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57 Farmington, MI Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 48–57
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 19
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Dear Ladies,

I have been on this site for several months. I have read a LOT of your profiles and looked at your pictures. I have read the answers you gave to the multitude of dumb questions that OKCupid asks us to answer. I have spoken to some of you, been ignored when l send you messages and yes l have even dated a few of you. I am a very kind man. I treat a lady very well. I am a gentleman. I have a great sense of humor, my own home, stability, and l am normal. I don't have Brad Pitt type looks but l dont think l am ugly. There are some beatuiful women on this site and l marvel at how so many 50 year old ladies still can pass for 30 something. Yet l am still single and alone. I truly believe l have a lot to offer someone but no one else seems to see that. I have decided to stop sending messagesfor the time being because it seems it just leads to frustration when l write a well thought out message to you and more often than not they just get ignored. I will check back from time to time to see if any of you are really ready to explore building a loving, caring, healthy relationship with a man who just wants someone to grow old with and treat like a queen. But its now on you. If you are ready to leave the games and silliness behind and actually go on a date l woyld be thrilled to hear from you. Regardless of what the future brings l wish you all good luck, good health and happiness.

What I’m doing with my life
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I am starting to use the exercise equipment in my basement..l literally have my own gym. I have a treadclimber, a top of the line boflex, a stationary bike, an ab roller all that is missing is someone to workout with. When the weather warms up a bit l will be walking 2-3 miles outside most days, would love for you to join me. The past few years I have been helping my adult daughter to get through college..her and my grandson have been living with me so I can help her with the baby and with school. I am proud to announce she has graduated nursing school and is now an RN..I am very proud.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Helping others and getting things accomplished.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my quick smile, my sense of humor, and my friendliness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love to read, mostly fiction. Steven King is a favorite. I don't watch a lot of TV but I like comedies, suspense and some reality TV. My music tastes span the 60's to the present however not a fan of country or heavy vulgar rap
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Besides the obvious food, water, diet mountain dew
1. My family
2. My health
3. My sense of humor...which can be witty, sarcastic or self depreciating...cuz you gotta be able to laugh at yourself
4. People..being alone isn't much fun
5. My experiences..they have shaped who I am
6. Love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why it seems so difficult to get someone to take the leap and meet... grandkids...finding someone to spend my life with. I have a variety of interests and things I like to do but they just aren't as fun without someone special to share them with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose? am retired from GM but work part time at a remember ladies...I come included with free pizza..let me repeat that FREE PIZZA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'll whisper it in your ear after we've been dating a while
You should message me if
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You are looking for a nice guy...a gentleman.. a man that will treat you like a lady...and dance with you in the rain.