In regard to poly, I currently have a SO egcharood51, and an OSO VeganPhD, neither of which are currently active on OKC. We do the separate dating thing, not as a couple or some closed geometric figure. Though I would so date a polyhypercube, but mostly because I think it would have a cool shadow.
I am seeking people who people who build their identity around what they love, rather than defining themselves by who and what they hate. People who are nice, intellectually curious, open minded, sex positive, and most importantly who have found a healthy balance between adult responsibility and childish fun. A kinky streak does not hurt unless, well, it kinda does, but only when one asks nicely first. Horrible things are reserved for wonderful people.
I should note though that I am not looking for anything in particular, as in I am not here with some script regarding how relationships should develop or what milestones need to be aimed for. I prefer a more organic process and see where the connection goes.