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Kandiane

30 / F / bisexual / Available

Belgrade, Montana

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Thin
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Hospitality / Travel
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am masochistic, loving, and silly.

My Self-Summary

I am currently updating my profile, so keep checking back for more up-to-date information.

I am a good ol' fashion county girl, with some modern updates. ~smirks~ I love being around people..listening and watching. I also love being outdoors, more to be near nature then to do a lot of physical activities. I love making new acquaintances and friends and am a very very open person.

I am a full time submissive and my Master/husband and I have been part of the bdsm lifestyle for about 5-6 yrs and love it. Unfortunately there is not a big community where we live, but we look forward to visiting our friends in Washington where we first got involved in the lifestyle.

I have just recently started reading up on Polyamory. Sir and I have always been curious and are now looking to find others. I am also a voyeur and love watching and listening to people.

What I’m doing with my life

Currently, I am working at a job I love with people that think I am a "good" girl. ~giggle~.

I am also working on improving myself, both inside and out. I am learning about kink and poly. I am working on being a better submissive to my Master.

I’m really good at

listening and playing the devils advocate to help people work through problems/issues. I am good at making people laugh and realize that you don't always have to act your age. I am good at reading people's emotions and auras.

The first things people usually notice about me

My red hair and bright smile.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books

I love a good adventure. I am into slight mystery, but nothing that is going to give me a brain cramp. Enjoy some Fantasy and Sci-Fi.

Favorite titles: Anything by Frank Peretti, or R A Salvatore. I love Jacqueline Carey and Anne Bishop. I am currently working my way through the Dresden books by Jim Butcher.

Movies

I love comedies as long as they are not to corny. I am also a fan of older movies and Disney/children movies. Don't care for scary movies at all..but do enjoy suspense like Stephen King. Also enjoy almost anything that is based on a true story.

Favorite titles: Anne of Green Gables and Anne of Avonlea, Pirates of the Caribbean: The Black Pearl, Ben Hur, Stardust, Sahara]], Secretary, The King and I.

Music::

I am pretty open to all music. Don't care for rap or hip-hop, but anything else I will listen to for a while. Favorite music is Country.

Foods.

I love sugar..anything with sugar is good. I am a country girl, so steak and eggs works for me. I like my food to be recognizable, but will try anything once.

The six things I could never do without

Internet, Tivo, popcorn, chocolate, cat 'o nine tails, photo albums

~I also could not live without my Master, cats, family, friends and sex..but those are not considered "things"~

I spend a lot of time thinking about

..how to keep life simple for my Sir. I think about how to help those around me and those I love. I think about how to best save money to make life easier in the long run. I think a lot about everything.

On a typical Friday night I am

Watching movies, playing online games, surfing the internet, or hanging out with friends

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am a slut and have sex or something sexual on my mind all the time. I love being teased or tortured and mind fucks are my friend.

You should message me if

..you like anything you have seen here. Don't message me if you are just looking to cyber as I am here to make friends or talk to people who have similar interests.