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Kalaehdhari

19 / F / bisexual / Single

Indianapolis, Indiana

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 2" (1.57m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am laidback, rather confident, and pretty random.

My Self-Summary

You probably shouldn't judge me by my appearance. Even though I'm small and feminine looking, I'm not the girly type at all. I'm not afraid to go out and get my hands dirty. In my opinion, I think I'm a pretty fun and easy going kind of girl, but I'm very blunt, so I can be seen as a bitch sometimes. I'm a complete dork, and not ashamed of it. Huge fan of tattoos and piercings, and I've started a small collection of my own. Oh, I'm going to say this upfront and maybe prevent some confusion. I consider myself a pansexual, not bisexual. For those of you who don't understand what that means, I don't take physical appearances in consideration when connecting with another person. I tend to look for girls more often, but it wouldn't matter to me if you were purple with a third eye as long as you have a good heart, heh. So, don't be afraid to shoot me a message!

What I’m doing with my life

I guess you could say that I'm at that stage where I'm still deciding on what I want to do with my life. My main focus right now it just to try to have fun with whatever life throws at me.

I’m really good at

I'm usually kinda good at a lot of things, but really good at very few things....

The first things people usually notice about me

Probably my ridiculous good looks...

Heh, but seriously. My eyes, how tiny I am...

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I LOVE to read. Into pretty much anything that can take me far away from current reality, especially fantasy or supernatural fictions, and historical fictions. Long series are definitely a plus, I hate to see stories end. Some favorites are The Women of the Underworld series, The Chronicles of Narnia, and the Anita Blake: Vampire Hunter series (I'll be the first to admit that Laurell K. Hamilton is a terrible writer, but her characters are so addicting...)

As for movies, I watch just about anything. Romantic comedies, slasher films, musicals, terrible B movies, action movies....

Music is one of my greatest passions. I love soulful and meaningful lyrics, fun beats that you just can't help but dance to, and just plain old catchy tunes. I tend to stick with some of the older classics (The Beatles, Pink Floyd, Led Zeppelin, Queen) and a few more modern bands (Tool, Incubus, A Perfect Circle, Nickle Creek) but I like a bit of everything. I bet you that we can find at least one band in common that we both enjoy.

Hehe, and food. I have a huge sweet tooth and an obsession with all that is carbohydrate. I'm not a vegetarian, but I just don't eat much meat. My current weakness is definitely Butterfingers and anything with rice.

The six things I could never do without

Good music

Companionship- I don't like being alone. Even on days when I need a little privacy, I'll make my cat keep me company.

Pretty girls, hehe

Some means of communication- Either my cellphone or internet access. I don't like being unavailable, just in case some one needs me.

Soft and warm things- Hoodies, sweaters, throws, hugs...

And candy!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Everything and nothing, all at once. My mind wonders a lot, and frequently gets lost....

On a typical Friday night I am

I don't discriminate between different nights of the week. I may go out and party on a Tuesday, and I may curl up under a quilt and watch Food network on Saturday.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm an open book. If you ask, I will almost always give a truthful answer.

You should message me if

If you want? I like meeting new people. Tell me anything that's on your mind, ask me anything you feel like. Only one warning though. I will probably only respond if you say something unique, or if you spark my interests in some way.