And yes, I am aware that otaku and fujoshi are pejoratives, but I figure in the same vein as ‘slut’, they could do with a bit of re-appropriation.
In regard to poly, I currently have a SO egcharood51, and an OSO VeganPhD. We do the separate dating thing, not as a couple or some closed geometric figure. Though I would so date a polyhypercube, but mostly because I think it would have a cool shadow.
I would describe my situation as somewhere between 'poly' and 'open' since I am looking for interesting people, not specific relationship types. In regard to kink, well, that is better to just ask.
I am seeking people who people who build their identity around what they love, rather then defining themselves by who and what they hate. People who are nice, intellectually curious, open minded, sex positive, and most importantly who have found a healthy balance between adult responsibility and childish fun. A kinky streak does not hurt unless you want it to.