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Neequxsan

37 Feasterville Trevose, PA Non-binary, Genderqueer, Gender Nonconforming, Man

Non-binary, Genderqueer, Gender Nonconforming, Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:12pm
Orientation
Heteroflexible, Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Status
Open relationship
Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English, Japanese (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Introverted non monogamous kinky gamer otaku science geek seeking others with overlapping interests for conversation and activities. If you are poly, kinky, gamer, feminist, trans, gender-queer, fujoshi, goth, or just a nerd with your own fun stuff to share... I invite you to drop me a line.

Since I am a shy and introverted person, I am always looking out for interesting people, people who build their identity around what they love, rather than defining themselves by who and what they hate. People who are nice, intellectually curious, open minded, sex positive, and most importantly who have found a healthy balance between adult responsibility and childish fun. A kinky streak does not hurt unless, well, it kinda does, but only when one asks nicely first. Horrible things are reserved for wonderful people. That being said, if "50 Shades" or "Gor" are your guides to kink, we are probably not going to be on the same page.

I should note that I am not here for anything specific, as in I do not have a script regarding how relationships should develop or what milestones need to be aimed for. I prefer a more organic process and see where the connection goes. This is why I sometimes avoid using 'poly', 'open', or even 'relationship anarchy'. Friends first, structure second.

Though to be honest, I actually am on here mostly for the waffles, and I am starting to lose patience since not a single slice has shown up yet. I think those poly people were lying to me....
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I started life misspending my youth, progressed to questionably allocated college time, followed up by a poorly spent adulthood, which I intend to continue to misuse at every opportunity for many years to come. There will probably also be cake.

Professionally I work in research, trying to figure out how to get simulated people to hate each other. It is actually a lot harder than you would think.

I generally spend my free time time reading, watching anime, DIY home improvement, multispectral photography, Minecraft, and trying to get back into sewing. At some point I hope to learn jewelry making.

I have been learning to ride a horse (well, no specific horse), but I am pretty terrible at it.. I am also pretty sure a couple of them want to eat me. One at the barn has a taste for bologna, can human flesh be far behind?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Photographing things that are too slow to run away; buildings and trees and such; things that do not give me odd looks when I turn out the lights and point strange glowing objects at them.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am told people tend to notice my hair. It is fairly long and usually keep in a bun since it gets caught in things if I leave it down. While I suspect said hair entanglement with various inanimate (and occasionally animate) objects are amusing for spectators, it is inconvenient for me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Let us see. For books my favorite authors would have to be CJ Cherryh, Larry Niven, Lois McMaster Bujold, David Weber, at least those are the last few I have been reading. I do not really have individual favorite books, I prefer to inhale entire series or universes (when authors play nice together). Lately I have been trying out various short story collections to try to find some new ones.

For TV I have mostly been working my way through my backlog of anime fansubs. Outside that I tend to jump between documentaries or mindless cartoons as background when doing hobby type things. I am really enthusiastic about the cluster of series like Adventure Time, Steven Universe, Gravity Falls, Star vs the Forces of Evil, Bee and Puppycat, Bravest Warriors, etc. I wonder if we might be seeing the start of a renaissance in animated narratives, which pleases me.

Food.... Japanese, Indian, Thai, those seem to be top of my yummy list.

Music... mostly dementia and filk, though I have a few others like Jethro Tull, Splashdown, Switchblade Symphony, Concrete Blonde, Eve's Plum, Jack Off Jill, Vanessa Mae, The Piano Guys, Laura Shigihara, Live on Release, Eve's Plum.. but mostly stuff that would appear on Dr Demento or The FuMP ^_^
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A speck ,
On a flea,
On a tail ,
On a frog ,
On a bump,
On a log ,
In a hole,
In the bottom of the sea

Ok that is more than 6 things, but I don't actually believe in frogs and that cuts out two right there.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Blue/Orange morality.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Frequently I see profiles extolling the virtues of going out and having fun on Friday night. This is not really my thing, instead I prefer a little maniacal chortle along with some twisted sadistic sport. Thus I spend my friday nights scheming unimaginable horrors for which to inflict upon the innocent so that I might savor their suffering.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I sometimes wonder if Whiplr or even Tinder might be better bets than OKC. That is a pretty depressing thought, so then I think about bunnies. I think about bunnies a lot.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
In this space people often say that you should contact them if you want to.

I think I will take a different approach and say 'contact me if you don't want to.' Starting conversations with strangers can be stressful and I know us shy introverted types often really do not want to deal with those awkward initial messages even though we do like the connections that can develop from it.

So I invite people who are uncomfortable with the idea of starting a conversation, but think we might get along, to say hello. I am always looking for a cute excuse to wander around a museum for an afternoon or explore some park with a couple cameras. I never really got into the 'romance interview' that is the coffee/bar/dinner thing. On a pragmatic note, I encourage others to say hello in part because I know I fret so much about bothering people that I am terrible at messaging first.

A quick note on location: I do indeed live up in Bucks county, but work in University City, so I am down in Philly most days.