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32 M Oak Park, IL

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Dislikes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Born on Staten Island to newly-emigrated English parents, raised in New Jersey, went to high school in Illinois, graduated from Purdue, and now situated about 20 yards from the edge of Chicago.

I'm a geek and a gamer, and proud to be so. I tend to get really talkative and excitable about my interests: cars, video games, art, computers, books, England, and design. My sense of humor is firmly tongue in cheek and usually eye-roll inducing.

I am geeky, honest, and true.
What I’m doing with my life
Generally trying to improve myself and enjoy life in Chicago.
I’m really good at
Listening, finding ways to waste time in the city, building IKEA furniture.
The first things people usually notice about me usually the beard. To be fair, it is a fine, full, dignified beard.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy (and everything else Douglas Adams), Harry Potter, High Fidelity, Middlesex, The Best American Nonrequired Reading series, Kafka on the Shore, Crime and Punishment, The Master & Margarita, John Hodgman's books

Movies - Clerks, Amelie, Batman Begins, High Fidelity (there it is again), Blazing Saddles, Spaceballs, Serenity, The Big Lebowski, Shaun of the Dead, Hot Fuzz, Star Trek (the new one and most of the old ones), Clue, Stranger than Fiction, Secretary, The Dark Knight (yes I like Maggie Gyllenhaal, why do you ask?)

Music - Radiohead, Bjork, The White Stripes, The National, The Hold Steady, Ted Leo & the Pharmacists, Sleater-Kinney, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, David Bowie, The Decemberists, St. Vincent, Florence & the Machine. I love medium-sized concerts and festivals; think Pitchfork vs. Lolla.

Food - Fish & chips, New York-style pizza, a proper PB&J, Strongbow, Cadbury's, Chipotle (not real Mexican, I know, but it's comfort food), good sharp cheese, good beer, Longman & Eagle

TV Shows - I don't watch TV much anymore (except for Castle and Futurama), but my all-time favorites include Spaced, Arrested Development, Top Gear, Star Trek: TNG, Doctor Who, Life on Mars/Ashes to Ashes, Flight of the Conchords, Sherlock, and Yes, Minister
The six things I could never do without
1) Family
2) Friends
3) Sleep
4) The Internet
5) Open and honest communication
6) A place to call home
I spend a lot of time thinking about
...various tangential thoughts about fantastic designs or works of art or flights of fancy. I tend to daydream whenever I get the chance.
On a typical Friday night I am home watching a movie/playing a game or hanging out with a good friend wandering Andersonville, Wicker Park, Lincoln Square, or some other fun neighborhood.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit that I'm not very private. I don't keep anything about my life secret, though I don't exactly shout about all of it from on high. Once I get to know a person, even after a couple of hours, I'm willing to talk about anything. I'm just very open.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
...the idea of sitting in a cozy bar with a good pint and discussing a wide range of irrelevant topics until the bartender kicks us out in the wee hours of the morning appeals to you.