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36 Neshaminy, PA Non-binary, Genderqueer, Gender Nonconforming, Transfeminine

Non-binary, Genderqueer, Gender Nonconforming, Transfeminine

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:00am
Heteroflexible, Straight
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has cats
English, Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Introverted poly kinky gamer otaku science geek seeking others with overlapping interests for conversation and activities. If you are poly, kinky, gamer, feminist, trans, gender-queer, fujoshi, goth, or just a nerd with your own fun stuff to share... I invite you to drop me a line. Though if you are in the camp that feels SJWs are a bad thing or are equivalent to their detractors, we will probably not get along.

In regard to poly, I currently have a SO egcharood51, and an OSO VeganPhD. We do the separate dating thing, not as a couple or some closed geometric figure. Though I would so date a polyhypercube, but mostly because I think it would have a cool shadow.

I am seeking people who people who build their identity around what they love, rather than defining themselves by who and what they hate. People who are nice, intellectually curious, open minded, sex positive, and most importantly who have found a healthy balance between adult responsibility and childish fun. A kinky streak does not hurt unless, well, it kinda does, but only when one asks nicely. I am not active in the "S"cene but kink is a significant part of my life. Though I should highlight that I am seeking individuals, not relationships. I do not have a pre-existing box waiting to try fit someone into but instead am on the lookout for people I resonate with, and work out the details together over time. This includes putting them into boxes if they are into that sort of thing, though that might just be a product of spending too much time around cats.
What I’m doing with my life
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I started life misspending my youth, progressed to questionably allocated college time, followed up by a poorly spent adulthood, which I intend to continue to misuse at every opportunity for many years to come. There will probably also be cake.

I generally spend my free time time reading, watching anime, DIY home improvement, multispectral photography, playing video games (mmm... Minecraft), sewing, nerving up to learn vacuum tubes, and I have finally started taking horseback riding lessons so I am learning to experience pain in all sorts of new ways. Also, cantering is terrifying and hurts my butt.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Photographing things that are too slow to run away; buildings and trees and such; things that do not give me odd looks when I turn out the lights and point strange glowing objects at them.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am told people tend to notice my hair. It is fairly long and usually keep in a bun since it gets caught in things if I leave it down. While I suspect said hair entanglement with various inanimate (and occasionally animate) objects are amusing for spectators, it is inconvenient for me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Let us see. For books my favorite authors would have to be CJ Cherryh, Larry Niven, Lois McMaster Bujold, David Weber, at least those are the last few I have been reading. I do not really have individual favorite books, I prefer to inhale entire series or universes (when authors play nice together).

For TV I have mostly been working my way through my backlog of anime fansubs. Outside that I tend to jump between documentaries or mindless cartoons as background when doing hobby type things.

Food.... Japanese, Indian, Thai, those seem to be top of my yummy list.

Music... mostly dementia and filk, though I have a few others like Jethro Tull, Splashdown, Switchblade Symphony, Concrete Blonde, Eve's Plum, Jack Off Jill, Vanessa Mae, The Piano Guys, Laura Shigihara, Live on Release, Eve's Plum.. but mostly stuff that would appear on Dr Demento or The FuMP ^_^
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A speck ,
On a flea,
On a tail ,
On a frog ,
On a bump,
On a log ,
In a hole,
In the bottom of the sea

Ok that is more than 6 things, but I don't actually believe in frogs and that cuts out two right there.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
While I am not sure I would describe it as a 'lot' of time, I am now wondering how badly OKC scrambled my match answers when they removed mandatory. I have started noticing incorrect selections and it is bugging me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Frequently I see profiles extolling the virtues of going out and having fun on Friday night. This is not really my thing, instead I prefer a little maniacal chortle along with some twisted sadistic sport. Thus I spend my friday nights scheming unimaginable horrors for which to inflict upon the innocent so that I might savor their suffering.

Or having some tea, either one works really.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I actually am on here mostly for the waffles, and I am starting to lose patience since not a single slice has shown up yet. I think those poly people were lying to me....
You should message me if
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In this space people often say that you should contact them if you want to.

I think I will take a different approach and say 'contact me if you don't want to.' Starting conversations with strangers can be stressful and I know us shy introverted types often really do not want to deal with those awkward initial messages even though we do like the connections that can develop from it.

So I invite people who are uncomfortable with the idea of starting a conversation, but think we might get along, to say hello. And, I admit a bit of self interest in this encouragement since I am terrible at messaging people first. However, while quiet, I am friendly and do so enjoy chatting. The downside though is that in enjoying chatting I often feel no hurry in meeting since the conversation is fun, which can give people a somewhat incorrect impression regarding my interest and intent.

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