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51 Brighton, UK Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 45–65
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 18
Other and it’s important
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My school reports regularly suggested I knew more than I let on. I think that still stands.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Changing it, from one that I thought I had examined, to one I am really properly examining now. Getting happy. Driving around in my camper van looking for the best view. Cultivating presence.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Thinking, dreaming, planning and evolving. Being a friend. Answering questions on dating websites - far easier than this free-form stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have no idea, but I hope it's my wit, intelligence, innate charm, modesty and radiant charisma.

(Actually my friend is laughing like a drain and saying it's my intimidating aloofness. But what does she know? I think she means my poised reserve.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books - it's all about awareness and growth and challenge at the moment. My book group have kicked me out because I'm sick of Guardian-reader chick-lit.
Movies - I love loads, from block-busters to art house, but the ones on my desert island list are: Casablanca, Local Hero, ET, 21 Grams, Gladiator. Plus loads more. Currently a little obsessed with Game of Thrones - I love a good HBO
Music: I'm only on this website because Leonard Cohen and Bruce Springsteen are unavailable. Oh, that's not music, it's lust, you say? Whatever. Actually it's musical /artistic lust.
Food - is good, yes. I eat it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Thoughtful people to talk with, new things to learn. Laughter. Regular doses of solitude. The internet,

How many is that? Maths, I can live without.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The meaning of life, as it happens.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
very impressed with the schedule on BBC4
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that I once - ooh, actually no, I don't know if I want to share that one
You should message me if
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you get that relationships are the key to growth
you want to share a moment, ask a question, make a comment
you know what The Now is, and where I can find it