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28 • F • Lowell, MA
- Last Online
- Feb 13
- 5′ 2″ (1.57m)
- Body Type
- Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
- Gemini, and it matters a lot
- Graduated from masters program
- Relationship Status
- Seeing Someone
- Relationship Type
- English, German (Poorly)
I try hard to get out and do new things and see new places. I heard once that when you do something for the first time, it gets stored in your memory more vividly than when you do it for the 12th, and I've made that into something of a philosophy. I try to choose new (even if it might be terrible) over familiar whenever possible, so that I never look back at a week or a month without being able to remember anything about it.
On a related note, if you're looking at my profile for romantic purposes you should know I'm in an open relationship. It's kinda great. We opened up the relationship a while back, so far it's really working for us. I'm enjoying getting to know new people without really minding whether the new relationship train ends up taking us to Friendshiptown, Short-term City, or Seriousville.
Comics (because I really like comics): I'm extremely omnivorous, devouring almost anything that can be borrowed from the library or other people. Favorites include Blankets, anything Alan Moore, Chris Claremont X-Men, anything featuring any Barbra Gordon, Rick Geary's A Treasury of Victorian Murder.
Movies: Perfume, The Fall, Harold and Maude, 40-year-old-Virgin, Airplane!, Muppet Christmas Carol, Vertigo, It's a Wonderful Life.
TV: Star Trek, Batman: TAS, Buffy, Doctor Who, How I Met Your Mother, Blackadder, Happy Endings, Community, Daria, Sesame Street, Game of Thrones and Mad Men. I'll give almost anything animated a chance.
Music: I really like the Magnetic Fields, Rilo Kiley, Johnny Cash, Moby, anything weird and old, including country, motown and folk and, I dunno, ragtime. Music isn't my most passionate interest, but I love the stuff I love.
2. Paperback books
4. Linda Goodmans's Love Signs. It's stupid, I love it still.
Here, I think, are my three worst traits as a companion:
1. Always late
2. Terminally indecisive
3. Often over-thinking
They are somewhat connected: I am often late because I was thinking too much about a simple decision.
- Guys and girls who like bi girls
- Ages 23–34
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
* You like beer. I like beer, and I like drinking it with other people who like beer.
*You think I might be fun to socialize with. As mentioned above, I'm new to the area, so I'd love to meet new friends as well as new romantic interests.
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