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Kaitrose

29 / F / Bisexual / Single

Portland, Oregon

Her Details

Last Online
May 8
Ethnicity
Native American, White, Other
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from space camp
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
***UPDATE*** Currently things are a bit crazy and I have like 30 unread messages here, it's a bit daunting to look at that list and respond. So fyi it's probably not personal. Feel free to message but keep in mind I may not be highly responsive till life settles down a little. ~~~

You know, I keep typing things here then go back and read a month later and think wow that's not right at all!?!

In short I'm a rather bizarre awkward chubby nerd who has learned how to apply makeup, tie a corset, and blend into social situations.

I am looking for something amazing with someone amazing. I want to be blown away. Perfection is boring though and I want someone innately flawed, but ideally aware of their own characteristics and their effect on others. I want to find someone kind hearted and sadistic with a solid, easy going, creative, nerdy, intelligent head on their shoulders (since I'm sure a lack of head would be awkward).

Ideally they would revel in my imperfections and accept their own, though I am past the point in my life where I want to be holding someone up. I want an equal who carries me when I need carrying and reaches for my hand when they wobble, I want a partner and like minded weirdo to enjoy life with. I am extremely open minded and am very unlikely to judge you though my filter for external vs internal dialog is sometimes missing although never intended to harm. I am a curvy happy girl and comfortable in my own skin but I am lonely and happiest caring for someone. I think I'm pretty good at placing myself in someone elses shoes which means I can be extremely forgiving and understanding of things that many would not understand or forgive if I understand your reasons. This also means I can be a bit harsh and cold if I think your complaints are self created or more out of a need for attention than as a legitimate frustration, vent, or concern. Don't whine about your terrible life to me unless you are actually trying to fix it. I do believe I have reached a comfortable balance between the two though. ;)

I want to be humored in my idiosyncrasies but called out when I'm being ridiculous since upon occasions I will likely be ridiculous.

Looks don't make or break a connection but some butterflies in my stomach would be nice, often caused more by some emotional trigger than physical. Though physically I tend to be more attracted to creative looking men (I am bi but it takes a very rare woman to peek my interest). Tattoos, piercings, an interest in the darker music or nightlife, creepy things that the average person avoids like decrepit buildings, dark caves, or oddly shaped bugs on a hiking path. Strange raised eyebrow expressions, overwhelming movie video game or board games collections, and star wars/star trek obsessions are all pluses as well. (Hehe, that rhymed a little.)

I appreciate old world manners, elegance, and style with a sleazy back alley sense of humor and something or someone who possess those qualities will surely catch my attention. Awkward quirks and intelligence with a hint of crazy keeps my attention. I respect confidence but confidence without merit means you'll quickly loose my respect. Be yourself, show me what you enjoy, the places you enjoy, the things that hold your attention, and I'll return the favor.

I'm am much shyer than I seem and can be very quiet at first but when I'm comfortable I open up quite a bit and can be very outgoing or content sitting silently for long periods of time doing very little. I like public displays of affection and am at heart an old school romantic, I think the thought put into a date, gift, or compliment is way more important than the money spent or result of said action. I am intelligent, creative, and honest, I may attempt to spare your feelings from time to time but I will not lie to you.

I treat the men I care for with respect and want the respect returned. I take life as it comes and enjoy the experience, life is short so LIVE already! I sing, I dance, I paint, I draw, I lounge, I play video games, I play card games, I watch too many movies, I enjoy my creatures, I want to experience everything, and I want to fall crazy, madly, spontaneous song and dance number in the rain, in love someday!

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What I’m doing with my life
I have a habitual love of new experiences and crave a life less ordinary. I sing in a band, have been sky diving twice, I've climbed the side of a mountain, rafted down white water rapids, owned a house, made love in the rain, been an extra on film, ridden the max train in only my undies, had lunch on the lawn of a castle, handled an original Dali, owned an original Aragones, stood in the same doorway as Leonardo Da Vinci, seen the lights of Paris, touched the statue of David, been to Disneyland (worked there technically), cuddled with a wolf, held a crocodile, been engaged, touched a shrunken head, stood at the center of the Coliseum, grown up, stayed young, loved deeply, mourned deeply, and continued to live. Opportunities do not always come again. I love new experiences and I am happy and strive to be happy as often as possible.

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I’m really good at
Hmm, honestly not sure. I think I can hold a tune fairly well, I have an eye for composition, and I can mimic the sound of a baby crying perfectly. Seriously... it's kinda creepy.

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The first things people usually notice about me
Depends on who's noticing. Besides I'm not other people so I wouldn't know. :)

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Random assortment of tastes, I enjoy dark humor in anything, and really like horror, romance, fantasy, adventure, & sci-fi probably most as far as movies and books are concerned. Too many favorites to name here!

I don't eat red meat or poultry (never liked the taste) but I love seafood and Italian.

I tend to enjoy more gothic/industrial/EBM/80's/synth pop/oldies/poundy etc. styles of music, but can appreciate a wide range of sounds. (pretty much anything with a good beat or tune)

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The six things I could never do without
Inspiration, love, music, movies, new experiences, and black lace.

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
This site thinks I am less moral and less kind, less by who's standards? I believe I am kinder than most and my moral code may be my own but is extremely fair and consistent.

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On a typical Friday night I am
At home, at a movie with friends, playing games, or something else low key, since Fridays have recently become my new day of rest and relaxation. Besides not much that I regularly attend happens on Friday nights.

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I see dead people...oOooOoh!

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I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 24–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
This seems as good a place as any to add this point...

I have a dirty mind and am a very sexual person, open minded, and playful. I'll try almost anything once and some things again and again.

However, these are traits reserved for my good friends and this does not mean I am easy or will sleep with random strangers who message me on dating sites expecting to "hook up". If you send me a message and the first words out of your mouth are of a sexual nature, all I'm gonna think is that what's in your pants is your ENTIRE personality and I will likely ignore you. I take very few sexual partners, so you are barking up the wrong tree if this is your only interest. That being said, I think we'll have a lot of fun if it gets to that point. I am a strong believer in attraction, trust, and friendship first.

If you still have any interest in getting to know me, you definitely should!

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