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32 M Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:22am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English, Ancient Greek (Okay), Italian (Okay)

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My self-summary
I don't drink bourbon, have a beard, ride a bicycle, or shop at Beacon's closet.

I read somewhere that J.S. Mill wrote that "people like in crowds".

I'm a PhD student but check out the next section for details.

I grew up in Boston, went to school in NYC, and worked as an educator in Chicago. I have good friends in all these cities. I live in Park Slope. When I'm not working, I like to spend time with friends but I also like to read and watch movies (who doesn't?). I have a diverse group of friends. I'm looking for someone who's comfortable mingling with different sorts of people.

I value people who have a moral compass but aren't self-righteous, closed-minded, or rigid. I'm a pretty free person.
What I’m doing with my life
Working--grudgingly--in finance while finishing a second degree. I have my sights set on law school. (I'm taking the LSAT this fall).

I'd like to use whatever skills I have to effect social change and am a little troubled that my current work doesn't allow for this.

I have something pretty specific I want to do with law. Feel free to ask. I think I can give a short answer. (If not, I'd better learn).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This probably has nothing to do with whether we'll like each other.

*Fiction*: Alexander Solzhenitsyn, Dostoyevsky, Raymond Chandler.

*Shows*: The Wire, Newsroom, Punky Brewster. You should watch David Letterman interviewing Harmony Korine sometime.

*Movies*: Roman Polansky, Fellini, Kieslowski (The Decalogue), Antonioni, Fargo, Rumble Fish, Strangers on a Train, Rear Window.

*Music*: Bibio, Squarepusher, A Tribe Called Quest, Bach, John Coltrane, Eric Dolphy, Mingus, Neil Young, Nirvana, The Pixies, Beck, Sonic Youth, Dale Bozzio, Lady Gaga, Madonna, Frank Zappa, Brian Eno, Glen Branca.
The six things I could never do without
Friends, family, exercise, natural beauty, music, good food.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What it means to "not take life too seriously". I probably just failed the test (sigh).

I found this on wikipedia:

"Himself, he never took too seriously—his work most seriously. He regarded the somewhat gaudy figure of ______, the star, with an amused cynicism. In each of the fountains at Versailles there is a pike which keeps all the carp active; otherwise they would grow overfat and die. [He] took rare delight in performing a similar duty in the fountains of ______. Yet his victims seldom bore him any malice. His shafts were fashioned only to stick into the outer layer of complacency, and not to penetrate through to the regions of the spirit where real injuries are done."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't see the point in having full-blown conversations via text. If I don't do so, it's not because I don't like you; it's because I prefer to communicate the old-fashioned way. Texting is a logistical tool for me.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–32
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You can think for yourself and like people while seeing them with open eyes. You like strudel. Above all, be nice.

ps: it turns out that i like saying strudel more than eating it.