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Kaitlin_w

21 F San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Aug 4
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Student
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If you can find and correctly identify the one thing (object) that is in almost all my pictures I'll be very happy.

I would prefer communication from people who identify as female but if you feel like you fit my criteria go ahead male identified individuals. I am not into heteronormative behavior or people who value such ideologies. If you don't know what heteronormative is then don't bother communicating with me I don't have time to reprogram adults.
I AM NOT INTERESTED IN ALCOHOLICS (self identified or otherwise) for friends or hook ups or anything. But must be ganja friendly; smoker till the day I chose to be otherwise. I laughed out loud to see that this site has rated me as "More Arrogant", at first I was offended but then I remembered all the other names strong opinionated feisty ladies have been called and I've decided that I don't give a fuck what OKC thinks of me. I am new to this site and just like the battle of whether to get a smart phone or not I have mixed feelings about this kind of people finding site. I am willing to try, Ill do this and drag my ass into the 21st century kicking and screaming but I will never give up black and white film photography!

For those who know or care I am an INTJ
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I go to CCSF and Im planning to transfer in August to Cal state Monterey bay where I'm going for a BA in psychology. I am a certified crisis counselor and an active volunteer at my local rape crisis center. I teach at a reform Jewish synagogue in SF and I also work at CCSF and in SFUSD schools giving presentations.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Im really good at listening, and talking. I love cooking, and eating. (Theres a pattern here…) I have numerous assorted hobbies that you may ask about. I also enjoy singing and yoga.

"Only a pragmatist would describe themselves as a pragmatist." -a dear friend responding to me

I am very good at driving, I prefer manuals, and I also prefer high speeds.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am personable, Im a mench, and Ive been told that I have a "nice yoga butt". People say all sorts of things about me, I guess it depends on who you ask and who is doing the noticing. If I wore short shorts or skirts more often then I think the first thing to be noticed would be the giant tattoo on my left thigh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The Little Prince, Harry Potter, Bonk, The Celestine Prophecy, I Robot, Stumbling on Happiness, 1984, Clockwork Orange, The Great Gatsby, My Fathers House and The Glass Castle.

Movies: Fight Club, Kill Bill I/II, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, The Matrix, Young Frankenstein, The Professional, Chocolat; I also grew up on musicals, I can't sit through one without singing along. Oh and just about any Monty Python or Hayao Miyazaki films.

I wish I could say I don't watch TV shows but I do. Dexter, Breaking Bad, The Simpsons, Wilfred, The Boondocks, House of Cards, Sherlock, Dr Who, Skins, House MD, Blue Planet, Orange is the New Black, Loui, Sons of Anarchy and That 70's Show.

I love burritos, sushi, deli sandwiches, Thai curry and chocolate chip cookies, the gooey kind.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1.Water/Air/Food (ya know the bio needs)
2.Intimacy (sex, cuddling, affection, etc)
3.Yoga (Philosophy and Physical practice)
4.Costal Living, more specifically California, home of the BURRITO!!
5.Music and the Arts
6.Education, I value life long learning
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking about sex, primarily sex with women. Except heres the thing, I am very shy with women I'm attracted to. I see it almost as my way of trying to be respectful, because people tend to holler at beautiful women, I don't want to do that; Id rather have a conversation.
I think about intersectionality, collective unconsciousness, food and drugs (my experiences and those of others, and society), intentional communities, sustainable living, renewable resources, music, the end of reality as I know it, school, just stuff like that.
Also how early should we integrate knowledge about sexual health and how to give and ask for consent in our schools? Answer this please.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching a movie, smoking something herby. I DO NOT PARTY, I have never been the type, although I am social; I don't enjoy small talk or drivel about superficial things or drunken ridiculousness. I am a foodie, born and raised in SF so I know a lot of good places to go for noshing or grubbing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I hate this kind of thing. I believe that if we open our eyes we meet amazing people every day, I don't need the internet to help me find mates. BUT, I am willing to give this some effort though.
I AM SHY WITH WOMEN, so do me a favor and message me to chat ladies. Men I am not shy at all about telling you to fuck off.

Also I live at home, with my parents; fuck paying for rent in San Francisco. I have much gratitude for my situation.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're a chiler, a thinker, a dreamer, a singer, dancer, artist, cook, a lover of nature and the outdoors. If you are interested in having sex, then know that I am very selective. We could just talk among many things in between. I'm down for human connection in many forms. I have rather high standards and expectations, emotional stability and self regulation, awareness and respect for the gender and sexualty sepctrums, compassionate, and spiritually, culturally and sexually open minded. Communication is key if you don't believe this is the core of all human relations then we have differing opinions.

Tip 1: talk to me about shit I'm interested in. Do not open with comments about my appearance. I own mirrors.

Tip 2: do not assume anything. If I don't talk to you, it probably just means I didn't know how to respond to you. If I do talk to you, it's no indicator that I'm interested.

With that said, don't be scared. Just engage me in conversation and treat me like a person. Try asking me a question, my answers may surprise you.

Also messages like "hey" or "how's your weekend going?" Or "how you doing?" Are not likely to be responded to. I'm looking for something a bit more engaging.