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27 • Oakley, CA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 24–30
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends
- Last online
- Apr 20
- 5′ 2″ (1.57m)
- Body type
- Christianity, but not too serious about it
- Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
- Working on two-year college
- Seeing Someone
- Strictly monogamous
- Has cats
- English (Fluently)
- Im laid back and get along with most people.
- I can be shy but once i get to know someone i can be goofy and silly.
- I'm a kid at heart but I have also always been mature and responsible for my age.
- I love to learn and value common sense and intelligence (even if I myself am kinda blonde at times)
- I am not always the most confident (low self esteem from years of being put down) but it's a work in progress, changing your self perception takes time.
- I know what i want in life and i believe I am a good person. I will get there eventually just cant give up.
- I can be very stubborn (I blame my redneck blood for that lol)
- Im very open. Open to trying new things, different points of view...
- I'm very curious, I want to know things even when I know I really don't want to know.
- I love to help people, I feel like that's the best purpose I could have for my life. To positively touch the lives of others.
Something interesting about me is I have a pet praying mantis :) I would have a pet jumping spider too but my mom would be very displeased (she gave me a very hard NO. lol ) So that will have to wait until I have my own place :) I love animals in general and would someday like to make enough money to do rehabilitation/fostering on the side to help strays find homes.
I feel like in the process of learning how this dating business works i discover more and more about myself. With that said I feel like i prefer to get to know someone rather than be physical.Obviously there are exceptions when you click with someone, it's easier to feel close off the bat but I find it's best to just roll with whatever happens. I love to cuddle but i am looking for a friend who could become more, i feel in a relationship ideally you should be partners and good friends.I know my profile probably seems long winded but I just don't want to hurt anyone if I can help it.
I have also developed some major respect for guys when it comes to dating and dating sites. Most of the time they are the ones having to stick their neck out and face the possibility of rejection. I tried messaging a few guys on here and I don't know how you guys do it! So Kudos/Props to you! :)
more to come I just have no idea what to put on these things...
"Some people settle for the typical thing
Livin' all their lives waitin' in the wings
It ain't a question of 'if', just a matter of time
Before I move to the front of the line" (Stand Out by Powerline from the Goofy Movie)
Im also good at:
-making people laugh (usually unintentionally and At me but im ok with that)
- Keeping calm in somewhat stressful situations ("we arent lost its an adventure!" ^-^ )
- understanding other peoples points of view
MOVIES: Mystery, Comedy, Romantic Comedy, Disney, Dreamworks, really it just depends on what looks interesting and has a good story line
SHOWS: CSI (all three), Dexter, Vampire Diaries, The Voice, Criminal Minds, Grimm, Psych,...
MUSIC: A little of everything
FOOD: Mexican, Italian, American, Thai, Vietnamese, Chinese
4.My lil brother (he is my best friend)
You know what really bothers me? Who the Hell (pardon the language) gave ANYONE the right to use and mistreat someone else?!? it makes me SO mad! Since when are you and your needs more important than another human being? Since when is it ok to tease and drag along someones heart? Having been through it myself i will never understand though it will spin round and round in my head. I will never understand those people who pass for human beings who use and abuse others and their hearts.... it really makes me want to cry at times. We are all human and sometimes we cant help but hurt each other but those who do it purposefully... *sigh*
ALSO: I dont pay for this so DONT rate me just message me. Worse that will happen is i might not answer but if you rate me i wont even know! :)
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