1. I'm Polyamorous and am a secondary in a poly family
2. I'm a kinkster, meaning I'm a submissive in the bdsm lifestyle and I run a monthly meet & greet group called Generation Kink.
3. I'm an atheist, please don't try to shovel your religion on me.
4. I have a 13 year old son and he is my number one priority.
If you are ok with these things then please continue reading.
Whew! Now that that's out of the way, let me actually say something about myself. First of all I am a very submissive guy, and I would like to meet someone that's ok with that. I'm Polyamorous and am in happy relationship with my poly family but I'm currently looking to date and find someone that I can share my life with as well.
I am a (console) gamer, I don't do online games (mmo's) as they are too much of a time suck. That being said, gaming is my hobby. It's what I like to do with my free time instead of TV. I do like TV and movies in moderation but I really prefer something a little more interactive. I'm also an anime fan, I like to go to conventions and cosplay when I can afford it. So to sum up the last paragraph I'm a big nerd lol
I have a teenage son who is my biggest priority and he's also my best bud. I know a lot of people don't believe that you can be friends with your children and still be a good parent but I think that's bunk. He's a good kid and I believe I'm a good parent.
My ex turned me on to the kink lifestyle (think 50 shades) and that's where I found my submissive side. What does that mean? Well it means a like a dominant woman or at least on that has a take charge attitude. I'm pretty sappy as far as romance goes, I like cuddles & kisses, long walks and experiencing new things. In learning about this side of myself I started a social group called Generation Kink. We host monthly meet & greets and take part in other local events such as burlesque. If any of this is too much for you, then I'm not the friend for you. I really can't handle intolerance of any kind. So if you are racist, sexist, homophobic or flat out judgemental, I suggest you look elsewhere.
I'm looking for a caring, nurturing, patient woman. Someone that doesn't mind a sensitive man. Someone that I can nerd out with on occasion and enjoy music with. Music is a huge part of my life and I would like someone that could appreciate that with me. I would definitely like to meet someone who loves to travel, see & try new things, and enjoy all that life has to offer.
In closing, I'm just looking for a friend and maybe a little more, I'm no creeper, I'm not just out for sex and I don't objectify people. If any of this sparks your interest. Please drop me a line.