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42 M Portland, ME

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:22am
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Other, but not too serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am funny and positive. I appreciate honesty and kindness. A good sense of humor is a is way too short to not laugh a lot.

I have a strong passion for knowledge. This can be through education, or just about things or places that I find interesting.
I've traveled throughout Europe, India, Nepal, and Indonesia. There are many other places I can't wait to see.
I love being outside
Yoga and the gym are favorites
I like volunteering in the community.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I taught high school in NY, but I made some big changes a while back. I'm an RN, and I am in a masters program to be a Family Nurse Practitioner.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking with people about what they find interesting.
Talking about what I find interesting....
Cooking and enjoying food with friends.
Laughing as much as I can.
Being comfortable in my own skin.
Being content with what I have.
Being available and present.
Playing guitar, bass and...pool.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am tall, so that jumps out...I'm funny, and I'm told I make people feel comfortable.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors like Harry Crews, Flannery O'Connor, Larry Brown, Ron Rash,Irvine Welsh, Jim Harrison, G. Garcia Marquez, Neil Gaiman, Roald Dahl, Charlie Houston, Michael Chabon....Non fiction, The Way of the White Clouds, Anagarika Govinda, Thich Nhat Hanh, Robert Thurman. History....

Music is a big part of my life. I have been playing in bands since I was 14. I play bass and guitar. I am actually playing guitar right now...badly, as its hard to play while typing. I like Stax/Motown, Miles, Coltrane, Elliott Smith, Pavement, PJ Harvey, Yo La Tengo, VU, The Melvins, Mogwai , Nick Cave, Neil Young, QOTSA, classical, flamenco and lots of other stuff.

I really enjoy watching good (and some bad) films with friends. I like everything from Wes Anderson to Coen Brothers and Tarantino films...

tv shows- Parks and Rec, Daily Show, Colbert, Archer, The League, The Wire, Breaking Bad, Community, Arrested Development, 30 Rock
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My instruments (I guess that counts as more than 1...)
A good grocery, where I can get locally sourced food.
Quality coffee. I may have a problem. I'm ok with it.
My 12" saute pan and a kitchen.
The Eastern Prom...
Good friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where I can travel to and when, and with whom...
What is truly important to me and what is just stuff I want but don't need....
What I can do to help someone
What's next...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out to dinner with friends, maybe seeing some music, or spending time at home, it depends on how much down time I need.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I had a summer job as an ice cream truck guy in college, and was sent for tutoring with a ice cream "pro," due to my poor ice cream joke...Harder than it looks people..
You should message me if
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If you are in good place in your life, where you wake up and feel interested and look forward to your day (usually).