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46 Philadelphia, PA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 37-48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:48pm
Straight, Sapiosexual
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 1" (1.55m)
Body Type
Not at all
Dropped out of Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has dogs and Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a geek and a feminist and a thinker and a dreamer and sometimes a do-er. Working on being more of a do-er.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Self-employed with my own costuming company. It's pretty awesome. Taking care of three idiot cats and one bemused dog. Being as much of a SJW (and I use the term unironically) as I can be. Doing my best to kick ass and take names. Crusading against the rising tide of opposition to the Oxford comma.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Corsetry. I fucking rock at that. TARDIS corset, Iron Man corset, period pieces-- I've done lots of them, and am always doing more.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My breasts. Thanks, I grew them myself. No, I don't need to be told about them. I know they're there.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I really love K-pop, and and took a pretty amazing trip to Korea last spring, so I usually have Mnet on in the background. Or HGTV. Or one of the Marvel Universe franchise movies. Or Doctor Who. (Five or Ten, since you're going to ask that eventually.) As for reading, if it has to do with the life of Shakespeare, I'm all over it. Non-fiction usually brings me to sci-fi/fantasy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.





I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Feminism. Architecture. Language. How to improve my business. My friends. The novel I'm currently editing. The other novel I'm currently writing. Finding the right guy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Getting ready for a show or setting up for one. Or sitting around thinking, "Wait, it's Friday?"
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm back here again. I'm sure you can infer all sorts of things from that.
You should message me if
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You're a progressive, liberal, smart, open-minded gentleman in my age range, you're fairly local, we're a >85% match, you are actually ready for a potentially serious relationship, you aren't going to call me "sweetie" or "honey" or "baby" or "dear" before you've even met me, your first communication isn't going to be about my physical appearance, you aren't going to send me pictures of your penis, and you can type in complete sentences using complete words. Yes, spelling counts. In other words, I get a lot of messages that seem to be written by a disciple of Prince, only without the brain-shredding guitar. I don't answer any of them.