I like myself, I'm happy with my life, and I'm usually in a good mood. I prefer to spend my time with people who fit that description as well.
I really hate dancing.
Been getting kind of bored of OkC lately, so putting this out there and seeing if I get any interesting results:
I’m looking for cool attractive guys who are into femdom. I’m particularly into masochists, but if you’re not into pain we may still be compatible. I’m generally more into control than humiliation, but some of my favorite stuff could definitely be described as humiliation. Not into feminization, strap-on, or long-distance anything, sorry not sorry.
I'm also open to hot vanillas, but if we're kink-compatible that's obviously a big plus.
I’m non-monogamous and a full-time pro-domme, so if either of those things are deal breakers, go away.
I know having a BDSM-focused profile is gonna get me some weird messages, so here are some guidelines:
1) Be a person. Message me about something other than your BDSM interests. Don’t get me wrong, I do want to hear about those as well. But I’m not a fetish delivery robot and neither are you, so let’s find something to say to each other that’s unrelated to what gets us off.
2) I know I’m trolling for weird sex on the internet, but we’re still gonna go on a date. You know that thing where you go out for drinks with vanilla girls and don’t assume they’ll be sexing you after? Same concept.
3) If you don’t show your face on your profile, send a link to some photos in your first message so I know you have a face. I don't write back to people without faces.
(I'm here for dating, not clients, but if you want to hire me drop me a line and I'll send you to my website. But once you've done that, don't even think about asking me out. Also be aware that I filter my inbox, so if you're far away or old I probably won't ever see it.)
I also read a lot.
Pretty much everything else by Neil Gaiman
Pretty much everything by Terry Pratchett, especially his Long Earth books
China Miéville (especially Kraken)
Diana Wynne Jones is a goddess
The Magicians series by Lev Grossman
The Secret History
Jonathan Strange and Mr Norrell
Never Let Me Go
The Red Tree
Death at a Funeral
Cabin in the Woods
Silence of the Lambs
Wicker Man (the original, not the remake)
Game of Thrones
Kids in the Hall
A Bit of Fry & Laurie
The Mighty Boosh
The Talking Heads
Things that taste nice
Good reading material
Photos of weird sea creatures
I also take A LOT of selfies.
You like drinking in the sort of bars that aren't too noisy to facilitate good drunk conversation.
You live in or close to Bushwick. I dislike long commutes.