I am in a set of long term non-unicorn hunting poly relationships who date as individuals. I know that is kinda defining something in terms of what it is not, but it is such a common thing out there I figured it was best to get out of the way quickly.
Since I am a shy and introverted person, I am always looking out for interesting seeking people, people who build their identity around what they love, rather than defining themselves by who and what they hate. People who are nice, intellectually curious, open minded, sex positive, and most importantly who have found a healthy balance between adult responsibility and childish fun. A kinky streak does not hurt unless, well, it kinda does, but only when one asks nicely first. Horrible things are reserved for wonderful people.
I should note though that I am not looking for anything in particular, as in I am not here with some script regarding how relationships should develop or what milestones need to be aimed for. I prefer a more organic process and see where the connection goes.
Though to be honest, I actually am on here mostly for the waffles, and I am starting to lose patience since not a single slice has shown up yet. I think those poly people were lying to me....