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38 Elwood, IN Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–33
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I thought I'd go to Fresno just to see my friend... but my damn Studebaker keeps on breakin' down again.

I'm a nerd, and I wear that hat proudly. (I also wear a Domo-kun winter cap proudly, but that's another story. lol) I love making people laugh and seem to do it quite often. I'm not a shy person, and am quite fine striking up conversations with random people. I try and bring shy people out of their shells that way. (Or make them run in fear, one of the two. lol)

I like foreign films, anime, vidjagames, karaoke, computers, yoga, walks, donut/coffeeshops, mid-afternoon siestas, podcasts, and all kinds of music: electronica/dance/dubstep, alt/college rock, top 40, some country, some rap, 90s alternative...

Hmmm... I have a huge movie collection. Almost 1500 I believe. "Michael Bolton is a major cinephile..."

I've visited most of the US and lived in Canada for a bit of time.

I would like to learn ballroom/swing dance.

I read [b]every[/b] profile I look at. Pics are nice, but I'd like to find out something about a person. That's what makes my decision on whether or not to message them.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Quitting smoking, so occasionally a bit bitchy. lol

Udacity. Check it out:

I've started work on my first video game, tentatively titled "M.A.R.A.." I'm starting art as of 3/8/14, and it will take probably a year or two to finish, but it'll come. (If anyone knows of a good music and/or sound design person, let me know. lol) It's 2D, but if I can get it up on Steam and it sells well, I'd like to make a 3D remake. Everything I plan for it is a bit ambitious for my first undertaking, but I'm excited. My plan is to make a few, then have enough to start a small indie dev studio of maybe 4-5 people.

I work a "real job" because, you know, I've got to and all. I also have a website where I sell video games which brings in money as well. I enjoy doing that. Before the economy tanked that was all I did. Now it's not a feasible option. Working for yourself is much more satisfying though.

A guy once told me something funny yet insighful... He said, "Someone told me a long time ago that the only type of degree worth getting is one that is the name of a job, like "Teacher" or "Computer Programmer," or Architect." "Liberal Arts" is not the name of a job."
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Great with the random trivia.
Not a half bad cook
Electronic things
Video games (and cursing at them when I die!)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well, if they're the kind of person I'd hope to meet, I'll bet they'll notice that I'm standing right in front of them!

In all seriousness though, I really couldn't say.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm going to try and clean this up a bit...

The Catcher in the Rye
On The Road
The Art of War
The Picture of Dorian Gray
Ayn Rand
social theory
He Died With A Felafel in His Hand
Don't Tell Mom I Work the Rigs, She Thinks I'm A Piano Player In A Whorehouse
Battle Royale
Clive Barker

Le Fabuleux destin d'Amélie Poulain
L'auberge espagnole
Les poupées russes
L'ultimo bacio
La Finestra di Fronte
8 1/2
La Dolce Vita
He Died with a Felafel in His Hand
David Lynch
Woody Allen
Oliver Stone
Beat Takeshi
The Room ("I did not hit her, it's not true! It's bullshit! I did not hit her! I did *not*. Oh hi Mark.")
The Rocky films
(most) Marvel comic films
Ocean's 11-13
Many 80s-90s movies

Urusei Yatsura
Bubblegum Crisis/Crash
AD Police
Oh! My Goddess
Studio Ghibli
Ghost in the Shell
Wings of Honneamise
Cowboy Bebop
Gunsmith Cats
Lupin III
School Rumble
Ikki Tousen

Twin Peaks
Futurama (before the reboot)
Harvey Birdman: Attorney at Law
Phineas and Ferb
Degrassi: TNG
Doctor Who, though the older Doctors

Ben Folds
Bob Dylan
Rage Against the Machine
the Beatles
Bruce Springsteen
Chris Isaak
Taylor Swift (don't hate!)
Leonard Cohen
Warren Zevon
Daft Punk
Michael Jackson
Sufjan Stevens
Dashboard Confessional
Juliana Theory
Scissor Sisters

Foodwise, I'm up for anything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The essentials, of course:

Food, water, shelter and clothing.

I don't know if there's honestly anything else I couldn't really live or do without, but if I had to just pick some things:

Family & friends
Podcasts/audiobooks/audiodramas (I've always loved audiodramas or radioplays. Moreso than video, as it allows you to use your imagination to fill the scenes.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future... as it's the only thing we've got to look forward to. ;-)

Traveling. My time living in Canada, and the 40 or so states I've visited. Finding the time to get back to them all. Why I always find it necessary to pick up cheap Willie Nelson CDs at truck stops during cross country road trips.

Why my kitty "chirps" instead of "meows."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out singing karaoke. lol
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an open book and don't mind talking about most anything, since open communication is the only way to have something truly rewarding... But I suppose if someone wants to know something then they'll ask me.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you're someone who may be interested in going to learn big band/swing dance. I'd very much like to learn and am thinking of starting somewhere if I can fit it into my schedule. Having a partner wouldn't be half bad.

If you feel we have some things in common and would have some good conversations that would lead to a friendship, perhaps one day to something more. I'd much prefer to just be friends first and just see what develops. There's no reason to jump headfirst into something. That's how necks get broken.

In the end I'm concerned with a long term scenario. Presently however, I'd prefer to have someone who's interested in just becoming friends to go for lunch, an occasional movie or day out and see what may happen from there.

Also, a big plus if you love Urusei Yatsura as much as I do.