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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29-42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:31am
Asian, Pacific Islander
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Average build
Catholicism but it’s not important
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a pretty easy going guy with a lot of goals that I'm presently working on. I'm here looking for people who like to hang out, go out, whatever.

In a nutshell,
- SF Niners fan and Oakland A's fan
- Leads With Confidence
- Friends describe me as Ambitious, Optimistic, Adaptable, and Energetic

Although I can get pretty busy, I make the time for those that matter in my life. There's still that hole that I hope to fill. I do find the time to date or at least have a personal and social life. I am on the road a lot but it's not without the opportunity for company. Last year, it was NY, Las Vegas, Denver, etc. This year it's New Orleans, NY, Las Vegas, Portland, Macau, Australia, Taiwan, Manilla, Mexico, France and Sweden. Maybe others. Depends on the demands.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work for a tech company in Milpitas as the Sales Manager during the day time. At night, I develop young and old minds in the art of Kajukenbo Martial Arts. Also working hard on achieving some major lifetime goals.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- making you laugh ... or at least show you how to throw a mean left hook
- helping others reach their goals
- LISTENING...I have been described as a life coach from those close to me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm really good at what I do best ... being me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
- Living the Martial Way : A Manual for the Way a Modern Warrior Should Think by Forrest Morgan (It really modernizes the Warrior Ethos)
- Saving Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey
- How to Win Friends & Influence People by Dale Carnegie
Tao of Jeet Kune Do by Bruce Lee
- Art of War by SunTzu

MOVIES: (I'll just rattle off...)
Comedies, Science Fiction, Action, Rocky, The Godfather, A Few Good Men, The Full Monty, Rush Hour, Star Wars, The Dark Knight, Forrest Gump, Saving Private Ryan, anything with Tom Hanks, Full Metal Jacket, Hamburger Hill, Heartbreak Ridge, Unforgiven, anything directed by Clint Eastwood, Platoon, Slumdog Millionaire, The Bourne Trilogy, Gandhi, Pirates of the Caribbean Trilogy, Monsters Inc.

FOOD: (Depends on the craving...)
Sushi, steak, pizza, pasta, risotto, Chinese, Japanese, Filipino, Fusion, classic diner, comfort, soup/pho, hamburgers/steakburgers, truffles, oysters, crab, shrimp ... this list is making me hungry. Sorry.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My iPhone
My kids
My karate school
My students
My car
My wicked sense of humor that allows me to cope with the crap that life throws at me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- the past, because that's where I learned my most valuable lessons
- the present, because that's where I am
- the future, because that's what I'm planning on and will spend the rest of my life
- my students and the lessons I will teach for the day
- my customers and how I can make their lives better
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm training future martial arts champions. And training myself ... to become a better person and instructor.

Afterwards, you can find me having dinner with friends, checking out a movie, or hitting up a lounge for some drinks. This is usual just precludes anything that I do on Saturday night which is usually planned out but sometimes not. Just going with the flow. And having a good time while doing it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Whoa now! We just met. At least buy me a drink ... get me in the mood. LOL!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
1. Serious about looking for new friends or activity partners;
2. Likes cooking along side rather than cooking for;
3. Wants a partner in crime rather than a prisoner or a warden;
4. Can handle going out just as much as staying in;
5. Sees the value in a human being rather than the price tag;
6. You got swagger but also admit to your vulnerable side;
7. You thrive on the journey and not the destination;
8. Understands the meaning of and can get down to Erasure's "Take a Chance on Me"
9. You just want to get to know me.
10. TBD

Looking forward to hearing from you. Mahalo nui and cheers!

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