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steeleky

28 / M / Straight / Single

Laguna Niguel, California

His Details

Last Online
Today – 7:11pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Reading a bunch of these gets dull, so here's some weird facts about me.

I'm the kind of guy who will read a book on 18th century manners for fun. My New Year's resolutions included learning French and memorizing a poem every week (and I've been sticking to them). When I go out to breakfast, I like to place bets with my friends on whether the parents at the next table will cut their children's pancakes for them. I can hold my hands together behind my back and pull them over my head without letting go.

And now for the normal information.

I grew up in a small town in Michigan and moved out here five years ago to work at a school run by one of my heroes. I started as a secretary. Five years later, that hero is one of my close friends and I’m a full time teacher, planning the next move in my career. The school is something special and I’m proud to be a part of it. I work on developing art appreciation and history curriculum for lower elementary students. If you want me to talk non-stop, ask me how I think history should be taught to kids.

Aside from my curriculum, I have a strong interest in child development. I’m thinking about going to school to get a masters in counseling or therapy, but I’m still figuring that out.

For fun, I like to go to art museums and plays (whenever I can afford the latter). I listen to podcasts and audiobooks constantly. Like everyone else, I like going to movies, but I always want a trip to the movies to be followed by drinks and discussion. I also spend a lot of time playing complex, nerdy card games and board games. I guess I’m a gamer and I’m hip with that culture, but it’s not the driving force in my life.

I liked hiking when I lived back east, but all the trails out here seem dry and desolate. I’d love for someone to prove me wrong on this. I'm not much of an athlete, but I do what I need to to stay fit.
I’m really good at
-Making almond pancakes.
-Visiting art museums.
-Arguing about the meaning of a movie.
-Helping a child to stop crying.
-Fixing printers.
-Finding new hobbies.
-Admitting when I don't know something.
The first things people usually notice about me
Physically, friends tell me my eyes and smile stand out... wait... that makes it sound like I need to push them in...

Personality-wise, several friends have told me that they like talking to me because I "actually listen and ask questions." I thought that was flattering.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Ninety-Three (by Victor Hugo), Getting Things Done, Surely You're Joking Mr. Feinman, Ender's Game, The Oxford Book of English Verse, Less Than Words Can Say, The Fountainhead

Movies: The King's Speech, I Love You, Man, Amelie, The Paper Chase, The Name of the Rose, The Lives of Others,

Shows: Mad Men, Veronica Mars, Firefly, Dexter, Coupling (UK), The Office, Community, MST3K

Music: Recently, I've been listening to a lot of Fleet Foxes, Passion Pit, and Phoenix. iTunes tells me that, historically, my favorite bands have been Liquid Tension Experiment, Coheed & Cambria, LITE, and Dave Matthews Band. When singing karaoke, I have an affinity for Motown.

Food: Anything you can be snobbish about — beer, wine, cheese, scotch, cigars. I'm not snobby; I just like those kinds of things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Until this week, I was spending a lot of time thinking about a lecture I was preparing for the parents at my school on the math curriculum.

The next deck I'm going to build (I play nerdy card games). Poems I'm trying to memorize (right now it's Charge of the Light Brigade). The best way to correct my students' behavior.
On a typical Friday night I am
I usually go out for drinks with my friends from work. Or sometimes I have some friends over to play games, watch a movie, and talk.

I don't like clubs. I'd rather be somewhere I can talk.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I talk to my cat. It's hard because he's a communist and I'm a capitalist, but we keep the conversation civil.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating