I am always looking out for interesting people, people who build their identity around what they love, rather than defining themselves by who and what they hate. People who are nice, intellectually curious, open minded, sex positive, and most importantly who have found a healthy balance between adult responsibility and childish fun.
A kinky streak does not hurt unless, well, it kinda does, but only when one asks nicely first. That being said, if "50 Shades" or "Gor" are your guides to kink, we are probably not going to be on the same page, even if I will admire your literary fortitude.
I am not here for anything specific in that I do not have a script regarding how relationships should develop or what milestones need to be aimed for. I prefer a more organic process and see where the connection goes.
Though to be honest, I actually am on here mostly for the waffles, and I am starting to lose patience since not a single slice has shown up yet. I think those poly people were lying to me....
I do not have a solid self identification within the rather broad domain of 'non-monogamous'. Each of the terms floating around has many usages and problems, and depending on who you are talking too they can mean radically different things. Though I am kinda digging 'intersectionalist non monogamy'.