In regard to poly, I currently have a SO egcharood51, and an OSO VeganPhD. We do the separate dating thing, not as a couple or some closed geometric figure. Though I would so date a polyhypercube, but mostly because I think it would have a cool shadow.
I am seeking people who people who build their identity around what they love, rather than defining themselves by who and what they hate. People who are nice, intellectually curious, open minded, sex positive, and most importantly who have found a healthy balance between adult responsibility and childish fun. A kinky streak does not hurt unless, well, it kinda does, but only when one asks nicely. I am not active in the "S"cene but kink is a significant part of my life. Though I should highlight that I am seeking individuals, not relationships. I do not have a pre-existing box waiting to try fit someone into but instead am on the lookout for people I resonate with, and work out the details together over time. This includes putting them into boxes if they are into that sort of thing, though that might just be a product of spending too much time around cats.