62 East Hartford, CT
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My self-summary
I am....Strong and soft...Confident and curious...Fun and hard-working...Compassionate and smart...Playful and intense...Spiritual and grounded...Classy and sassy...Content with what's here and eager for what's next.

And I'm looking for a man who is kind of like me. But with the male pieces.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a financial analyst by day, and developing a private practice "on the side" for Counseling with Breath Therapy--my calling. It seems there isn't enough time in the day to do it all, like add a relationship to all this. Except there is something I’ve learned about time in recent years. It opens up when we are “in the zone,” so to speak. And I know, too, that I am open to finding a love that’s true and spectacular. And know about miracles.
I’m really good at
looking through rose-colored glasses.
The first things people usually notice about me
The glow... a smile... that you matter
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - The Outlander, A Prayer for Owen Meany, A Return to Love, anything by Abraham-Hicks, the Seth books
Movies - August Rush, The Legend of Bagger Vance, American Beauty, Crash, Sliding Doors, Love Actually
Food - Real pizza, Indian, Mexican, Bacon
Music - Plumb, Sinking Deep, My Girl Tonight, Fields of Gold, Streets of Philadelphia, Secret Garden, Puccini arias.
The six things I could never do without
There is nothing I could never do without, having learned that upon having once lost the only thing I loved at all. Now there's a story. But I know what you're really asking: I love my music, roses, things that sparkle, sensuality, someone to chatter to (with!), laughing and playing, meditation. Maybe you.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
falling in love. Not just with you, but with my friends and family and the dew on those asparagus ferns as the sun is rising.
On a typical Friday night I am
wondering if I'll ever have a typical Friday night, and hoping the answer is never, being fond of surprises.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love falling in love. Even the heartbreaking parts of it. Because I have a dream--that someday the love will keep growing instead of stopping. Actually, it doesn't stop at all, if I'm paying attention. It all leads to you and me. And I believe in that. Just like a teenager. With that innocence. With that divinity.
You should message me if
you are aligned with Ferg's Law: "When everything can go right, it will, and at the best possible moment." And if you are thoughtful, and strong in spirit, you love to laugh, you like movies, walks, talking about what it's all about. You are confident and competent, and also know that life is supposed to be fun.

P.S. I wear heels...would like to look up at you...

P.P.S. You probably won't hear back from me if you have posted more pictures of your car/motorcycle than of you. I mean, really.

P.P.P.S. If you are more than 10 years younger than me, please move on. Please. Same goes for you guys who live across the country or the world.