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57 Purcellville, VA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 42-62
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 7
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Catholicism and laughing about it
Post grad
Has kid(s) and might want more
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I believe our compatibility is more about who we are, rather than what we do.

My friends would describe me as; fun to be around, honest, dry sense of humour, passionate, sometimes intense, loyal, occasionally irreverent, caring, flexible, adventurous, smart, worldly and a hell of a catch (well not really, but if they were REALLY good friends they would say this).

I enjoy my life; for all that it has offered and for all that is to be. I try hard to find some meaning to it, and at the same time accept the mystery of it all. I’m a bit of a romantic, with an enduring interest in philosophy, and psychology. I enjoy reading, and do watch movies, and some TV on occasions. I am both an introvert and extrovert. I’ve spent time working out my daemons and for the most part I’ve got them all lined up now. I am not much of a materialist, if the US economy is dependent on the likes of me; we are all in for a rough time. I’m game for most things, for me it’s as much the sharing of the experience as the event itself. I love long road trips. I’m more comfortable with a smaller group than some large event. However, I can do the full gambit from the “Spit & Saw Dust Pub (or the US equivalent) to Black Tie, without embarrassing either you or me too much. I have volunteered for many years, helping those in crisis. I feel it is a privilege to be there for others in their darkest times, and makes me a better human being.

I’m a divorced father with 2 children, a 22-year-old son and a 20-year-old daughter. My son has graduated from College, and my daughter is a junior away at College. I have been divorced over 10 years, and the dust has settled a longtime ago. I have no special ties to my house anymore, and I am opening to moving.

Now as for the evenings on moon lit beaches, and all those other clichés, well none of these seem to play a major part in my life. I suppose I should work harder on that! Oh yes, and I’m English, been here 20 years but still have the accent, if this makes any difference.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I find myself in a very comfortable period in my life. I am effectively an empty nester.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
It seems answering OK Cupid questions. I seem to have discovered a disturbing obsession with these ridiculous questions. Not sure what that says about me. Not sure if I am in total agreement with OKC about who I am.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my long gorgeous hair...

I think that most people would say is my accent, I still sound very English even after all these years.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Unbearable Lightness of Being, the Snow Leopard, anything by Yalom,

Music: Richard Thompson, Teddie Thompson, Joan Armatrading, JJ Cale, John Prine

Food: Thai, Lebanese, Vietnamese, Indian
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Children, books, my MacBook
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
anything and everything.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the moment there is no such thing as a typical Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that there are many more things I might tell you about me.
You should message me if
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If any of this seems interesting, and you would like to know more.