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61 East Hartford, CT Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 55–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:43am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English, French (Poorly), Polish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Listen. I am a lady. When my beverage is served, you will find my napkin on my lap. I am a remarkable woman. I have overcome adversity. Unimaginable adversity at that. This would include…wait. That can’t be told on the first date. So let me tell you this. You are looking at a woman who has owned a restaurant, having learned on the job how to make it work. A woman who has made her mark as a mother. A woman who has worked her way up that old corporate ladder, with eternal appreciation to the men who believed in what she could accomplish before she could imagine it herself. A woman who also felt something powerful beating at the core of her being when she was reminded that she could create her own reality. From her thoughts. A woman who dreams big dreams, and steps out of her comfort zone in order to bring them to life. A woman who runs 5Ks, who teaches breath therapy, who makes spirit dolls, who finds the gold in unlikely people and places.

And I am looking for a man who…is you? How do you match?
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a financial analyst by day, and developing a private practice "on the side" for Counseling with Breath Therapy--my calling. It seems there isn't enough time in the day to do it all, like add a relationship to all this. Except there is something I’ve learned about time in recent years. It opens up when we are “in the zone,” so to speak. And I know, too, that I am open to finding a love that’s true and spectacular. And know about miracles.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
looking through rose-colored glasses.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The glow... a smile... that you matter
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - The Outlander, A Prayer for Owen Meany, A Return to Love, Sacred Sexuality, anything by Abraham-Hicks, the Seth books
Movies - August Rush, The Legend of Bagger Vance, Always, American Beauty, Crash, Sliding Doors, Love Actually
Food - Real pizza, Indian, Thai, Mexican, Bacon
Music - Vienna Teng, Pearl Jam, Snow Patrol, Rascal Flatts, Fields of Gold, Streets of Philadelphia, Secret Garden, Say, Human, arias, Damien Rice (at least that one song). Um, I wake up to country music...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
There is nothing I could never do without, having learned that upon having once lost the only thing I loved at all. Now there's a story. But I know what you're really asking: I love my music, roses, things that sparkle, sensuality, someone to chatter to (with!), laughing and playing, meditation, Rumi. Maybe you.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
falling in love. Not just with you, but with my friends and family and the dew on those asparagus ferns as the sun is rising.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
wondering if I'll ever have a typical Friday night, and hoping the answer is never, being fond of surprises.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love falling in love. Even the heartbreaking parts of it. Because I have a dream--that someday the love will keep growing instead of stopping. Actually, it doesn't stop at all, if I'm paying attention. It all leads to you and me. And I believe in that. Just like a teenager. With that innocence. With that divinity.

That, and I kinda sit on my cell phone while driving. So I'll know if a call comes through. From the vibration. [Update: Well, I used to. There are some things Smartphones don't do as well!!!]
You should message me if
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you are aligned with Ferg's Law: "When everything can go right, it will, and at the best possible moment." And if you are thoughtful, and strong in spirit, you love to laugh, you like movies, walks, talking about what it's all about. You are confident and competent, and also know that life is supposed to be fun.
P.S. I wear heels...would like to look up at you...
P.P.S. You probably won't hear back from me if you have posted more pictures of your car/motorcycle than of you. I mean, really.
P.P.P.S. If you are more than 10 years younger than me, please move on. Please.