I have been on this site for several months. I have read a LOT of your profiles and looked at your pictures. I have read the answers you gave to the multitude of dumb questions that OKCupid asks us to answer. I have spoken to some of you, been ignored when l send you messages and yes l have even dated a few of you. I am a very kind man. I treat a lady very well. I am a gentleman. I have a great sense of humor, my own home, stability, and l am normal. I don't have Brad Pitt type looks but l dont think l am ugly. There are some beatuiful women on this site and l marvel at how so many 50 year old ladies still can pass for 30 something. Yet l am still single and alone. I truly believe l have a lot to offer someone but no one else seems to see that. I have decided to stop sending messagesfor the time being because it seems it just leads to frustration when l write a well thought out message to you and more often than not they just get ignored. I will check back from time to time to see if any of you are really ready to explore building a loving, caring, healthy relationship with a man who just wants someone to grow old with and treat like a queen. But its now on you. If you are ready to leave the games and silliness behind and actually go on a date l woyld be thrilled to hear from you. Regardless of what the future brings l wish you all good luck, good health and happiness.