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34 Oakland, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 31–38
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 30
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
English, Chinese

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My self-summary
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A native of New Mexico, I've spent the last 5+ years in MD. My job allows me to work remotely so i've been trying to figure out where I want to be. Options can be good but can be overwhelming too.

I get that life can be hard but I admire people who have overcome challenges & learn from their past experiences with their sense of humor intact.

I am looking for someone who's ready to be settled - someone to do the simple things in life with - eating, cooking, errands, etc.

Things I like: traveling, hiking, running, skiing, outdoorsey things in general, Glee, musicals, the Bay area, Orangina, Debussy, reading.

a great saturday for me would include a hike/run through a park on a crisp cool day or a fun game of tennis with a tasty meal (korean, bonchon, dim sum, etc) to top it off. if you like to run on a semi-frequent basis, watch/play tennis.

I am interested in a man who is grounded, kind, with a sense of humor who values friends and family & is stable (aka you have a steady job), level headed & patient. Yes being single is fun but so is the familiarity of a partnership. I like witty people who can banter back forth - If you can dish it out, you better be able to take it.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working for Uncle Sam.
Motivating myself to run (please help)
Looking for a slower pace of life where I can be around community of genuine people
Would like to get a dog - if you know anything about them, please let me know!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening to people, laughing, organic chemistry
The first things people usually notice about me
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you tell me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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i like a lot of books, so it's hard for me to narrow down to just a few. I also read a ton for my job so I haven't been doing as much leisure reading.

I've been trying to get through
- is everybody talking about me
- a financial planning book

some of my fav shows: once upon a time, modern family, glee, top chef

food - i love food. bonchon. korean food. dim sum. macaroons. meat in general.

music - i like all types, i'm not super picky & don't tend to seek out music. i used to play piano & violin so i like classical.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sunshine. Secondly, carbohydrates, music, my family, friends, working out
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
An idealized life - cottage with a garden, a dog, game nights, walking to the farmer's market, dinner on the porch with a glass of wine while knowing my neighbors
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends - this usually involves eating
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my friends call me silent G
You should message me if
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you have a good story to share.
you have something funny to tell me.
you believe in old fashioned chivalry