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34 F Hawthorne, NJ

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:17am
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
I've been called an "American original" by one of my best friends, and though I'm sure it was said because I'm quirky and eccentric, I take it as a compliment. I don't believe in astrology, yet somehow I really am a Taurus -- I can be feisty, sarcastic, stubborn, and headstrong, but I'm also funny, devoted, loving, and loyal. I can be a handful sometimes, but I'm worth it. ;)

I'm a girly girl, so if you're looking for a tomboy who enjoys beer and watching sports, I'm not her; sorry :). But still, I'm always willing to go to games if I'm with the person I care about as long as he's willing to take in the occasional "chick flick" with me. I'm also not really the outdoorsy / campy type. That's something I'm more than happy to let you do with your "buddies" -- consider it my male-bonding gift to you. ;-)

Some of my favorite hobbies/interests are baking and cooking, biking, I love to go dancing, to museums, and when I can afford it, I love to travel!! I do enjoy the outdoors just not the "great outdoors" -- walking or biking outside suit me just fine. I will go for a hike, even though I've been told I look like a fish out of water. Bottom line, I'm always willing to do things for the person I care about. I give 150% and want the same in return. So if I'm going to see a baseball game, you bet you're taking me dancing or to a chick flick after. Fair is fair. :)

I'm looking for a serious committed relationship with someone who wants the same. I will not be your one night stand, a fling, a friends with benefits or a casual hookup, so please don't ask. (I've heard that apparently every girl has this "I'm not here for sex" disclaimer, so if you want to test me on it, I promise it will be a waste of your time and MY patience. And pissing off a NJ Italian Taurus lawyer is never fun). ;-)

Some DEAL BREAKERS for me are:

1) Smokers, heavy drinkers, and of course, drug users.

2) Men out of my age range.

3) Men with very dominant personalities who believe they are the head of the household. (I'm looking for an even-tempered partner who goes with the flow. I have a strong personality and butt heads with very dominant and controlling men.)

4) Men with a full beard.

5) Men who don't want or might not want kids or anymore kids.

6) Men who do NOT have a college education and a stable job.

7) Men who don't compliment a woman (especially when picking her up for a date) -- Chivalry and flattery remain alive and well in my world.

8) Men who are very religious. I do not care what religion you identify with as long as you are very casual about it.

So if you're looking for a life partner, a smart, sexy, fun, intelligent, caring, supportive, down to earth girl, then let's chat!
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a litigator, and I love it! Arguing in court is such a rush . . . especially when you win. :-)
I’m really good at
baking, cooking, dancing, writing, drawing, and arguing (the lawyer in me).
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, my eyes, and my hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Jemima J, Fifty Shades of Grey, Flowers for Algernon, The Great Gatsby
Movies: Pretty Woman, Dirty Dancing, The Holiday, Music & Lyrics, Wedding Crashers, Bridesmaids, The Hangover
Shows: Castle, Modern Family, Blue Bloods, Scandal
Music: The Beatles, Frou Frou, Michael Buble, Carly Simon, T-Pain, Usher, Zero 7, Imogen Heap
Food: Sushi, Alma de Cuba, Sang Kee, New Delhi, Coeur de Roma
The six things I could never do without
1) my family
2) love
3) food - I live to eat, not eat to live.
4) cell phone
5) my teddy bear Jack
6) internet
On a typical Friday night I am
either having dinner out, at a movie, or out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a bizarre list of celebrity crushes that pretty much no one else finds attractive.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 29–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
you are looking for a relationship . . . NOT A ONE-NIGHT STAND or FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS SITUATION; if you prefer girly girls; if you understand compromise and get that guys and girls are different; if you believe in chivalry; if you have old-fashioned values when it comes to relationships; and if your college lifestyle of getting drunk most nights of the week is in the past.