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36 Feasterville Trevose, PA Non-binary, Genderqueer, Gender Nonconforming, Transfeminine

Non-binary, Genderqueer, Gender Nonconforming, Transfeminine

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:20pm
Heteroflexible, Straight
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has cats
English, Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Introverted poly kinky gamer otaku science geek seeking others with overlapping interests for conversation and activities. If you are poly, kinky, gamer, feminist, trans, gender-queer, fujoshi, goth, or just a nerd with your own fun stuff to share... I invite you to drop me a line.

In regard to poly, I currently have a SO egcharood51, and an OSO VeganPhD, neither of which are currently active on OKC. We do the separate dating thing, not as a couple or some closed geometric figure. Though I would so date a polyhypercube, but mostly because I think it would have a cool shadow.

I am seeking people who people who build their identity around what they love, rather than defining themselves by who and what they hate. People who are nice, intellectually curious, open minded, sex positive, and most importantly who have found a healthy balance between adult responsibility and childish fun. A kinky streak does not hurt unless, well, it kinda does, but only when one asks nicely first. Horrible things are reserved for wonderful people.

I should note though that I am not looking for anything in particular, as in I am not here with some script regarding how relationships should develop or what milestones need to be aimed for. I prefer a more organic process and see where the connection goes.

Though to be honest, I actually am on here mostly for the waffles, and I am starting to lose patience since not a single slice has shown up yet. I think those poly people were lying to me....
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I started life misspending my youth, progressed to questionably allocated college time, followed up by a poorly spent adulthood, which I intend to continue to misuse at every opportunity for many years to come. There will probably also be cake.

I generally spend my free time time reading, watching anime, DIY home improvement, multispectral photography, Minecraft, getting back into sewing, and after years of putting it off discovering just how terrifying cantering is. Though due to the horrid weather this winter, lessons have kinda been on hold.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Photographing things that are too slow to run away; buildings and trees and such; things that do not give me odd looks when I turn out the lights and point strange glowing objects at them.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am told people tend to notice my hair. It is fairly long and usually keep in a bun (not a 'man bun', a bun, damn it) since it gets caught in things if I leave it down. While I suspect said hair entanglement with various inanimate (and occasionally animate) objects are amusing for spectators, it is inconvenient for me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Let us see. For books my favorite authors would have to be CJ Cherryh, Larry Niven, Lois McMaster Bujold, David Weber, at least those are the last few I have been reading. I do not really have individual favorite books, I prefer to inhale entire series or universes (when authors play nice together).

For TV I have mostly been working my way through my backlog of anime fansubs. Outside that I tend to jump between documentaries or mindless cartoons as background when doing hobby type things.

Food.... Japanese, Indian, Thai, those seem to be top of my yummy list.

Music... mostly dementia and filk, though I have a few others like Jethro Tull, Splashdown, Switchblade Symphony, Concrete Blonde, Eve's Plum, Jack Off Jill, Vanessa Mae, The Piano Guys, Laura Shigihara, Live on Release, Eve's Plum.. but mostly stuff that would appear on Dr Demento or The FuMP ^_^
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A speck ,
On a flea,
On a tail ,
On a frog ,
On a bump,
On a log ,
In a hole,
In the bottom of the sea

Ok that is more than 6 things, but I don't actually believe in frogs and that cuts out two right there.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time pondering and planning my next project, and when that gets overwhelming, what I want to build in minecraft next.

I also spend more time then I would like thinking about politics and activism.. issues of gender, sexuality, and how they intersect STEM,.. but too often I end up just wanting to strangle people (in the not fun way) which is distressing. Then I think about bunnies.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Frequently I see profiles extolling the virtues of going out and having fun on Friday night. This is not really my thing, instead I prefer a little maniacal chortle along with some twisted sadistic sport. Thus I spend my friday nights scheming unimaginable horrors for which to inflict upon the innocent so that I might savor their suffering.

Ok, in reality I am usually hiding under a blanket with a soup bowl of tea trying to pretend it is not horrid cold out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have never been eaten by a grue, and was terrible at hunting wumpus.
You should message me if
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In this space people often say that you should contact them if you want to.

I think I will take a different approach and say 'contact me if you don't want to.' Starting conversations with strangers can be stressful and I know us shy introverted types often really do not want to deal with those awkward initial messages even though we do like the connections that can develop from it.

So I invite people who are uncomfortable with the idea of starting a conversation, but think we might get along, to say hello. I only bite when asked nicely first. I am always up for talking shop on issues like kink and poly, but am not looking for cyber.