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35 F Dover, NJ

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I spend most of my nights and weekends in NYC, so don't let the NJ address deter you.

I've been called an "American original" by one of my best friends, and though I'm sure it was said because I'm quirky and eccentric, I take it as a compliment. I don't believe in astrology, yet somehow I really am a Taurus -- I can be feisty, sarcastic, stubborn, and headstrong, but I'm also funny, devoted, loving, and loyal. I can be a handful sometimes, but I'm worth it. ;)

Sorry if you are seeking a tomboy who enjoys beer, watching sports, and camping - that's not me. :). But still, I'm always willing to go to games if I'm with the person I care about as long as he's willing to take in the occasional "chick flick" with me. I'm always willing to do things for the person I care about. I give 150% and want the same in return. :)

Some of my favorite hobbies/interests are baking and cooking, biking, I love to go dancing, to museums, and when I can afford it, I love to travel!! I do enjoy the outdoors just not the "great outdoors" -- walking or biking outside suit me just fine.

I'm looking for a serious committed relationship with someone who wants the same. I am not here for casual sex or a fling, so please don't ask. (I've heard that apparently every girl has this "I'm not here for sex" disclaimer, so if you want to test me on it, I promise it will be a waste of your time and MY patience. And pissing off a NJ Italian Taurus lawyer is never fun). ;-)

Also, if I don't reply, my apologies. It's not personal; I may just be busy or do not think we will be a good match. However, if I don't write you back, please do not continue to send me numerous messages incessantly or make nasty comments. It's unnecessary, rude, and will not get me to respond.

Some of my "must haves" are:

1) Please be smoke free, drug free, and not a huge drinker.

2) Please be within my age range.

3) Please have a gentle, docile personality, believe women are equal partners, and be free of a harsh temper.

4) Please be clean shaven or close to clean shaven.

5) Please want kids or more kids in the future.

6) Please have a college degree and a stable job.

7) Please be chivalrous and romantic.

8) Please do not be very religious or very political.

Hope that doesn't sound like too much to ask for when you get down to it. Look forward to talking to you!
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a litigator, and I love it! Kicking butt in court is such a rush! :-)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
baking, cooking, dancing, writing, drawing.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, my eyes, and my hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Jemima J, Fifty Shades of Grey, Flowers for Algernon, The Great Gatsby
Movies: Pretty Woman, Dirty Dancing, The Holiday, Music & Lyrics, Wedding Crashers, Bridesmaids, The Hangover
Shows: Castle, Modern Family, Blue Bloods, Scandal
Music: The Beatles, Frou Frou, Michael Buble, Carly Simon, T-Pain, Usher, Zero 7, Imogen Heap
Food: Sushi, Indian, Cuban, Thai, French, Italian, etc. etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) my family
2) love
3) food - I live to eat, not eat to live.
4) cell phone
5) my teddy bear Jack
6) internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
either having dinner out, at a movie, or out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a bizarre list of celebrity crushes that pretty much no one else finds attractive.
You should message me if
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you are looking for a serious committed relationship only; you prefer girly girls; you understand compromise and get that guys and girls are different; and your college drunken lifestyle is in the past.