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39 F Saint Louis, MO

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 25–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 6
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism, and laughing about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Has kids
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Full disclosure about me

1. I'm Polyamorous and am a secondary in a poly family
2. I'm a kinkster, meaning I'm a submissive in the bdsm lifestyle and I run a monthly meet & greet group called Generation Kink.
3. I'm an atheist, please don't try to shovel your religion on me.
4. I have a 13 year old son and he is my number one priority.

If you are ok with these things then please continue reading.

Whew! Now that that's out of the way, let me actually say something about myself. First of all I am a very submissive guy, and I would like to meet someone that's ok with that. I'm Polyamorous and am in happy relationship with my poly family but I'm currently looking to date and find someone that I can share my life with as well.

I am a (console) gamer, I don't do online games (mmo's) as they are too much of a time suck. That being said, gaming is my hobby. It's what I like to do with my free time instead of TV. I do like TV and movies in moderation but I really prefer something a little more interactive. I'm also an anime fan, I like to go to conventions and cosplay when I can afford it. So to sum up the last paragraph I'm a big nerd lol

I have a teenage son who is my biggest priority and he's also my best bud. I know a lot of people don't believe that you can be friends with your children and still be a good parent but I think that's bunk. He's a good kid and I believe I'm a good parent.

My ex turned me on to the kink lifestyle (think 50 shades) and that's where I found my submissive side. What does that mean? Well it means a like a dominant woman or at least on that has a take charge attitude. I'm pretty sappy as far as romance goes, I like cuddles & kisses, long walks and experiencing new things. In learning about this side of myself I started a social group called Generation Kink. We host monthly meet & greets and take part in other local events such as burlesque. If any of this is too much for you, then I'm not the friend for you. I really can't handle intolerance of any kind. So if you are racist, sexist, homophobic or flat out judgemental, I suggest you look elsewhere.

I'm looking for a caring, nurturing, patient woman. Someone that doesn't mind a sensitive man. Someone that I can nerd out with on occasion and enjoy music with. Music is a huge part of my life and I would like someone that could appreciate that with me. I would definitely like to meet someone who loves to travel, see & try new things, and enjoy all that life has to offer.

In closing, I'm just looking for a friend and maybe a little more, I'm no creeper, I'm not just out for sex and I don't objectify people. If any of this sparks your interest. Please drop me a line.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm living it to it's fullest! I spent ten years of my life in a vanilla marriage, then I met my ex and she opened my eyes to the other side of life and I'm never going back! I am working to be a better father to my son, & bringing other kinky people together with my kinky social group that I run called Generation Kink!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at making people laugh, I'm not sure if it's my goofy personality or my clumsy nature but it makes people smile and that makes me happy!
The first things people usually notice about me
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People usually notice how bubbly and friendly I am! Also how I'm not afraid to laugh at myself. I learned a long time ago that if you can't laugh at yourself that you will lead a pretty miserable life.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Hmm books, lately I've been reading the Song Of Ice and Fire series. Movies and tv, I like your typical dorky sci fi stuff. Lately it has been Dexter, True Blood, The Walking Dead, Supernatural & American Horror Story. Music I'm a huge 311 fan my other favs include Incubus, The Urge, Fair to Midland, Brookroyal and Panic at the Disco.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Son
My Friends
Superficial things I like but I could really do without:
My iPhone
Video games
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What kinds of things I can get away with in my Domo costume! ^_^
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
When im not at home with my son, I'm exploring the Saint Louis kink lifestyle, meeting new friends and hosting events with my social group Generation Kink
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Hmm it's not really private but I have a transformation fetish. If you'd like to know what that means, send me a message and I'll elaborate.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are fun, open minded, want to meet other kinky folks, or just want someone to talk to or explore new things with.