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- Ages 25–50
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Apr 14
- 5′ 11″ (1.81m)
- Body type
- A little extra
- Atheism, and laughing about it
- Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from high school
- Mostly monogamous
- Has kids
- Has cats
- English (Fluently)
Hey there potential friends! My name is Ruby and I'm a MtF preOp transgendered girl trying to find my way in the universe. I'm the parent of an awesome 14 year old son and a lover of people. I'm here to find friends and hopefully a girl to potentially share my life with.
What can I say about me, I'm a super positive, non judgemental loving person and I tend to surround myself with likeminded people. I really don't have time for bitter, pessimistic judgemental people in my life. I spent the last 39 years figuring out that if you can't be happy with yourself that you'll never be truly happy in any relationship and I'm happy to say that I've finally embraced who I am in life and am going after what I want and living life on my terms.
I'm a very loving person when It comes to relationships, I love just lying in bed with my partner and could totally spend the day snuggling. I love the outdoors and hiking, geocaching and exploring new places. I tend to live my life in a way where I don't worry about things and I like to see where the wind takes me. My idea for a fun vacation would be to hop in the car and just drive until I find somewhere interesting. I don't have time to sweat things I can't control and I abhor drama.
I love to laugh and sing and to make other people smile.
I am a (console) gamer, I don't do online games (mmo's) as they are too much of a time suck. That being said, gaming is my hobby. It's what I like to do with my free time instead of TV. I do like TV and movies in moderation but I really prefer something a little more interactive. I'm also an anime fan, I like to go to conventions and cosplay when I can afford it.
I'm looking for a woman kind of like myself or someone who aspires to find happiness in this world and beauty in the little things in life, I'm poly friendly and I believe in loving as much as humanly possible with no limits. I believe that honesty and trust are the foundations of any relationship and I truly believe that without those things relationships are doomed to fail.
Superficial things I like but I could really do without:
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