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  • Ages 30-59
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Last online
Aug 16, 2013
5' 8" (1.73m)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Warm and imaginative soul from a friendlier planet with a broad but not blunt sense of humour and interested in other people.
I live a wildly busy, but not at all wild, existence with a very demanding job, a family of grown-up kids and a constantly yoyoing existence between my three places of work keeping me on my toes.

I eat food, walk, drive, talk and listen... there, thats the unique selling point, right there: I believe myself unique but don't have a deity who could support that notion so probably i am just trying to become unique whilst still conforming... tough challenge huh?. I do love music, books and a 'passion' for art, film, photography and cultural relativity....

I love stories, including histories, I care way too much about the novel and am addicted to coffee.

Overwhelmingly I am a happy soul.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
living a normal working existence but am gradually opening myself back up to the wider world and preparing for some real change.... I have no idea what the future will bring... not sure if i will design it or discover it!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Understanding things.

Listening to music


Massage, especially shoulders

I make nice coffee too!!

Rennaissance man, huh?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Who can say? I suppose since nobody could ever possibly know the answer to this question, it must mean "what do you think is the thing they first notice?"

eyes, i guess
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This would take forever and then you just have a list of inputs...

Short version: Murakami, Shins, Bandler, Bateson, Cibo Matto...

love a bit of postmodern irony wherever i can get some

A lot of movies...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my android
taste, touch, fear, hunger, courage and desire
'The incredible string band'
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People... especially those close to me
How lucky i am
songs... they run through my head constantly!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
driving somewhere for the weekend
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am very open minded, almost to a fault. I tolerate way too much!
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