PLAY LEAGUE OF LEGENDS?"
"SORRY I DIDN'T EVEN NOTICE YOU!"
"Y SO SERIOUS?"
"ARE YOU HIGH?"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I like books, but for some reason I don't read as much as I'd like to. It's been a while since I've read a good one. The Kin of Ata Are Waiting For You is probably one of my favorites.

Movies: Mostly anything deep, inspiring, philosophical and makes you think. Too many to list here.

Shows: I don't watch a lot of T.V., but currently I'm into The Walking Dead, Big Bang Theory, How I Met Your Mother, The Office, The Twilight Zone, the History & Discovery channel.

Music: I listen to, and can appreciate almost every genre of music out there, as long as there is lyrical substance, skilled musicianship, and does not lean towards negativity. But I do have a guilty pleasure for a lot of dumb fun, catchy music as well.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Family
2. Friends
3. Food
4. Music
5. Oxygen
6. Love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, humanity, my future, food, love.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At work or at home. Let's be honest here. There's a reason I'm on OkCupid.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a ton of dirty, kinky fantasies. I see sex as an art full of possibilities. Your 50 Shades of Grey has nothin' on me, fool.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
1. You're interested, want to have a chat (about anything), or if you just wanna say something just for thehelluvit.

2. Our circuits of consciousness resonate at a similar vibration and frequency, indicating a harmonic convergence and synchronicity in the strings that interconnects us and all life in the universe.

3. You are a hawt white gurl, and stuff...

4. You won't mind befriending and possibly dating a guy who is a little 'different.' I may seem too complex and intense right now to some, but I can really enjoy the simple things in life (I like FOOD, let's go on food adventures!) and I'm down to do a lot of dumb fun stuff. Heck, I'm a lot more toned down in person and I adjust to most people very easily.

p.s. Match percentage doesn't mean shit, particularly if we're a low match. Let us also take into consideration that the matching algorithm (quizzes, etc.) is flawed. I also believe some of the best and most rewarding relationships are 'Complimentary opposites' in which both people share some interests and attraction in the first place, but mainly compliment each other with what the other lacks. For example, Extrovert + Introvert, Logical + Emotional, Thinker + Feeler, Dreamer + Doer, Light + Darkness. Think of the Yin & Yang and other symbols and ideas of duality. It is through learning, understanding, and adapting, which result in some of the most successful and healthy relationships.