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35 F Maple Grove, MN

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 9
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm divorced with 2 daughters ages 10 and 6. An Iowa Hawkeye at heart as I grew up in Iowa City, moved here 14 years ago. I share custody with my ex-husband. Starting to realize that when starting over in terms of finding a new partner in crime, it's a lot harder done than said. Plenty of options out there but it's the wanting the same things at the same time plus having a physical attraction, that has proven to be difficult. I'm probably more picky than most. I'm very independent and self sufficient. I'm a people person who enjoys all topics of conversation. I like to be involved.
What I’m doing with my life
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Raising, guiding and protecting my 2 kind hearts as they come first. After having kids, I rely on schedules and routine heavily. Traveling home to Iowa City 4-5 times a year to see my family and cheer on the Hawkeyes during football season. Tailgating and games, what I grew up doing...never gets old! Lived in Phoenix for 3 years in my early 20's so I try to make it there once a year to visit friends. We also plan a yearly family vaca, just the 3 of us! Work, Kids, Travel, Kids, Travel, Work .... this is the story of my life and I like it :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a MOM, being funny and creating laughter, sarcasm, quick whit and cooking! I'm aaaamazing at buying nice things at bargin prices :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My honesty, sense of humor and spot on delivery!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite quote: "You have to keep the fights clean and the sex dirty." ~ Kevin Bacon
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My girls, family, friends, laughter, DVR, coffe, XM radio, shopping and my Kirby.
So that's more than six......screw!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
♥ My girls and their wants and needs. I think about how so much of life is based on timing. Not everything happens for a reason but you can spend days or weeks trying to find one. It's timing! The right time to buy, refinance, apply for a promotion, relocating, career change, planning a child, dating for keeps or dating for fun ... it's all based on timing! It's when it's the right time that prompts us to start putting all of our ducks in a row because when the timing is right then it's easy. How quickly a great 1st date and potential match becomes an after thought when the timing is all wrong. With that being said, I cringe when I hear someone reply "everything happens for a reason." I call bullshit!
Attraction for me isn't in your appearance or the size of your muscles, it's in your personality which can always improve or lesson anyone's physical appearance in my book. Now I'm not saying I'm attracted to every tall amazing personality, it has to also come with chemistry.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
One weekend I'm busy doing activities with 2 little happy faces and on the opposite weekends, I'm at a movie, maybe a dinner or in a bar with my girlfriends or I might just be at home, relaxing and enjoying the peace and quiet of a kid free home!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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You know the meaning of unconditional love and you're tall because I don't bend over for the kiss and I don't always want to be the one who has to reach all the high items in the pantry. I just prefer my guy to be able to do both! At least 6' but the taller the better because I have some really cute heels that I'm not ready to part with just yet!

I would think just by seeing the amount of characters I used when filling out my profile that it's pretty obvious I'm not just here to "hook up" so to all you boys. .... stop asking me that! I also won't entertain any request that comes from a faceless profile. A blind date straight out of the 90's isn't my thing. Joining a dating website and having no intentions of putting pictures up of yourself makes about as much sense as moving to America and not learning English...Doy! I'm ready for the real deal after being single for almost 3 yrs.and understand that it might not be found online.Time will have to tell.

P.S. I don't do open relationships nor do I want to land in any dating rotation of yours! I'm at my best when it's one on one and honest.