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29 M Leeds, UK

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–28
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jul 9
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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My name is Ben, and thanks for taking a look.

I recently finished my masters degree in politics and now living in Leeds. I have been moving and travelling around quite a lot but now I'm settled and I'm looking for a girl to spend time with and hopefully it goes from there - hopefully someone fun and intelligent who can join in with my active life.

I enjoy playing sports, especially tennis, and going to the gym, which keeps me in good shape. I also like hiking and last minute weekends away, especially if I have a girl to take with me.

I'm more into pubs and house parties than clubbing. But I do enjoy it after enough Blue Moon or Jack Daniels. Also appreciate alone time. I like to sit in coffee shops to do my people-watching and writing.

I lived in America for a year. I've stayed on a ranch and fired a shotgun and ridden horses, driven up a volcano, queued for 2 hours to get donuts in Portland, been to frat parties, and surfed in the Pacific. Come out for a drink with me and I'll tell you more.
What I’m doing with my life
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I volunteer and blog about politics and want to work in that field eventually. Meanwhile, I work in an office.
I’m really good at
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Tennis, writing, studying, pool.
I'm also told I'm quite perceptive.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love foreign and independent film. A few you might have heard of are The Dreamers, LA Confidential, The Social Network, The Ice Storm, Pan's Labyrinth.

I also like Mad Men, Peep Show, Family Guy, The Killers, U2, Neil Young, Pink Floyd, Nirvana.

I'm afraid I allow my studies to dominate my reading. I like Thomas Paine, Richard Dawkins, Paul Krugman, Nietzsche.
Chronicles of Narnia, gothic novels, Roald Dahl - for nostalgic reasons.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why okcupid thinks I'm really old-fashioned?
Going back to the Pacific Northwest.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having civilized conversation with my friends over some beer and pizza, or charming (hopefully) young ladies in a nearby bar.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I sometimes view entire lectures by well-known academics (Hitchens, Chomsky, Krugman) on youtube. I like to think my enlightenment will come in handy at some point.
You should message me if
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You're not afraid of actually meeting someone off here.