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31 Raleigh, NC Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 19-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 2, 2013
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Full figured
Other and it’s important
Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has dogs and Has cats
My self-summary
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Ultimately We are looking for a third, in what polyamory circles call, a Triad.

We are both nerdy artsy types, but don't need you to be. Someone who appreciates the time and energy we put into our art/work would be good.
Kara: I was raised on Sci-fi, visual media, art, fantasy, nature, good food, good manors, and adventure. To Me... discussing a movie, a spontaneous road trip, a few hours walking around a museum, helping others, great conversation, a backyard party, camping, and talking over dinner are some of the best things in life.

Need to know basics:
We are bi-sexuals, fairly liberal, Wiccan (not Christian) and active in our community. We have dogs & cats. We require honesty and communication in a relationship.

We are not here for a booty call, we're looking forward to dating interesting guys and having fun. But we'd also love to make new friends.
What I’m doing with my life
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Shona - Trying to make a business out of my Photography Degree... But currently earning money at a Customer Service Job.

Kara - Community and Religious Volunteer work, trying to earn a steady living from my at home-based arts and crafts business.

Together - Started up a boutique magazine The Spinning Wheel: a NC witches and pagans magazine. Community and Religious volunteer work.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Photography, Art, Writing, Event Coordination, Cooking, Volunteer Work, Liking a job well done, Sex, Thinking outside the box, Creativity in general, Learning, Adventure
The first things people usually notice about me
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Hair, Eyes, pale, curves, smiles, personality - actually in this order ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: DUNE, by Author: JD Robb, Peter Straub, Grisham, Jules Verne (20,000 Leagues Under the Sea), H.G. Wells, Michael Chriton, Isaac Asimov, Ray Bradbury, J.K. Rollings and Kara is an avid romance novel reader.

Movies: We watch ALL movies. It's far shorter list of movies we do not like. We also consider ourselves 'Movie Goers'.

Shows: GRIMM, Big Bang Theory, The New Girl, Supernatural, The New Normal, GLEE Project and GLEE, Doctor Who, Rookie Blue, BBC America shows, MINDY, Archer, Arrow, Raising Hope, and many more...

Music: We listen to ALL kinds of music, we are not big fans of Rap, Death Metal, or Polka.

Food: We are foodies. :) We like to go out and cook-in. Everything from a picnic to a dinner/dive to a Candle-lit ambiance.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my loved ones, my faith, entertainment, food, money, and good humor (these are in no particular order).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Family, jobs, other art, fun, winning the lottery, etc. etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sleeping, working, sexing, entertainment night... We are often doing Volunteering work on Saturdays so Friday Nights and Sundays are our BIG fun times. Shona has a rotating work schedule so that also plays a part in our Friday Nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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No matter what We do... just can't seem to keep the car clean... even after vacuuming.

We have an obscenely large collection of make-up. (A friend of ours is a shopoholic.)

And these are just the tip of the ice burg... duh da dummmmm!
You should message me if
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You have read the profile and are aware we come as package.

Are interested? Want to? The usual reasons? ;-)