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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 7:28am
Asian, Pacific Islander, White
Open relationship
Relationship Type
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Average build
Buddhism but it’s not important
Post grad
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Producer. Filmmaker. Storyteller. Traveler. Exploring the outer, as well as the inner reaches.

High functioning with a wild streak. A dreamer with feet planted firmly. One part driven professional, two parts artsy bohemian hedonist. I protect my downtime, and I'll always stop to ogle a full moon.

I'm happily married to a wonderful woman whom I met on this site. We are exploring our own flavor of polyamory based in lifestyle kink. While she is my primary in life, I'm available to explore kink and connection with other unique souls if the chemistry feels right.

We're very grateful to be sorounded by an adventurous, supportive, and like minded community. Don't be intimidated. There's always room for more awesome. Bring it.

Film nut. Bibliophile. Folk art collector. Gifted amateur shutter bug. Visual. Right brained. Conceptual. Chill.

ENFP, if the Myers Briggs scale means anything to you.

Trickster. Mad scientist. Something of a provocateur in my film and photography work. At gatherings, I can be the playful instigator. I'm the one convincing the guests to go skinny dipping, pose for naughty pictures, or make out with random people.

I feel deeply connected to the universe within my own meandering spiritual exploration. Organized religion is fascinating, but not for me personally. I'm awe struck by the mystery. Curious in all regards.

Compassionate. Grounded. Open hearted. Open minded. Nurturing.

Sensual. Kinky. Dominant. Impeccable boundaries. Very experienced. GGG of course.

An even mixture of light and dark. Drawn to authenticity in all it's forms. I'm well aquainted with my shadow and that helps me be a whole person.

Some other random interests...

Ancestors, Anime, Architecture, Design, Literature, Nature, Participation, Positivity, Power Exchange, Radical self expression, Temporary community, Tropics, Truth, Typography, Vintage Erotica, Voyeurism, Water, Weed, Wilderness, Words.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Exploring digital media in many forms. Interactive narratives. Virtual reality. Game and Mobile app development. Living uniquely. Enjoying my friends and family. Yoga.

Traveling. Just got back from three weeks in India. Mind blowing! I love Hawaii and the tropics. Snorkeling. Scuba diving (I still need to get certified). River rafting. Burning Man (I've gone six times). Thinking about Jazz Fest in New Orleans or possibly Peru as my next trip.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making pictures. Asymmetrical thinking. Giving good conversation. Ideation. Cooking mole. Bringing the best out in others. Remembering actors names. Giving massage. Taking care of my loved ones. Reciting the fifty states in alphabetical order. Conjuring surrealism.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My ethnicity. I'm a cocktail of English, German, Hawaiian, and Chinese.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Amores Perros, Alice (the Jan Svankmajer version), The Piano, Dead Ringers, Wizard of Oz, Eraserhead, Nostalgia, Stalker, Singin' In The Rain, Haxan, Last of the Mohicans, Secretary, Tokyo Decadence, In the Realm of the Senses, Toy Story, Fantastic Planet, Good Fellas, Taxi Driver, Last House on the Left, I Walked with a Zombie, Burden of Dreams, Fitzcaraldo, Fanny and Alexander, The Re-animator, Straw Dogs, Faster Pussycat Kill Kill, Microcosmos, Winged Migration, Paris Texas, Repulsion, In the Mood for Love


Radiohead, John Coltrane, Beatles, Ali Farka Toure, Patti Smith, Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds, Morphine, ICP, White Stripes, Velvet Underground, Voltio, Plastilina Mosh, Miles Davis, Morcheeba, Muddy Waters, Kronos Quartet, Gogol Bordello, Cafe Tacuba, Buena Vista Social Club, Air


Sweet Thursday, The Alexandria Quartet, Macho Sluts, Micky In The Night Kitchen, Strewelpeter, Higglety Pigglety Pop, Day of the Locust, Kama Sutra, Charlie and the Great Glass Elevator


Sushi, Sashimi, Ceviche, Blackened Catfish, Corn bread, Bangers and mash, BBQ,...American, Mexican, Thai, Indian, Hawaiian, French...yum!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, friends, animals, love, natural beauty, my GPS (See above), ideas, art, good design, good sex, stories, and adventures.

Oops. Counting is not my strong suit.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
New creative projects.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cooking dinner with friends. Catching a flick. I'm pretty active generally, so I don't feel pressure to "have a Friday night'. It's nice to unwind after the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm an open book. Ask me, you'll see.
You should message me if
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You're open minded, poly (or interested in poly), creative, adventurous (goes without saying, right?), reasonably fit, sexy, tom boy or femme, kinky (or interested in kink), and you like what you're reading. Soft spot for old souls. Consideration given to those already in open relationships.